A Real Woman! (Page 51)

Date: 27-01-2011 9:59 am (13 years ago) | Author: Bittersweet
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- Abby at 28-01-2011 09:32 PM (13 years ago)
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@ ILOVEIT "don't get it twisted.SUBMISSIVE and SLAVERY are two parallel issues,i just detest when a woman is trying to show too much  of feminism.i reside in germany & i quite understand their laws and how their system do function.those who choices to be stubborn & un submissive to their husband pays the price big time!!!"  ... I don't want to get into the conversation of submission and all that I think I have made myself clear as to what I think about that in another topic recently. I just want to know  what you mean by woman pay the price of not being submissive to their husbands in Germany... how? is it unlawful in Germany? do they get arrested? what is the relationship?
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- interpo77 at 28-01-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 28-01-2011 09:20 PM
Quote from: interpo77 on 28-01-2011 09:12 PM
just waiting for ma time to reach to get ma real woman, if not real woman no marriage
i dont like when they say she is out their cos i believe a real woman can ask me out , or what do u think Grin Grin Grin

MAN
Grin Kiss Kiss Kiss Kiss
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-01-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 09:17 PM
@bs.. i never want you to believe my view,all i want you to know & understand,is to respect people views.live you own life the way you want it,as long as its ain't affecting another person point of view...is a free world we are living in & we get choices.so nobody should impose & brain watched the vulnerable ones with negative thought.the God you are thanking, wouldn't be please coz you are trying to re-structure his law.we might disagree with each other but as long as we respect our views and no insult.i'm ok with it.

In that comment, I was insulted indirectly, so it was my right to call it a bullshit! Sorry but I'm not gonna take it back as long as that comment exist!Don't even mention it again plz!
What are u afraid of,exactly? That women will wake up and stand for their own! I really hope it will happen that ASAP!
There is no negative thought in what I said!Negative for mysoginists,maybe,but justitice for women!God knows my soul, and He
knows that there is no harm in it!

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:33 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 28-01-2011 09:34 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 28-01-2011 09:28 PM
TN2 YU WICKED OOO SO YU MEAN YU WANT LIVE ALL THIS THINGS N' DIE .......................WA 4 YU

Life itself no trill me jooo but all the same i am already here i cant change it Grin  my marriage is a nice one Cool
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:34 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 28-01-2011 09:36 PM (13 years ago)
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GBAM !!!

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- truenaija2 at 28-01-2011 09:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Abby on 28-01-2011 09:32 PM
@ ILOVEIT "don't get it twisted.SUBMISSIVE and SLAVERY are two parallel issues,i just detest when a woman is trying to show too much  of feminism.i reside in germany & i quite understand their laws and how their system do function.those who choices to be stubborn & un submissive to their husband pays the price big time!!!"  ... I don't want to get into the conversation of submission and all that I think I have made myself clear as to what I think about that in another topic recently. I just want to know  what you mean by woman pay the price of not being submissive to their husbands in Germany... how? is it unlawful in Germany? do they get arrested? what is the relationship?

ABBY welcome i will tell you the answer they grow old and dont find husbands then they start abusing peoples underage children segxwally they sleep with dogs i mean dog do them  Grin
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-01-2011 09:39 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:24 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 08:11 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 07:55 PM
are you guys still on this issue?it doesn't matter any more whether you,
BS agree with others on the position of being submissive or not.
live your own live the way u want it & stop fighting other people's views..
maybe in your own country women treat their husband the way they want..
but in most Africa is a different story,we shows respect,especially NIGERIA..
women do submit to their husband and more.that's why the percentage of divorce is low.
so stop all this your theory and characteristics of real women,they don't need it period!!!!

Are u the guy in charge with the censorship here or what?  Huh?
You don't like it,how would u? Cheesy
But let me tell you something: in my country u can see those kind of couples as well, where women
are under their men's command and most of them are treated like shit!They are taken for granted and
the respect it's zero! Those women are suffering
, u can see it in their sad eyes!So stop this "your country that,
your country this" because sounds immature!
Nobody should be a slave!When 2 ppl get married there should be companionship and not slavery!
Women can think and act for themselves, they are not some zombies who expect to be manipulated by some men!
But well,probably for some women is more comfortable when they are just told what to do instead of squeezing their
brains and stand their ground! And it's 2011!What a pity!




