Is visiting Nigeria dangerous for Polish woman? (Page 9)

Date: 22-10-2010 5:37 pm (13 years ago) | Author: JamaicanMermaid
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- olakelvin at 27-10-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago)
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I think your husband ashame to come back home maybe bcos he did something bad before he left Naija . Bcos i got a friend who feel ashsme to come back to Naija bcos his stole his fathers money to come Abroad and hope your husband didn't d o the same before he came to poland and  he start using his smelling mouth to talk shit about nigeria.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- fada at 27-10-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago)
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Nigeria is a nice place to be,i live and study in poland and now married to a polish with whom i am planning to bring to Nigeria to see my family by next year,,,,Witam w Nigerii Smiley,Nigerii bardzo fajnie kraju
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:10 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- devid75 at 27-10-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago)
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ur husband is telling u the true  u dont wanna believe  okey i dont talk my own ...ur now forcin ur self to come back if any thing happen to u make u noo blame him ..at all...u need security my sister wether u like it or not ,,ppl will tiff u ,kidnapp u, rubb u . listern to u husband ,ok stop coming here open ur dity mouth wild open
Posted: at 27-10-2010 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Daddys_Princess at 27-10-2010 03:03 PM (13 years ago)
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nigeria is not afghanistan... Grin
Posted: at 27-10-2010 03:03 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Allen-jones at 27-10-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Daddys_Princess on 27-10-2010 03:03 PM
nigeria is not afghanistan... Grin

My dear, do not mind those stories about Naija. They are all stories! Niaja is one of the best you can think of. One love, one 9Ja!
Posted: at 27-10-2010 03:53 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- nnadivine at 27-10-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago)
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Your husband is lying to you, Mey be he has a wife here in nigerian and never want you to come so that you will not discover that he is married. You should be careful with him or else he will dupe you and dump you. Our Government is aware such bad element like your husband who is out their tarnishing the image of our dear country nigeria.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Tbacio at 27-10-2010 05:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Ahahahahahahahaha this girl make me laugh oooooo. Go to Nigeria and enjoy urself or stay at home and die for beeing afraid. Polen lol. ur country is even more bad than Nigeria. na waooooooo
Posted: at 27-10-2010 05:34 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- rukudawa at 27-10-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Tbacio on 27-10-2010 05:34 PM
Ahahahahahahahaha this girl make me laugh oooooo. Go to Nigeria and enjoy urself or stay at home and die for beeing afraid. Polen lol. ur country is even more bad than Nigeria. na waooooooo

Dont attack the young woman,the woman is asking us coz she knows the media is filled with lies,so to clear those lies she needs to hear it from us the children of naija.Every country is great.

So young woman naija is a safe place to visit as long as you are focused i guess there should be nothing to stop you.
Posted: at 27-10-2010 06:08 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- nattyrag at 27-10-2010 08:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Hi Vanilla....
no one hating on u. But,remember Nigeria/Nigerians got a whole lot of haterz...hating on naija for no specific reason.
just out of jealousy n envy. Even some African brethren & sistren too. Go get ur bagages together n visit naija ok!! So long u married to Nigeian,u are part of us...one of us ok!!

Pls...go get ur husband to this forum. His attention is needed.

Bless.

Posted: at 27-10-2010 08:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- goingwithyou at 27-10-2010 08:15 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Tbacio on 27-10-2010 05:34 PM
Ahahahahahahahaha this girl make me laugh oooooo. Go to Nigeria and enjoy urself or stay at home and die for beeing afraid. Polen lol. ur country is even more bad than Nigeria. na waooooooo


 i tot u have something better to talk abt ... if u can't help can't u just shut up
Posted: at 27-10-2010 08:15 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Everton at 27-10-2010 08:25 PM (13 years ago)
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do u think polish people is better than nigerian´s or
fake onyibo for that matter.u married wit Nig, guy why not u ask him and to get all information
Posted: at 27-10-2010 08:25 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- gibsonpally at 27-10-2010 11:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mariamajane on 27-10-2010 11:43 AM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 26-10-2010 01:38 PM
WTH! why do people av to be so darn rude! Common all the gal did was ask u a question yet majority of y'all see this as a way to curse, berate and threaten her. Why cant u just post an objective response w/o sounding like barbarians.

@ mezkaz18- u think u r so cool yet u feel the need to talk, act n speak like a Bloody Rastafarian- shows how much u like ur culture

@keke405- haba! u wan stoop down to their level. Am sure ur frn got over it, I suggest u do the same. Btw, r u religious? cuz am sure forgiveness is highly appreciated. If people in the north and in South East r killing others due to the beef from the Biafran war n we call them barbarian for it, doesnt the same apply here?

