At what age should a man or a woman get married? (Page 8)

when you fall in love...age is bullshit!!

Posted: at 21-01-2011 05:13 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

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Posted: at 21-01-2011 05:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero

I think  for a girl 24 TO 28,  while for men 30 TO 36  money and and the abilty to handle problems is very important when it comes to marriage......
let us be realistic....

Posted: at 21-01-2011 07:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

as long as the both of them are matured enough to handle any situation that might come there way.

Posted: at 21-01-2011 07:55 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 21-01-2011 08:11 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero

That's the thing killing most of us Africans..living ur life wondering what people will say before ever every action even actions that ur life depends on is taken. Marriage is a lifelong process, its all about ur happiness, that of ur wife, Ur kids, and future. So why should one get into it just because ur parents want u to get married before a set age? or bacause ur mates are getting married.
What if the person is not ready, and when i mean ready i dont just mean financially, so the person just jumps into it and after a short while realizes that its too late to change anything. This is the main issue with most broken and unhappy marriages.
Its all about preparedness, but that doesnt mean one has to wait till heaven comes down before setting his/her mindframe for the future. It depends on the individuals involved and their willingness..maturity and everything that comes with it doesn't fly down from heaven!

Posted: at 21-01-2011 11:57 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

In my view, a young man should be ready to marry only as from the age of 30 years while for a lady, it should be as from the age of 25 years.

Posted: at 22-01-2011 12:16 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

All i am hearing that how the man should take care of himself and his wife... Man and woman to should married if they think that they are financially stable and committed to compromise with one other. Marriage should be a 50/50 these dayz. If a woman wants to be respected and treated equally, she needs to provide her to the family well being. 

Posted: at 22-01-2011 04:28 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

at 23 or 28  for ladies or guys you still not matured enough for that journey

Posted: at 22-01-2011 06:41 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

actually you can marry if you have your money and you are mature u can marry even at 20yrs old

Posted: at 22-01-2011 08:59 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie