![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-01-2011 02:04 AM (13 years ago)  (f) the poster is the third party in their relationship.. and they are heading for marriage and it is not easy to poke your nose like that because if anything goes wrong... trust me the poster will share part of it.... nowadays people take advises wrong way....
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:04 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@jules what will u do ?after you have tried your best to convince are not to huh?
Am just wondering why nobody is saying anything reasonable apart from is none of my business, its her life and so on...how about advice her to do this or that? Am not seeing that here... | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:06 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-01-2011 02:10 AM (13 years ago) (f) although i don't like the act of gays but if the parents are aware of it and they are supportive then it is none of the poster business only unless if all or majority of her friends family are not supportive then that is when the poster can tell her friend every piece of her mind
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:10 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the poster is the third party in their relationship.. and they are heading for marriage and it is not easy to poke your nose like that because if anything goes wrong... trust me the poster will share part of it.... nowadays people take advises wrong way....
But this relationship didnt just up and started at them getting married. they dated for awhile before marriage came in, so why didnt someone say something to her before now? Why do they wait until now to raise the topic? I strongly doubt if any of us here would allow our own sister to marry a gay guy, even if its none of our business. in shot, if it comes to family, we would make it our own business. | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:11 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-01-2011 02:15 AM (13 years ago) (f) @jules what will u do ?after you have tried your best to convince are not to huh?
Am just wondering why nobody is saying anything reasonable apart from is none of my business, its her life and so on...how about advice her to do this or that? Am not seeing that here... i will only advise if it is just relationship but relationship that has already landed to getting married is very delicate.. by the way why did't the poster advice her friend when she was still in just normal relationship??? why this late... ABEG JOR
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:15 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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although i don't like the act of gays but if the parents are aware of it and they are supportive then it is none of the poster business only unless if all or majority of her friends family are not supportive then that is when the poster can tell her friend every piece of her mind
But she didnt point that out though..right? there is no parent in her rightful mind that would let her child marry a gay person, for what? Are you kidding me? it might be that everyone is busy minding their that everyone is afraid to even inform the parents of what is happening. | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:21 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-01-2011 02:24 AM (13 years ago) (f) the poster is the third party in their relationship.. and they are heading for marriage and it is not easy to poke your nose like that because if anything goes wrong... trust me the poster will share part of it.... nowadays people take advises wrong way....
But this relationship didnt just up and started at them getting married. they dated for awhile before marriage came in, so why didnt someone say something to her before now? Why do they wait until now to raise the topic? I strongly doubt if any of us here would allow our own sister to marry a gay guy, even if its none of our business. in shot, if it comes to family, we would make it our own business.
well well for me it depends on family sha.. a child can't just grow up in my family and say he/she wants to become gay lailai... as for this matter the family are not complaining and it is the to poster to continue or end their friendship if she can't take it no more.. (i don;t want to judge gays because i am not God and also many straight do worst than gays)( this is the time the poster friend will know her true friends)
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:24 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "ILOVEIT") ILOVEIT at 12-01-2011 02:27 AM (13 years ago) (m) @jules what will u do ?after you have tried your best to convince are not to huh?
Am just wondering why nobody is saying anything reasonable apart from is none of my business, its her life and so on...how about advice her to do this or that? Am not seeing that here... no i think some meant after advice,they will let her be...me, like i said earlier i will breakup the friendship as soon as i did advice him/her not to...even if i noticed earlier enough that he/she are engaged in such taboo,i'll advice immediately.if he/she insist then am out..
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:27 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-01-2011 02:32 AM (13 years ago) (f) although i don't like the act of gays but if the parents are aware of it and they are supportive then it is none of the poster business only unless if all or majority of her friends family are not supportive then that is when the poster can tell her friend every piece of her mind
But she didnt point that out though..right? there is no parent in her rightful mind that would let her child marry a gay person, for what? Are you kidding me? it might be that everyone is busy minding their that everyone is afraid to even inform the parents of what is happening. afraid of informing the parents ke? why should they be afraid... it is not like the gay friend is feeding them now...the parents have every right to know that they won't get grandchildren ooo... that is why people need to have more than one child... but it is her happiness that is important... so people her kind of right to say it is her life.. her choice
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:32 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@jules what will u do ?after you have tried your best to convince are not to huh?
Am just wondering why nobody is saying anything reasonable apart from is none of my business, its her life and so on...how about advice her to do this or that? Am not seeing that here... i will only advise if it is just relationship but relationship that has already landed to getting married is very delicate.. by the way why did't the poster advice her friend when she was still in just normal relationship??? why this late... ABEG JOR I also pointed that out as well, why wait till now that they are in this stage? @poster, please answer. | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:41 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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@jules what will u do ?after you have tried your best to convince are not to huh?
Am just wondering why nobody is saying anything reasonable apart from is none of my business, its her life and so on...how about advice her to do this or that? Am not seeing that here... no i think some meant after advice,they will let her be...me, like i said earlier i will breakup the friendship as soon as i did advice him/her not to...even if i noticed earlier enough that he/she are engaged in such taboo,i'll advice immediately.if he/she insist then am out.. Oh, if they meant that then i didnt know....i cant just assume that, that is what they meant. | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:42 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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the poster is the third party in their relationship.. and they are heading for marriage and it is not easy to poke your nose like that because if anything goes wrong... trust me the poster will share part of it.... nowadays people take advises wrong way....
But this relationship didnt just up and started at them getting married. they dated for awhile before marriage came in, so why didnt someone say something to her before now? Why do they wait until now to raise the topic? I strongly doubt if any of us here would allow our own sister to marry a gay guy, even if its none of our business. in shot, if it comes to family, we would make it our own business.
well well for me it depends on family sha.. a child can't just grow up in my family and say he/she wants to become gay lailai... as for this matter the family are not complaining and it is the to poster to continue or end their friendship if she can't take it no more.. (i don;t want to judge gays because i am not God and also many straight do worst than gays)( this is the time the poster friend will know her true friends) the parents are not complaining probably because they dont know what is going on..as i said before, no parent in their rightful mind would allow their child to go into a gay relationship especially if they are looking forward for their child to have children. | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "cayico") cayico at 12-01-2011 02:49 AM (13 years ago) (f) passing | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:49 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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although i don't like the act of gays but if the parents are aware of it and they are supportive then it is none of the poster business only unless if all or majority of her friends family are not supportive then that is when the poster can tell her friend every piece of her mind
But she didnt point that out though..right? there is no parent in her rightful mind that would let her child marry a gay person, for what? Are you kidding me? it might be that everyone is busy minding their that everyone is afraid to even inform the parents of what is happening. afraid of informing the parents ke? why should they be afraid... it is not like the gay friend is feeding them now...the parents have every right to know that they won't get grandchildren ooo... that is why people need to have more than one child... but it is her happiness that is important... so people her kind of right to say it is her life.. her choice the same reason they are afraid of ruining her happiness with her gay husband to be..maybe because the parents are going to be disappointed with their daughter. if the parents know, they would talk her out of it, believe me. I doubt if they knew and still support her. if they do and still support her then something definitely isnt right. Yeah her happiness is important so why is her friend here stressing about it? | Posted: at 12-01-2011 02:50 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "omorewa") omorewa at 12-01-2011 03:01 AM (13 years ago) (f) sorry jules was eating cheesecake with strawberry....... anyway typing can't solve their problem but poster can help her with words... i think the poster can tip thee parent anonymously .......... but how long has she been gay for?
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 03:01 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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she is old enough to make a decision | Posted: at 12-01-2011 03:27 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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sorry jules was eating cheesecake with strawberry....... anyway typing can't solve their problem but poster can help her with words... i think the poster can tip thee parent anonymously .......... but how long has she been gay for?
Thank you for sharing the love Omorewa..making my mouth all waterlily..   Concerning the post, poster needs to let us know more about what is happening here. Are the parents in on this or not? | Posted: at 12-01-2011 05:26 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "fireman") fireman at 12-01-2011 05:55 AM (13 years ago) (m) Am not homophobic but the truth is, i hate the practise... Like they say, hate the game and not the player... Imagine your closest friend is about to get married to a gay, what will you do? Tell her? Oh no..she won't believe u...
well guess there's nothing you can do it's a choice.
aquila non decapit muscas | Posted: at 12-01-2011 05:55 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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hmmmmmmmmmm... why is everyone saying its her life, her business..so dont get involved? how about if it was your sister? 
We don't have the right to judge! God will take care of everything! Everybody will pay for their actions!
Live and let live! | Posted: at 12-01-2011 09:30 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Jules, i feel u...it is kinda weird how u wud just let everytin happen like dat...but like i said
b4 d marriage of course i wud hav talked to her already...if she is not ready to listen,then she is on her own....
Bittersweet, hmmmm u cant say she is not disturbing anybody, wot of the family?? | Posted: at 12-01-2011 09:50 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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