@ moniconyez- na u born am? or u want make she kneel down greet u good morning KMT!

@XQ7MS- that sounded raacist n as sum1 that has seen it first hand I can honestly say that is well out of order.

@ poster- Nigeria is a beautiful place u need to find out if your husband doesnt want to take u to Nigeria now or ever. If this is a temp thing then dont worry give it time, however u shud b very worried if he has no plans wotsoever to take u there, afterall, every man (woman) shud b proud to show of their life partner to their family

If u cannot read between the lines and detect the insult built into the post, then you have no business calling anyone barbarian. First, she claimed she had a Nigerian husband whom she did not trust. A trademark of how Nigerians are viewed outside. Secondly, is Nigeria safe for a white woman? Whom will she believe, you or her husband? What type of marriage is that? There is a Nigerian Embassy in Poland where she could have gotten all the information at a finger-tip. Why didn't she? She knew polished girls had been to 9Ja and back safely. She knew other Nigerians in Poland. She did not ask any of them. She brought the mistrust between her and her Nigerian husband on a public forum to discuss. Now, what type of wife is she? Is that alleged marriage not doomed? We prefer serious issues on Naijapals rather than some egocentric seeking cheap publicity or sowing discord among Nigerians. Are there no white people working and living in 9JA? What is it about a polish woman? Is Nigeria still in the dark age with half-clad or naked savages roaming the jungle for white polish woman to kidnap or harm? What does it portray Nigeria?  If she were going to USA, gun-crime capital of the world, she would not have asked such a question. Rather, her post signified unspeakable disdain for Nigeria, an affront!

@ pmudias123

Up to you Mr plethora of young kids. You demean Nigerians! So, those well-meaning Nigerians on Naijapals who felt offended by her covert attack on Nigeria were so offended because they did not gain anything from her? How cheaply could you sell your own? Sometimes those holier than thou are no better!
Posted: at 27-10-2010 11:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Commonsense at 29-10-2010 02:37 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: vanilla on 22-10-2010 05:37 PM
Hey.
I would love to visit Nigeria, cause my husband is Nigerian. Im talkin exactly about Ibadan.
Is it dangerous for me to go there?
Is it so bad that i need security?
Pls answer sincerly !

According to your satement, I don't think you are married to a Nigerian because if you do, you will not be saying it hear. When you purportedly met your husband you did not ask us if he is a good man, now you are asking us if his country is safe to go to. Please don't deceive us with your chauvinistic question. Your claimed husband is a Nigerian as you said and he lies on the same bed as you so he is in a better position to answer your question.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 02:37 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- laydeelaracraft at 29-10-2010 01:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: moniconyez on 26-10-2010 03:49 PM
@laydeelaracraft No bi me born am.......... And I dey sure say my person fit behave the way she did......My sister call a spade a spade. Na we all dey outside Naija now, I kw them pass. And Which site u go don enter say hi to onyibo and wen the onyibo see say u be black e go run why?  This one na Naija pals no be world get am.Go to public places them go show u say them dey important pass u why?When we newly enter onyibo land no body go like sedon near u 4 skytrain there will be 2 gaps between ur left and right why?. If that polish woman wan rlly know hw far abt Naija, Shey na 4 public site like this she go come? She no no raod to Naija Embassy 4 her conutry? or contact her Embassy for Naija? She no fit take wetin e man tell am like that? She no trust or believe the man now,Think abt am sister. She jst wan fall our hand well well for here na wetin make her come here come talk am. Shey u sef see the video wey dey here so? Hw them dey matreat our pple?


Sumtimes, people r not clued up like we r but I personally dont think that her question was so bad that she had to be attacked like this. I'm sure u r probably harsh towards her cuz of what other people put u true. In my experience, haters r just haters, the find any excuse to hate people (their skin colour, their age, their gender, political view, religion etc). U gotta understand those people that were nasty to u r haters n u gotta move on past them. Paying them for the sins of others is so unfair unless they warrant it. If u live outside of Naija u will c how sumtimes people pre-judged u based on where u r frm, even within Nigeria, we r been stereotyped (as muslims, ibo, ijebu, warri,) by people that didnt take the time to get to know us.