I am submissive to my husband but he dare not treat me like shit i am not suffering i am having a wonderful marriage i am enjoying being loved and adored by my husband my neighbors love me my husband´s  people cherish me they say i am a blessing i brought a lot of blessings and change to their family i brought live i brought unity i want to be my husbands dream not his nightmare, my husband is my crown i feel like a queen cos of him, we are in 2011 that doesnt mean we should be horrors and terrors nobody is squeezing my brain i take decisions in my family when one needs to be taken discussing it with my husband he respects my decisions its a pity for people dat dont know who they are people that dont know the real world why dont u disobey your boss or your government i am no slave cos  i dont need any law to force me to do what i know is right i do it of my own freewill



When you choose that,that's another story!
As long as you're happy, I'm glad for u!
But I was referring at those women who r Forced to live that life so,and they feel trapped and frustrated,and miserable!

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:39 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- interpo77 at 28-01-2011 09:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:34 PM
Quote from: kebella on 28-01-2011 09:28 PM
TN2 YU WICKED OOO SO YU MEAN YU WANT LIVE ALL THIS THINGS N' DIE .......................WA 4 YU

Life itself no trill me jooo but all the same i am already here i cant change it Grin  my marriage is a nice one Cool
hmmm i want to envy u joo,really i need ma mariage to be the best thats why am ready to marry any real womanout there for me
    , am living in europe but like ma african cultured wife presisly 9ja woman irrespective of tribe, religion,must be educated,
 caring infact a real woman
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-01-2011 09:42 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:31 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:21 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:09 PM
BS NO MATTER THIS TOPIC WE ARE STILL FRIENDS

Of course, sweetie!
We agree to disagree!  Wink
Something I thought it was understood by now,and that is I can't stand seeing women suffering! It drives me crazy!
Women are coming to me in tears when they have issues in their relationships,and go smiling back home!
I may sound tough or feminist (as some ppl called me),but I never advised a woman to leave her husband, but
to try to understand their issues and solve them in a mature manner(if it's possible)!
I just hate injustice and when ppl are taken for granted!
Would be much more to say on that, but I think I better watch my throat before other ppl will think jumping to it! Grin
God bless you, and be happy!
Smiley

yes there are lots of men dat dont respect thier wifes thats because they dont have the fear of GOD but being submissive to your husband is no injustice its respecting and loving your husband unconditionally and oraying for him when you cant handle the matter again i know someone dat d husband was treating likethat but she doesnt talk thats her problem cos when she sits with him and talk he will realise his mistake no human being is perfect i am imperfect my husband is imperfect and we workinbg together as partners to perfection, sometimes we have problems and when we say our night prayer together i say GOD pls HELP us  solve these problem cos weve not been able to solve it ourselves i am sure its funny for my husband but its worksthe problem will be automatically solved and no matter how angry i am with my husband i always say sweetheart I LOVE YOU even in the hottest fire thats the spirit Cool

You said something: partnership! That's the key word!

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:42 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- interpo77 at 28-01-2011 09:43 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 28-01-2011 09:36 PM
GBAM !!!
i lke the Gbam here Grin
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- Abby at 28-01-2011 09:43 PM (13 years ago)
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@ truenaija2 thank you... While I don't believe that, lets say its true... what does that have to do with the laws and system in Germany.
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- truenaija2 at 28-01-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:24 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 08:11 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 07:55 PM
are you guys still on this issue?it doesn't matter any more whether you,
BS agree with others on the position of being submissive or not.
live your own live the way u want it & stop fighting other people's views..
maybe in your own country women treat their husband the way they want..
but in most Africa is a different story,we shows respect,especially NIGERIA..
women do submit to their husband and more.that's why the percentage of divorce is low.
so stop all this your theory and characteristics of real women,they don't need it period!!!!

Are u the guy in charge with the censorship here or what?  Huh?
You don't like it,how would u? Cheesy
But let me tell you something: in my country u can see those kind of couples as well, where women
are under their men's command and most of them are treated like shit!They are taken for granted and
the respect it's zero! Those women are suffering
, u can see it in their sad eyes!So stop this "your country that,
your country this" because sounds immature!
Nobody should be a slave!When 2 ppl get married there should be companionship and not slavery!
Women can think and act for themselves, they are not some zombies who expect to be manipulated by some men!
But well,probably for some women is more comfortable when they are just told what to do instead of squeezing their
brains and stand their ground! And it's 2011!What a pity!




