Am in love with my boyfried now but before we ever got together, I was with another person. he never gaved up asking me to be his girlfriend even though he knew I was already in a long distance relationship. as time when by I realised that I would gave him a chance as my previous relationships wasn't working. now we've been together for a month...he treats me nice but sometimes I feel like he's taking me for granted. Also I dont really trust him as my decisions in previous relationships hve been wrong. I really love this guy but I wish I can uderstand him because one minute I feel he really loves me than the next he acts funny. I dont want my piatience to run out. Guys please help me.........
Posted: at 27-10-2008 02:22 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
girlfriend, men r all lairs. u shld just know how to handle dem. u love him, yes, but dnt give him ur heart. he must earn it. if u're nt still convinced and satisfied wit him, it wont be too painful to pull out. think abt it.
Posted: at 27-10-2008 03:37 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
peacetee at 27-10-2008 10:25 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Lolijem on 27-10-2008 03:37 PM
girlfriend, men r all lairs. u shld just know how to handle dem. u love him, yes, but dnt give him ur heart. he must earn it. if u're nt still convinced and satisfied wit him, it wont be too painful to pull out. think abt it.
me is disagree with u totally Nt all men r liars...
@ poster
Communicate ur feelings with ur new love. 80% of relationship breakdown is due to lack of communication...anyways u have only been together a month, u are still learning about each other..dont let ur patience run out..As a woman ur middle name is 'patience'..
Success is not measured by what you accomplish but by the opposition you have encountered, and the c
Posted: at 27-10-2008 10:25 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mynameiskeji at 27-10-2008 10:46 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Lolijem on 27-10-2008 03:37 PM
girlfriend, men r all lairs. u shld just know how to handle dem. u love him, yes, but dnt give him ur heart. he must earn it. if u're nt still convinced and satisfied wit him, it wont be too painful to pull out. think abt it.
Whaoo I cannt believe someone cld say this..just tell me u r kidding or paranoid...
Posted: at 27-10-2008 10:46 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
mynameiskeji at 27-10-2008 11:03 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Why not try appreciating urself 1st?....honestly let's just keep those guys aside and try to make ourselves "important".. in whatever ways....dignity..modesty..intelligence...caring..humility....u name it.... Trust me..everyone around you will appreciate you ...not for what u can do or ur beauty..but just for who u r. Phewww..stori stori stori...yea.. yea but it works...
Posted: at 27-10-2008 11:03 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
Girl, you have been with this guy for a month.....and you are having all these problems already..... With all due respect, the issue could be you. You went from one relationship to the next without taking time to yourself after the break up and it sounds like you were seeing your current boyfriend while you were with your last boyfriend. After only a month, what can he do that makes you feel like he is taking you for granted?? After only a month, you feel like this is love.....girl, stop it.
Relationship takes patience, if you feel like this and its only a month into the relationship, how long do you think this relationship will last? I suggest you learn from your mistakes the pervious relationship .
You can't define me; I break the mold I speak my mind, don't do what I'm told I don't fake it, I co
Posted: at 28-10-2008 12:24 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
girlfriend, men r all lairs. u shld just know how to handle dem. u love him, yes, but dnt give him ur heart. he must earn it. if u're nt still convinced and satisfied wit him, it wont be too painful to pull out. think abt it.
e be like u dey lie wella for ur guy.... hanky-panky lover!!!!
