have been with this guy for like two months. his my world love him to death cos his fun to be wit, friendly, funny and sweet. when we started dated it was like Romeo and juliet sudden he started changing. he wouldnt call me nor text me for like a week of two and wen i did i get no reply, he became to avoid as if i was a monster i became so heartbroken cos this was the guy am so inlove wit. y best friend had warn to keep away from him cos he doesn't worth me i just get over it but is not as easy as that. because of him i started getting bad grades at school . i couldnt tell my friend cos she had warn me to keep off. a month later he called apologizing i quickly forgave him he wont change his relationship statues on facebook, each time i try to avoid him he come begging wich at the end i end up forgiving him. at the end of the semester when i saw my result i almost drop dead, got a big "F". my teacher kept asking whats wrong wit with me cos i was among the bright student in her class all i could tell her was "am always falling sick". i felt bad for my parents cos they've spent alot to see me true school and all i could repay the wit is a "Bad Grades" Hell No! am making up for those bad grades next semester and in doing that i have to get rid of my ungrateful boyfriend. Now i dont no what to do cos i cant look at the him in the eyes and break up with him cos i love him. i want out of these freaking relationship. have been avoiding him for like two weeks now still dont no what to do cos i cant no love someone that doesn't love me his just using me like my friend said. he only called when he misses me and when that is over he stop calling nor text me. please i need y'all advice on this, pls y'all should help me out :'( :'(
Posted: at 28-12-2010 09:50 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
have been with this guy for like two months. his my world love him to death cos his fun to be wit, friendly, funny and sweet. when we started dated it was like Romeo and juliet sudden he started changing. he wouldnt call me nor text me for like a week of two and wen i did i get no reply, he became to avoid as if i was a monster i became so heartbroken cos this was the guy am so inlove wit. y best friend had warn to keep away from him cos he doesn't worth me i just get over it but is not as easy as that. because of him i started getting bad grades at school . i couldnt tell my friend cos she had warn me to keep off. a month later he called apologizing i quickly forgave him he wont change his relationship statues on facebook, each time i try to avoid him he come begging wich at the end i end up forgiving him. at the end of the semester when i saw my result i almost drop dead, got a big "F". my teacher kept asking whats wrong with me cos i was among the bright student in her class all i could tell her was "am always falling sick". i felt bad for my parents cos they've spent alot to see me true school and all i could repay the wit is a "Bad Grades" Hell No! am making up for those bad grades next semester and in doing that i have to get rid of my ungrateful boyfriend. Now i dont no what to do cos i cant look at the him in the eyes and break up with him cos i love him. i want out of these freaking relationship. have been avoiding him for like two weeks now still dont no what to do cos i cant no love someone that doesn't love me his just using me like my friend said. he only called when he misses me and when that is over he stop calling nor text me. please i need y'all advice on this, pls y'all should help me out :'( :'(
Posted: at 28-12-2010 09:53 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
have been with this guy for like two months. his my world love him to death cos his fun to be wit, friendly, funny and sweet. when we started dated it was like Romeo and juliet sudden he started changing. he wouldnt call me nor text me for like a week of two and wen i did i get no reply, he became to avoid as if i was a monster i became so heartbroken cos this was the guy am so inlove wit. y best friend had warn to keep away from him cos he doesn't worth me i just get over it but is not as easy as that. because of him i started getting bad grades at school . i couldnt tell my friend cos she had warn me to keep off. a month later he called apologizing i quickly forgave him he wont change his relationship statues on facebook, each time i try to avoid him he come begging wich at the end i end up forgiving him. at the end of the semester when i saw my result i almost drop dead, got a big "F". my teacher kept asking whats wrong with me cos i was among the bright student in her class all i could tell her was "am always falling sick". i felt bad for my parents cos they've spent alot to see me true school and all i could repay the wit is a "Bad Grades" Hell No! am making up for those bad grades next semester and in doing that i have to get rid of my ungrateful boyfriend. Now i dont no what to do cos i cant look at the him in the eyes and break up with him cos i love him. i want out of these freaking relationship. have been avoiding him for like two weeks now still dont no what to do cos i cant no love someone that doesn't love me his just using me like my friend said. he only called when he misses me and when that is over he stop calling nor text me. please i need y'all advice on this, pls y'all should help me out :'( :'(
Posted: at 28-12-2010 09:54 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
dirtykid at 28-12-2010 03:52 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Poster>> what has Love got to do with your studies/concentrations in the class, hmmm ! Does it mean those married ones that still study, will definitely be failing every semester ?? No matter how much you claim to Love this guy, that doesn't stop you to concentrate with your studies, You must learn first how to count one before you count two.
The way this Love is doing you, even if you breakup with this guy now, You will still hook up another and the same will happen with your studies and grades.
Open your inner eyes and focus well.. Save the best Love for the last
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 28-12-2010 03:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
FlyMamacita at 28-12-2010 03:54 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: dirtykid on 28-12-2010 03:52 PM
Poster>> what has Love got to do with your studies/concentrations in the class, hmmm ! Does it mean those married ones that still study, will definitely be failing every semester ?? No matter how much you claim to Love this guy, that doesn't stop you to concentrate with your studies, You must learn first how to count one before you count two.
The way this Love is doing you, even if you breakup with this guy now, You will still hook up another and the same will happen with your studies and grades.