I am submissive to my husband but he dare not treat me like shit i am not suffering i am having a wonderful marriage i am enjoying being loved and adored by my husband my neighbors love me my husband´s  people cherish me they say i am a blessing i brought a lot of blessings and change to their family i brought live i brought unity i want to be my husbands dream not his nightmare, my husband is my crown i feel like a queen cos of him, we are in 2011 that doesnt mean we should be horrors and terrors nobody is squeezing my brain i take decisions in my family when one needs to be taken discussing it with my husband he respects my decisions its a pity for people dat dont know who they are people that dont know the real world why dont u disobey your boss or your government i am no slave cos  i dont need any law to force me to do what i know is right i do it of my own freewill



When you choose that,that's another story!
As long as you're happy, I'm glad for u!
But I was referring at those women who r Forced to live that life so,and they feel trapped and frustrated,and miserable!


NOBODY on the surface of this earth has the power to make you miserable you have to speak out when its too much to bear to the very person making your life miserable when you dont talk you will suffer in silence its thier fault not the mans fault cos anybody can treat them like that until they make up thier mind to speak out
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-01-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:38 PM
Quote from: Abby on 28-01-2011 09:32 PM
@ ILOVEIT "don't get it twisted.SUBMISSIVE and SLAVERY are two parallel issues,i just detest when a woman is trying to show too much  of feminism.i reside in germany & i quite understand their laws and how their system do function.those who choices to be stubborn & un submissive to their husband pays the price big time!!!"  ... I don't want to get into the conversation of submission and all that I think I have made myself clear as to what I think about that in another topic recently. I just want to know  what you mean by woman pay the price of not being submissive to their husbands in Germany... how? is it unlawful in Germany? do they get arrested? what is the relationship?

ABBY welcome i will tell you the answer they grow old and dont find husbands then they start abusing peoples underage children segxwally they sleep with dogs i mean dog do them  Grin

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Oh,boy!
That's already insanity!

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:45 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 28-01-2011 09:48 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:33 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 09:17 PM
@bs.. i never want you to believe my view,all i want you to know & understand,is to respect people views.live you own life the way you want it,as long as its ain't affecting another person point of view...is a free world we are living in & we get choices.so nobody should impose & brain watched the vulnerable ones with negative thought.the God you are thanking, wouldn't be please coz you are trying to re-structure his law.we might disagree with each other but as long as we respect our views and no insult.i'm ok with it.

In that comment, I was insulted indirectly, so it was my right to call it a bullshit! Sorry but I'm not gonna take it back as long as that comment exist!Don't even mention it again plz!
What are u afraid of,exactly? That women will wake up and stand for their own! I really hope it will happen that ASAP!
There is no negative thought in what I said!Negative for misogynists,maybe,but justitice for women!God knows my soul, and He
knows that there is no harm in it!

the word in red didn't please me coz i'm not ok!!who? afraid of what?women huh?oh,come on!.is a natural phenomenon,so dreams or should i call it fantasy wont happen in this world or next!ok.it can only be a mere dreams,nothing more..by the way,is your choice,u can go  ahead hold that word bullshit.

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:48 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- truenaija2 at 28-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Abby on 28-01-2011 09:43 PM
@ truenaija2 thank you... While I don't believe that, lets say its true... what does that have to do with the laws and system in Germany.
@ABBY


the law and system supports the weak and oppress the strong it supports the woman it supports the lazy people and makes the hard working people pay for it its a crazy country but very organized i must say u r not allowed to tell someone u r mad or u r crazy here talk less of fighting or claiming right the government will calm you down nii
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 28-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:45 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:39 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:24 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 08:11 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 07:55 PM
are you guys still on this issue?it doesn't matter any more whether you,
BS agree with others on the position of being submissive or not.
live your own live the way u want it & stop fighting other people's views..
maybe in your own country women treat their husband the way they want..
but in most Africa is a different story,we shows respect,especially NIGERIA..
women do submit to their husband and more.that's why the percentage of divorce is low.
so stop all this your theory and characteristics of real women,they don't need it period!!!!

Are u the guy in charge with the censorship here or what?  Huh?
You don't like it,how would u? Cheesy
But let me tell you something: in my country u can see those kind of couples as well, where women
are under their men's command and most of them are treated like shit!They are taken for granted and
the respect it's zero! Those women are suffering
, u can see it in their sad eyes!So stop this "your country that,
your country this" because sounds immature!
Nobody should be a slave!When 2 ppl get married there should be companionship and not slavery!
Women can think and act for themselves, they are not some zombies who expect to be manipulated by some men!
But well,probably for some women is more comfortable when they are just told what to do instead of squeezing their
brains and stand their ground! And it's 2011!What a pity!




