“Your wife is not your relative” – Nigerian man tells married men

Date: 23-08-2022 5:24 pm (1 year ago) | Author: Abasiodu Sunday
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A Nigerian man has sparked reactions after he maintained that a man and his wife are ‘not relatives’.

In a tweet that has generated discussion on the microblogging platform, the young man who goes by the handle Omobobola told married men that their wives are not relatives.

According to him, his father had taught him that if he ever decides to get married and have children, he should never forget that his wife is the only person in his home who is not a relative.

“At the end of the day your wife is not your relative. My father taught me that if I ever get married have kids, I should never forget in my home, my wife is the only one who isn’t my relative. As I grow older, his words become more real”, he tweeted.

His tweet sparked a lot of responses on social media, with many disagreeing with his stance.


A Twitter user @naija_rich_kids wrote,

“Father has already sown the seed of discord even before the marriage occurred. God help us in this marriage thing cos na we human beings dey spoil the thing ourselves.”

@adadike, “Someone you have been sharing your blood with is not your relative? You married her for what then? Should you have married your sister instead? Can you say your mother is not also your relative after all, she came from another blood line?”

@adedyo,

“OF course it’s TRUE. She’s the only alien to any index family.
You share no similarity in Genetic makeup with your wife but with her, you can make offsprings who will be related to you and her, genetically”.

Another Twitter user wrote,

“Mutual held ethical ideology cum bond is as thick as blood. It could even be thicker than blood, depending on the ethical leanings of the blood. So, a good wife (spouse) might not be a relative of her husband, but she’s something equal or even bigger than a relative and, as such, deserves every act of goodness/love from her husband. Don’t try to mend it if it isn’t broken, and if it’s broken, don’t bother to mend it.”

Posted: at 23-08-2022 05:24 PM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
- Jackcruz3 at 23-08-2022 05:50 PM (1 year ago)
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Even though your worman is as good as Angel above the sky, she is not a relative.
Likewise you are not a her relative too.
Besides, relatives never by purchase, morality or immorality..
When marriage got broken, we referred it to ex wife or ex husband. There's not ex relative in bible or Koran.
Posted: at 23-08-2022 05:50 PM (1 year ago) | Newbie
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- Ashilex at 23-08-2022 07:40 PM (1 year ago)
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Then who is She to you a passers-by.
Posted: at 23-08-2022 07:40 PM (1 year ago) | Upcoming
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- gogoman at 23-08-2022 09:34 PM (1 year ago)
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That's my son right there!!!  so I'm not the only one, wow wow I'm happy
Posted: at 23-08-2022 09:34 PM (1 year ago) | Grande Master
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- Boi2Man at 24-08-2022 04:29 AM (1 year ago)
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Quote from: Jackcruz3 on 23-08-2022 05:50 PM
Even though your worman is as good as Angel above the sky, she is not a relative.
Likewise you are not a her relative too.
Besides, relatives never by purchase, morality or immorality..
When marriage got broken, we referred it to ex wife or ex husband. There's not ex relative in bible or Koran.
Na true talk oo be dis oo no ex brother or ex sister but ex wife or ex girlfriend and more over you are not allowed to gbete your relatives but since a man can gbete the wife that shows they are not relatives but in a relationship. Case proven OED
Posted: at 24-08-2022 04:29 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kormeijama at 24-08-2022 07:37 AM (1 year ago)
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Simple misconstrued fact about a wife/ husband relationship. You're spot on.
Posted: at 24-08-2022 07:37 AM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
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