Open your inner eyes and focus well.. Save the best Love for the last
Very good advice sweetie!
Posted: at 28-12-2010 03:54 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dirtykid at 28-12-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) (m)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 28-12-2010 03:54 PM
Quote from: dirtykid on 28-12-2010 03:52 PM
Poster>> what has Love got to do with your studies/concentrations in the class, hmmm ! Does it mean those married ones that still study, will definitely be failing every semester ?? No matter how much you claim to Love this guy, that doesn't stop you to concentrate with your studies, You must learn first how to count one before you count two.
The way this Love is doing you, even if you breakup with this guy now, You will still hook up another and the same will happen with your studies and grades.
Open your inner eyes and focus well.. Save the best Love for the last
Very good advice sweetie!
DirtyKid is a Happy Kid !!.....FATHER !! I've cast my bread on the waters long time ago. Now it's time 4u to return it, well buttered !!
Posted: at 28-12-2010 04:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
juleshotluv at 28-12-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Leave him a text message, leave him a message on facebook or call him when you think he is not going to pick, and leave him a voice message saying its over.
Posted: at 28-12-2010 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
have been with this guy for like two months. his my world love him to death cos his fun to be wit, friendly, funny and sweet. when we started dated it was like Romeo and juliet sudden he started changing. he wouldnt call me nor text me for like a week of two and wen i did i get no reply, he became to avoid as if i was a monster i became so heartbroken cos this was the guy am so inlove wit. y best friend had warn to keep away from him cos he doesn't worth me i just get over it but is not as easy as that. because of him i started getting bad grades at school . i couldnt tell my friend cos she had warn me to keep off. a month later he called apologizing i quickly forgave him he wont change his relationship statues on facebook, each time i try to avoid him he come begging wich at the end i end up forgiving him. at the end of the semester when i saw my result i almost drop dead, got a big "F". my teacher kept asking whats wrong wit with me cos i was among the bright student in her class all i could tell her was "am always falling sick". i felt bad for my parents cos they've spent alot to see me true school and all i could repay the wit is a "Bad Grades" Hell No! am making up for those bad grades next semester and in doing that i have to get rid of my ungrateful boyfriend. Now i dont no what to do cos i cant look at the him in the eyes and break up with him cos i love him. i want out of these freaking relationship. have been avoiding him for like two weeks now still dont no what to do cos i cant no love someone that doesn't love me his just using me like my friend said. he only called when he misses me and when that is over he stop calling nor text me. please i need y'all advice on this, pls y'all should help me out :'( :'(
Just get out of the kitchen if you cannot stand the heat. By the way, are you in a higher institution or high school? sorry, just curious.
FAKE PROFILES DOESN'T BOTHER ME ONE BIT, UNLESS PEOPLE HIDE BEHIND THEM TO SPIT VENOM. SHOW THE BOLDNESS OF A LION NEXT TIME......USE YOUR ORIGINAL PROFILE!!
Posted: at 28-12-2010 05:08 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
It is not going to be easy though, but you just have be yourself and distance yourself from this shaky relationship.
Getting out of it, if you don't be careful, it is going to affect you so much that you are going to have more bad grades. So you just have to be yourself.
Posted: at 28-12-2010 05:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
have been with this guy for like two months. his my world love him to death cos his fun to be wit, friendly, funny and sweet. when we started dated it was like Romeo and juliet sudden he started changing. he wouldnt call me nor text me for like a week of two and wen i did i get no reply, he became to avoid as if i was a monster i became so heartbroken cos this was the guy am so inlove wit. y best friend had warn to keep away from him cos he doesn't worth me i just get over it but is not as easy as that. because of him i started getting bad grades at school . i couldnt tell my friend cos she had warn me to keep off. a month later he called apologizing i quickly forgave him he wont change his relationship statues on facebook, each time i try to avoid him he come begging wich at the end i end up forgiving him. at the end of the semester when i saw my result i almost drop dead, got a big "F". my teacher kept asking whats wrong wit with me cos i was among the bright student in her class all i could tell her was "am always falling sick". i felt bad for my parents cos they've spent alot to see me true school and all i could repay the wit is a "Bad Grades" Hell No! am making up for those bad grades next semester and in doing that i have to get rid of my ungrateful boyfriend. Now i dont no what to do cos i cant look at the him in the eyes and break up with him cos i love him. i want out of these freaking relationship. have been avoiding him for like two weeks now still dont no what to do cos i cant no love someone that doesn't love me his just using me like my friend said. he only called when he misses me and when that is over he stop calling nor text me. please i need y'all advice on this, pls y'all should help me out :'( :'(
did u say u r in secondary school or Uni/poly? honestly i think ur priority should be ur education. 4rm wot i read here, u r really doing badly in school.
emm....abt ur pretender loverboy? like Bittersweet commented, u knw wot to do!
Posted: at 28-12-2010 07:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
JAZZLYNN at 29-12-2010 05:02 AM (13 years ago) (f)
@poster This guy is using u like ur friend said, bcause he know that you love him 2 much 2 call it quits n he knows that he can come back to u to get whatever he wants whenever he wants it. Leave this guy bcause he don't deserve u. You should concentrate on your studies and make your parents proud. There will always b another guy out there who will love n treat u the way u should b treated.
GOOD LUCK WITH UR STUDIES
Posted: at 29-12-2010 05:02 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie