My Husband Cheats On Me. Says I Wasn't The One He Wanted to Marry Because I'm a Graduate - Lady

Date: 27-07-2023 4:07 pm (1 year ago) | Author: Bayo Nelson
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A Nigerian woman has revealed that crisis is rocking her marriage. The lady by name, Gloria said she's considering ending her marriage because her husband cheats on her and said he never planned to marry her because she is a graduate and wants to ‘’control'' him.
 
According to Gloria, her husband is a secondary school leaver and their marriage was beautiful at the beginning.
 
“I am five years in marriage and we have two children, I am a graduate and I am working, my husband is a sec school cert and he has hand work but that's not a problem for me I love my husband, we had a very beautiful beginning and lots of good plans for the future but all of a sudden I noticed that my husband is beginning to cheat on me,” she wrote in a Facebook post on Thursday, July 27, 2023.
 
"At some point he was apologizing but lately he started telling me that I was not the one he wanted to marry, that I am too wise because I am a graduate I want to control him, so want to mingle with his level.
 
"I was confused and was wondering the things I do that makes him feel that I am controlling him but couldn't figure out anything.. one day I went to report him to his sister that was when I got to know that the sister has been the one planting the idea of cheating in him, that Igbo people are too wise and this one now is a graduate better look for your level.
 
“Three weeks ago I had misunderstanding with my husband, the following morning I greeted him he said I should stop greeting him up till now he doesn't talk to me, we are just living like house mates we don't talk to each other, the fact that he cheats no longer border me because I am working even the children school fees I am the one paying. My plan is to save up money and pack out because he no longer regard me as a person or what do you think I should do? Sorry for the lengthy typing,”


Posted: at 27-07-2023 04:07 PM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
- gogoman at 27-07-2023 04:15 PM (1 year ago)
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You don't need to save up!!! YOU NEED TO MOVE OUT RIGHT NOW!!! since u are working, money will still come in... so move out!! leave the bastard  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 27-07-2023 04:15 PM (1 year ago) | Grande Master
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- kp45 at 27-07-2023 06:14 PM (1 year ago)
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Hmmm
Posted: at 27-07-2023 06:14 PM (1 year ago) | Addicted Hero
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- angelzizi at 27-07-2023 08:50 PM (1 year ago)
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Get on ur knees and pray from ur heart the way you would pray for your son if he was misbehaving. Prayer works if you believe it will work for you. This is the for worse part of ur marriage, it will pass. I do not condone cheating but honestly being a single parent isn't the best option, you guys started well so be patient, look after yourself and keep praying.
Posted: at 27-07-2023 08:50 PM (1 year ago) | Gistmaniac
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