what should I do

When you love someone and they don't love you back. we've been friends for a longtime now. When I told him how I feel about him, the answer he gave was, I care about and I mean no harm for you, but you said you were not ready for a relationship.  So he never said how he felt about me. And before we started talking he was not enaged, but now we still continue to talk, but not like he is even enagaged, and he told me he feels like he has someone close and he was saying all these things to, I'm a proverb 31 woman, he txts me like 6.00 in the morning, we even talk when he is at work, we send pictures to each other.  And the other day, telling me that he couldn't sleep at 6.00 in the morning that he is sick, then I ask him what's wrong, Just problems at home. Basically we talk about everything, I told him to pray about. So yesterday I txt, we always I txt him first or he does, so yester he told me that I love you as a good friend, you have been their when I need one, I don't have many friends but you are the number 2 friend next to my fiance. And Thank you sooooooooooooooo much. So now what should I do.

Posted: at 20-10-2008 06:43 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

ok I'll be waiting

Posted: at 20-10-2008 07:48 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

Ummm..I wld say u r lucky to get a guy that's sincer..coz he cld as well "play along" , deceiving you...I wld suggest you carry on..dont try to "force" urself on someone that doesnt want/need it....search for a "FRIEND" b4 looking for a lover coz a friend can easily turn to a lover but a lover might not necessarily be a Friend.
My dear, just take care of urself first and make sure your attitude gains you the respect u deserve from guys.
xxx

Posted: at 20-10-2008 07:58 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie

You know what? Just Leave Dat Guy Alone cuz its obvious he doesn't want any serious affair wiv u...OK!

Anyway I guess its difficult but its better now...Take Heart!

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Posted: at 20-10-2008 08:02 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

the guy is not serious. but just friendshipis ok.

Posted: at 20-10-2008 08:47 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

do wat u think is best for u

Posted: at 20-10-2008 09:33 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Hey dear pal i can feel wht u feel is a lie d feeling u having right now u urself did not understand it but i can help u out in one world
[Control ur emotions b4 they start controlling u]
To get another guy is not going to be easy for u like dat just dat u are going to be looking guys same look but get dis striaght d guy like and love u but just as friends nothing more is better u let go of it or u get urself in to u and ask later why did i do dis ....
Dear friend let go in one word ........

Posted: at 20-10-2008 10:23 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Well they have said it all..

1 - Put a stop to that textin early in the mornin business
2 - Respond to his texts once or twice...dont keep txtin back nd forth..
3 - Let go from ur heart
4 - Continue to Pray 4 ur own Man
5 - If he is yours he will come back to you.
6 - Love cannot be forced.

I wish u well 4 the future.

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Posted: at 21-10-2008 10:49 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

Passing by

Posted: at 22-10-2008 12:52 AM (15 years ago) | Hero