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Posted: at 28-10-2008 12:26 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
mmemshima at 28-10-2008 03:40 PM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Ms_KiKi on 27-10-2008 02:22 PM
Am in love with my boyfried now but before we ever got together, I was with another person. he never gaved up asking me to be his girlfriend even though he knew I was already in a long distance relationship. as time when by I realised that I would gave him a chance as my previous relationships wasn't working. now we've been together for a month...he treats me nice but sometimes I feel like he's taking me for granted. Also I dont really trust him as my decisions in previous relationships hve been wrong. I really love this guy but I wish I can uderstand him because one minute I feel he really loves me than the next he acts funny. I dont want my piatience to run out. Guys please help me.........
u've dated 4 just one month babe there are still alot of things u're learning about each other,just be patient and realise that we are all different individuals with diffferent personality traits he might have mood swings and all that...have u ever heard about temperaments? if u cant cope with him just move on
Posted: at 28-10-2008 03:40 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
SAmyrocko at 28-10-2008 05:02 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Ms_KiKi on 27-10-2008 02:22 PM
Am in love with my boyfried now but before we ever got together, I was with another person. he never gaved up asking me to be his girlfriend even though he knew I was already in a long distance relationship. as time when by I realised that I would gave him a chance as my previous relationships wasn't working. now we've been together for a month...he treats me nice but sometimes I feel like he's taking me for granted. Also I dont really trust him as my decisions in previous relationships hve been wrong. I really love this guy but I wish I can uderstand him because one minute I feel he really loves me than the next he acts funny. I dont want my piatience to run out. Guys please help me.........
I THINK IS TOO EARLY TO DRAW YOUR CONCLUSION ON HIM.. I THINK IT WILLBE NECESSARY TO GIVE HIMSOME TIME SO THAT YOU CAN KNOW EACTLY WHAT HE IS.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 28-10-2008 05:02 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
girlfriend, men r all lairs. u shld just know how to handle dem. u love him, yes, but dnt give him ur heart. he must earn it. if u're nt still convinced and satisfied wit him, it wont be too painful to pull out. think abt it.
Whaoo I cannt believe someone cld say this..just tell me u r kidding or paranoid...
I no know for all dis our ladies oh
Posted: at 30-10-2008 02:34 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
pally4biuti at 30-10-2008 04:10 AM (16 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Ms_KiKi on 27-10-2008 02:22 PM
Am in love with my boyfried now but before we ever got together, I was with another person. he never gaved up asking me to be his girlfriend even though he knew I was already in a long distance relationship. as time when by I realised that I would gave him a chance as my previous relationships wasn't working. now we've been together for a month...he treats me nice but sometimes I feel like he's taking me for granted.Also I dont really trust him as my decisions in previous relationships hve been wrong. I really love this guy but I wish I can uderstand him because one minute I feel he really loves me than the next he acts funny. I dont want my piatience to run out. Guys please help me.........
firstly, you said your previous relationship wasn't working nd it is now wrong - why do you have to make such conclusion like dat dnt you know relationship is a means of communication your previous partner can never know wats on your mind except you speak out and bring him to understand you if needs be... secondly, you just met dis guy for just one month you are already making a conclusion, you just have to be patient in dealing with him and take your time for you to understand him...... lastly, he treats you nice wat else do you still want.... also you need communication to make things work out for you....
Be with someone who knows wat they ve wen they ve u............
Posted: at 30-10-2008 04:10 AM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
lenics007 at 31-10-2008 07:30 PM (16 years ago) (f)
hey gal dnt just let him get into ure head so much to d extent of affectin ure reasonin take it one step at a time en rilly get to know if u both are on d same page bt just dnt fall for him 2 much so u wont get hurt in case his funny behaviour ends up hurtin u aight
Posted: at 31-10-2008 07:30 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
eagleseyez at 31-10-2008 07:40 PM (16 years ago) (m)
Quote from: lenics007 on 31-10-2008 07:30 PM
hey gal dnt just let him get into ure head so much to d extent of affectin ure reasonin take it one step at a time en rilly get to know if u both are on d same page bt just dnt fall for him 2 much so u wont get hurt in case his funny behaviour ends up hurtin u aight
airing ur views is one thing, taking to reasonable advices like this is nother thing that a girl in love hardly considers...love is like a web, how much effort can she put in to break loose. i still re-affirm its a mirage
Posted: at 31-10-2008 07:40 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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