I know how that make me feel and I dont want to ever be the source of that feeling to others. U seem like a gr8 guy that has been a victim of haters, pls biko dont b like them, dont stoop down to their level.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 01:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 29-10-2010 01:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mariamajane on 27-10-2010 11:43 AM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 26-10-2010 01:38 PM
WTH! why do people av to be so darn rude! Common all the gal did was ask u a question yet majority of y'all see this as a way to curse, berate and threaten her. Why cant u just post an objective response w/o sounding like barbarians.

@ mezkaz18- u think u r so cool yet u feel the need to talk, act n speak like a Bloody Rastafarian- shows how much u like ur culture

@keke405- haba! u wan stoop down to their level. Am sure ur frn got over it, I suggest u do the same. Btw, r u religious? cuz am sure forgiveness is highly appreciated. If people in the north and in South East r killing others due to the beef from the Biafran war n we call them barbarian for it, doesnt the same apply here?

@ moniconyez- na u born am? or u want make she kneel down greet u good morning KMT!

@XQ7MS- that sounded raacist n as sum1 that has seen it first hand I can honestly say that is well out of order.

@ poster- Nigeria is a beautiful place u need to find out if your husband doesnt want to take u to Nigeria now or ever. If this is a temp thing then dont worry give it time, however u shud b very worried if he has no plans wotsoever to take u there, afterall, every man (woman) shud b proud to show of their life partner to their family

If u cannot read between the lines and detect the insult built into the post, then you have no business calling anyone barbarian. First, she claimed she had a Nigerian husband whom she did not trust. A trademark of how Nigerians are viewed outside. Secondly, is Nigeria safe for a white woman? Whom will she believe, you or her husband? What type of marriage is that? There is a Nigerian Embassy in Poland where she could have gotten all the information at a finger-tip. Why didn't she? She knew polished girls had been to 9Ja and back safely. She knew other Nigerians in Poland. She did not ask any of them. She brought the mistrust between her and her Nigerian husband on a public forum to discuss. Now, what type of wife is she? Is that alleged marriage not doomed? We prefer serious issues on Naijapals rather than some egocentric seeking cheap publicity or sowing discord among Nigerians. Are there no white people working and living in 9JA? What is it about a polish woman? Is Nigeria still in the dark age with half-clad or naked savages roaming the jungle for white polish woman to kidnap or harm? What does it portray Nigeria?  If she were going to USA, gun-crime capital of the world, she would not have asked such a question. Rather, her post signified unspeakable disdain for Nigeria, an affront!

If thats ur view I respect it but sumhow I dont think that is ur general view. Loads of naija people air their dirty laundry on NP about relationships (esp girls), I dont remember u having a go at them for that reason ever. So whats her crime here?
- not presenting in a way we understand (try talking to sum1 frm a diff culture espially in Asia) n u will b surprised how things we think r normally r regarded as insulting
- she airs her dirty laundry out? well this is NP, most people r guilty of these
- she didnt go to the embassy instead? well i dont noe many people but I have been places in diff continents around the world n I dont remember going to seek for more information from their embassy (it is all bout trip-advisor m8). n u how many tyms did u or any1 u noe set up an appt to speak to a foreign embassy about what to expect their & visa application doesnt count!
- about her polish frn- well they gave her a diff view from her hubby, she needs a tie-breaker
- about trust issues? in naija we have a name 4 people that trust too blindly n take everything @ facevalue, they r called mumu/ mungun, take ur pick! I bet u av used that words a few tyms before.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 01:22 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 29-10-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nattyrag on 27-10-2010 08:06 PM
Hi Vanilla....
no one hating on u. But,remember Nigeria/Nigerians got a whole lot of haterz...hating on naija for no specific reason.
just out of jealousy n envy. Even some African brethren & sistren too. Go get ur bagages together n visit naija ok!! So long u married to Nigeian,u are part of us...one of us ok!!

Pls...go get ur husband to this forum. His attention is needed.

Bless.



gbam! so u sabi talk gently like this  Grin
Posted: at 29-10-2010 01:24 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- moniconyez at 29-10-2010 02:48 PM (13 years ago)
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@laydeelaracraft..........Yes he sabi talk gently if some one aproach him gently too. Cus that onyibo pepe don apologize to many of us. Infact she inboxed me personaly maybe she did the same to many others, But the case still remain the same i guess, And what about those insults from the onyibo to our beloved country? Has it been cleaned from the world eyes?
Posted: at 29-10-2010 02:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 29-10-2010 04:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kethey on 26-10-2010 11:41 AM
I just cant read all this... U pals talk too much...

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy l think yu're Right

Posted: at 29-10-2010 04:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Commonsense at 29-10-2010 04:54 PM (13 years ago)
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@laydeelaracraft or aircraft or whatever,

I know say na oyibo dey hammer you for London, no wonder.
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- livingday at 29-10-2010 08:40 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 29-10-2010 01:22 PM
Quote from: mariamajane on 27-10-2010 11:43 AM
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 26-10-2010 01:38 PM
WTH! why do people av to be so darn rude! Common all the gal did was ask u a question yet majority of y'all see this as a way to curse, berate and threaten her. Why cant u just post an objective response w/o sounding like barbarians.

@ mezkaz18- u think u r so cool yet u feel the need to talk, act n speak like a Bloody Rastafarian- shows how much u like ur culture

@keke405- haba! u wan stoop down to their level. Am sure ur frn got over it, I suggest u do the same. Btw, r u religious? cuz am sure forgiveness is highly appreciated. If people in the north and in South East r killing others due to the beef from the Biafran war n we call them barbarian for it, doesnt the same apply here?

@ moniconyez- na u born am? or u want make she kneel down greet u good morning KMT!

@XQ7MS- that sounded raacist n as sum1 that has seen it first hand I can honestly say that is well out of order.

@ poster- Nigeria is a beautiful place u need to find out if your husband doesnt want to take u to Nigeria now or ever. If this is a temp thing then dont worry give it time, however u shud b very worried if he has no plans wotsoever to take u there, afterall, every man (woman) shud b proud to show of their life partner to their family

If u cannot read between the lines and detect the insult built into the post, then you have no business calling anyone barbarian. First, she claimed she had a Nigerian husband whom she did not trust. A trademark of how Nigerians are viewed outside. Secondly, is Nigeria safe for a white woman? Whom will she believe, you or her husband? What type of marriage is that? There is a Nigerian Embassy in Poland where she could have gotten all the information at a finger-tip. Why didn't she? She knew polished girls had been to 9Ja and back safely. She knew other Nigerians in Poland. She did not ask any of them. She brought the mistrust between her and her Nigerian husband on a public forum to discuss. Now, what type of wife is she? Is that alleged marriage not doomed? We prefer serious issues on Naijapals rather than some egocentric seeking cheap publicity or sowing discord among Nigerians. Are there no white people working and living in 9JA? What is it about a polish woman? Is Nigeria still in the dark age with half-clad or naked savages roaming the jungle for white polish woman to kidnap or harm? What does it portray Nigeria?  If she were going to USA, gun-crime capital of the world, she would not have asked such a question. Rather, her post signified unspeakable disdain for Nigeria, an affront!

If thats ur view I respect it but sumhow I dont think that is ur general view. Loads of naija people air their dirty laundry on NP about relationships (esp girls), I dont remember u having a go at them for that reason ever. So whats her crime here?
- not presenting in a way we understand (try talking to sum1 frm a diff culture espially in Asia) n u will b surprised how things we think r normally r regarded as insulting
- she airs her dirty laundry out? well this is NP, most people r guilty of these
- she didnt go to the embassy instead? well i dont noe many people but I have been places in diff continents around the world n I dont remember going to seek for more information from their embassy (it is all bout trip-advisor m8). n u how many tyms did u or any1 u noe set up an appt to speak to a foreign embassy about what to expect their & visa application doesnt count!
- about her polish frn- well they gave her a diff view from her hubby, she needs a tie-breaker
- about trust issues? in naija we have a name 4 people that trust too blindly n take everything @ facevalue, they r called mumu/ mungun, take ur pick! I bet u av used that words a few tyms before.


@ laydeelaracraft

If you really read and understood the questions posed by Mariamajane, you will stop displaying inferiority complex or being an apologist for those that insult 9Ja. I expect the woman herself to be making her own case. You kept saying most people did this, did that, but on what statistics or research? Your questionable presumption that most are guilty does not mean an insult should be allowed anymore than from those you claimed. If you are married will you bring intimate matter as mistrust between you and your husband for public discussion? Unless you are not married or that marriage is already on the rocks. Does trusting your husband make you mumu or mugu?  I have travelled the world and is resident in London. I know most Nigeria embassies are online giving informative details about the country. Even Polish foreign Office do advise nationals on any country they want to visit! Are you a better tie-breaker than her friends, government and all the others did not care to ask ot trust? Your crap about foreign embassy / visa aplication is just jargon. If majority on Naijapals took exception to her post, you are obviously the mumu to believe her at face value.
Posted: at 29-10-2010 08:40 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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