I am submissive to my husband but he dare not treat me like shit i am not suffering i am having a wonderful marriage i am enjoying being loved and adored by my husband my neighbors love me my husband´s  people cherish me they say i am a blessing i brought a lot of blessings and change to their family i brought live i brought unity i want to be my husbands dream not his nightmare, my husband is my crown i feel like a queen cos of him, we are in 2011 that doesnt mean we should be horrors and terrors nobody is squeezing my brain i take decisions in my family when one needs to be taken discussing it with my husband he respects my decisions its a pity for people dat dont know who they are people that dont know the real world why dont u disobey your boss or your government i am no slave cos  i dont need any law to force me to do what i know is right i do it of my own freewill



When you choose that,that's another story!
As long as you're happy, I'm glad for u!
But I was referring at those women who r Forced to live that life so,and they feel trapped and frustrated,and miserable!


NOBODY on the surface of this earth has the power to make you miserable you have to speak out when its too much to bear to the very person making your life miserable when you dont talk you will suffer in silence its thier fault not the mans fault cos anybody can treat them like that until they make up thier mind to speak out

You're somehow right there, because indeed, some of them just stay in that situation without complaining to their men,but I also know cases where they discuss, and the things are repeating, nothing changes, and they are dying slowly!  Angry Sad Sad

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 28-01-2011 09:50 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 09:48 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:33 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 09:17 PM
@bs.. i never want you to believe my view,all i want you to know & understand,is to respect people views.live you own life the way you want it,as long as its ain't affecting another person point of view...is a free world we are living in & we get choices.so nobody should impose & brain watched the vulnerable ones with negative thought.the God you are thanking, wouldn't be please coz you are trying to re-structure his law.we might disagree with each other but as long as we respect our views and no insult.i'm ok with it.

In that comment, I was insulted indirectly, so it was my right to call it a bullshit! Sorry but I'm not gonna take it back as long as that comment exist!Don't even mention it again plz!
What are u afraid of,exactly? That women will wake up and stand for their own! I really hope it will happen that ASAP!
There is no negative thought in what I said!Negative for misogynists,maybe,but justitice for women!God knows my soul, and He
knows that there is no harm in it!

the word in red didn't please me coz i'm not ok!!who? afraid of what?women huh?oh,come on!.is a natural phenomenon,so dreams or should i call it fantasy wont happen in this world or next!ok.it can only be a mere dreams,nothing more..by the way,is your choice,u can go  ahead hold that word bullshit.

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:50 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ILOVEIT at 28-01-2011 09:51 PM (13 years ago)
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@abbey what do u want to know?

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- truenaija2 at 28-01-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:45 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 28-01-2011 09:38 PM
Quote from: Abby on 28-01-2011 09:32 PM
@ ILOVEIT "don't get it twisted.SUBMISSIVE and SLAVERY are two parallel issues,i just detest when a woman is trying to show too much  of feminism.i reside in germany & i quite understand their laws and how their system do function.those who choices to be stubborn & un submissive to their husband pays the price big time!!!"  ... I don't want to get into the conversation of submission and all that I think I have made myself clear as to what I think about that in another topic recently. I just want to know  what you mean by woman pay the price of not being submissive to their husbands in Germany... how? is it unlawful in Germany? do they get arrested? what is the relationship?

ABBY welcome i will tell you the answer they grow old and dont find husbands then they start abusing peoples underage children segxwally they sleep with dogs i mean dog do them  Grin

 Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Oh,boy!
That's already insanity!


NO B SMALL THING  OOO but if i catch any of them with my child i will show them that i am a proper african woman
Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ILOVEIT at 28-01-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:50 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 09:48 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 28-01-2011 09:33 PM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 28-01-2011 09:17 PM
@bs.. i never want you to believe my view,all i want you to know & understand,is to respect people views.live you own life the way you want it,as long as its ain't affecting another person point of view...is a free world we are living in & we get choices.so nobody should impose & brain watched the vulnerable ones with negative thought.the God you are thanking, wouldn't be please coz you are trying to re-structure his law.we might disagree with each other but as long as we respect our views and no insult.i'm ok with it.

In that comment, I was insulted indirectly, so it was my right to call it a bullshit! Sorry but I'm not gonna take it back as long as that comment exist!Don't even mention it again plz!
What are u afraid of,exactly? That women will wake up and stand for their own! I really hope it will happen that ASAP!
There is no negative thought in what I said!Negative for misogynists,maybe,but justitice for women!God knows my soul, and He
knows that there is no harm in it!

the word in red didn't please me coz i'm not ok!!who? afraid of what?women huh?oh,come on!.is a natural phenomenon,so dreams or should i call it fantasy wont happen in this world or next!ok.it can only be a mere dreams,nothing more..by the way,is your choice,u can go  ahead hold that word bullshit.

 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
sure! so stop deceiving yourself ok

Posted: at 28-01-2011 09:53 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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