wat do u actually want us to do nw poster? If d parents r nt getting loggerheads ova d issue,is it me dat wil stand in their way? No way! Posted: at 12-01-2011 09:54 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Jules, i feel u...it is kinda weird how u wud just let everytin happen like dat...but like i said b4 d marriage of course i wud hav talked to her already...if she is not ready to listen,then she is on her own....
Bittersweet, hmmmm u cant say she is not disturbing anybody, wot of the family??
Disturbing as in what? The shame she's putting them in? Well, some ppl don't care about what ppl say and we should all think the same. When it's about an adult who is choosing her lifestyle, even if you come with arguments that her choice is not a good one,the chances for her to change it are very small,so they must accept it and live with it!
Live and let live! Posted: at 12-01-2011 10:02 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Jules, i feel u...it is kinda weird how u wud just let everytin happen like dat...but like i said b4 d marriage of course i wud hav talked to her already...if she is not ready to listen,then she is on her own....
Bittersweet, hmmmm u cant say she is not disturbing anybody, wot of the family??
Disturbing as in what? The shame she's putting them in? Well, some ppl don't care about what ppl say and we should all think the same. When it's about an adult who is choosing her lifestyle, even if you come with arguments that her choice is not a good one,the chances for her to change it are very small,so they must accept it and live with it! Exactly the shame she is putting them in. She is getting married, means she is probably still living home, so as long as she live under her parents roof she have to pay attention to their opinion too! It is one thing to bring shame on yourself, but on the family is something else! If it is my son, i can not just sit there and watch the whole thing happen! Of course i have to care! Posted: at 12-01-2011 10:51 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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Jules, i feel u...it is kinda weird how u wud just let everytin happen like dat...but like i said b4 d marriage of course i wud hav talked to her already...if she is not ready to listen,then she is on her own....
Bittersweet, hmmmm u cant say she is not disturbing anybody, wot of the family??
Disturbing as in what? The shame she's putting them in? Well, some ppl don't care about what ppl say and we should all think the same. When it's about an adult who is choosing her lifestyle, even if you come with arguments that her choice is not a good one,the chances for her to change it are very small,so they must accept it and live with it! Exactly the shame she is putting them in. She is getting married, means she is probably still living home, so as long as she live under her parents roof she have to pay attention to their opinion too! It is one thing to bring shame on yourself, but on the family is something else! If it is my son, i can not just sit there and watch the whole thing happen! Of course i have to care! Maybe she lives alone, who knows! When one is in such a sh*t,it's almost impossible to get her/him out of there! You can say that it's a lost battle even from the start!
Live and let live! Posted: at 12-01-2011 10:56 AM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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Jules, i feel u...it is kinda weird how u wud just let everytin happen like dat...but like i said b4 d marriage of course i wud hav talked to her already...if she is not ready to listen,then she is on her own....
Bittersweet, hmmmm u cant say she is not disturbing anybody, wot of the family??
Disturbing as in what? The shame she's putting them in? Well, some ppl don't care about what ppl say and we should all think the same. When it's about an adult who is choosing her lifestyle, even if you come with arguments that her choice is not a good one,the chances for her to change it are very small,so they must accept it and live with it! Exactly the shame she is putting them in. She is getting married, means she is probably still living home, so as long as she live under her parents roof she have to pay attention to their opinion too! It is one thing to bring shame on yourself, but on the family is something else! If it is my son, i can not just sit there and watch the whole thing happen! Of course i have to care! Maybe she lives alone, who knows! When one is in such a sh*t,it's almost impossible to get her/him out of there! You can say that it's a lost battle even from the start! Hmmm, maybe but even then i must fight it...... For any other thing i can listen to her and care for her feelings, but something like this? NO! Especialy when i raise her under the name of God, i no go let such tin happen...........Not to think of wht her father wud do hmmmm Posted: at 12-01-2011 12:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I guess she didn't ask for her parents' permission! In these cases, they either accept her choice, or they lose her.
Live and let live! Posted: at 12-01-2011 12:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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I guess she didn't ask for her parents' permission! In these cases, they either accept her choice, or they lose her.
But then somtin went wrong with raising this child....bcos if u teach them right from time wht is wrong and right, the respect they hav to show for family-home-parents, the tins she can try,.........
somtin like dis wudn happen?? aaaaah God forbid Posted: at 12-01-2011 12:35 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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I guess she didn't ask for her parents' permission! In these cases, they either accept her choice, or they lose her.
But then somtin went wrong with raising this child....bcos if u teach them right from time wht is wrong and right, the respect they hav to show for family-home-parents, the tins she can try,.........
somtin like dis wudn happen?? aaaaah God forbid God forbid indeed!
Live and let live! Posted: at 12-01-2011 12:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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omorewa at 12-01-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) (f) sorry jules was eating cheesecake with strawberry....... anyway typing can't solve their problem but poster can help her with words... i think the poster can tip thee parent anonymously .......... but how long has she been gay for?
Thank you for sharing the love Omorewa..making my mouth all waterlily.. Concerning the post, poster needs to let us know more about what is happening here. Are the parents in on this or not? lol....... anyway i am kinda confused too with post because not enough information
don't over step your boundaries.. thank you! Posted: at 12-01-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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princedafe at 12-01-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) (m) None of my business!
WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED Posted: at 12-01-2011 03:35 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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xena15 at 12-01-2011 05:57 PM (13 years ago) (f) WTF?
D devil must b using ur destiny 2 weave his pubic hair if u think imma change all ma colors 4 u! Posted: at 12-01-2011 05:57 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Kennee at 12-01-2011 06:09 PM (13 years ago) (m) Am not homophobic but the truth is, i hate the practise... Like they say, hate the game and not the player... Imagine your closest friend is about to get married to a gay, what will you do? Tell her? Oh no..she won't believe u...
The Closeness go Reduce
WHEN YU DIE YU TAKE NOTHING WITH YU, SO PLS PUT A SMILE ON YUR NEIGHBOR'S FACE Posted: at 12-01-2011 06:09 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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None of my business!
WELLSAID AND SUPPORTED
Live and let live! Posted: at 12-01-2011 06:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero | |
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