i dont knw if dis is normal of her..cos she can even spend like 2,3 days outside the town,all bcos of partying & clubbing.i so much love her and she also tells me she loves me too..but d party thing is making me weak 2 love her.
please,pals what can i do?i wish getting married 2 her but i wonder if this is how she will be living wth me.
Posted: at 4-03-2011 10:50 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
One mind is saying i should tell you the trutth, another mind is saying i should be considerate.
But i'd just say this, dont force a lady who is not ready to settle down into marriage. Except shes a PAID performer or a DJ then clubbing consistently isnt quite explainable.
Well you can still date for some more time after which you would have more experience to know how to be more compactible together.
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:28 PM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Poster,i once had dis kind of issue,let me tell u dat u ar in2 wat i call "Pro Pro" if u ar tinkin about settling down wit such woman. If u talk 2 her n she doesn't change i beg make u jst waka pas o.... Am talkin 4rm xperience.
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:33 PM (14 years ago) | Upcoming
ruffryddar at 4-03-2011 11:42 PM (14 years ago) (m)
dguy i appriciate ur advice.
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
Quote from: dguy on 4-03-2011 11:28 PM
Really?
One mind is saying i should tell you the trutth, another mind is saying i should be considerate.
But i'd just say this, dont force a lady who is not ready to settle down into marriage. Except shes a PAID performer or a DJ then clubbing consistently isnt quite explainable.
Well you can still date for some more time after which you would have more experience to know how to be more compactible together.
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:42 PM (14 years ago) | Newbie
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 4-03-2011 11:47 PM (14 years ago) | Hero
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
need more info bout her frns! yu need to carry out research, infact beg yur mates to carry out covert research on her frns to find out the kind of people that they r. yur frns attends last minute parties? Well let me tell yu sumting about most galz, we hardly ever do last minute parties cuz they hair, nail, dress, shoes and bags r on-point.
I noe Iloveit n most ppl in the house r window dressing the issue esp since yu seem a lil blind in it....yu gotta set thingz straight cuz even if yur gal is as loyal as yu seem to think her frns mite have a bigger influence on her. One last thing, naija parties r about showing off, the women r showing off their looks (pretend or real) whilst the men r showing off wealth (again pretend or real)....enuf sed
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:03 AM (14 years ago) | Gistmaniac
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
need more info bout her frns! yu need to carry out research, infact beg yur mates to carry out covert research on her frns to find out the kind of people that they r. yur frns attends last minute parties? Well let me tell yu sumting about most galz, we hardly ever do last minute parties cuz they hair, nail, dress, shoes and bags r on-point.
I noe Iloveit n most ppl in the house r window dressing the issue esp since yu seem a lil blind in it....yu gotta set thingz straight cuz even if yur gal is as loyal as yu seem to think her frns mite have a bigger influence on her. One last thing, naija parties r about showing off, the women r showing off their looks (pretend or real) whilst the men r showing off wealth (again pretend or real)....enuf sed
he never mention living in naija..well which ever way,for the fact she doesn't inform him properly shows something is wrong some where trust that!i have witnessed this kind of scene b4...if the girl love him as he presumed, she will show some concern despite her friends influence..
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits..
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:16 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
Quote from: dguy on 4-03-2011 11:28 PM
Really?
One mind is saying i should tell you the trutth, another mind is saying i should be considerate.
But i'd just say this, dont force a lady who is not ready to settle down into marriage. Except shes a PAID performer or a DJ then clubbing consistently isnt quite explainable.
Well you can still date for some more time after which you would have more experience to know how to be more compactible together.
and you are thinking of settling down?.hmmm talk to her about it and if she refuse to change please "FREE HER".as in let her go,there is no harm in partying and having fun.so let her catch all her fun
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:26 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
ruffryddar at 5-03-2011 12:27 AM (14 years ago) (m)
Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 5-03-2011 12:03 AM
Quote from: ILOVEIT on 4-03-2011 11:47 PM
Quote from: ruffryddar on 4-03-2011 11:42 PM
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
need more info bout her frns! yu need to carry out research, infact beg yur mates to carry out covert research on her frns to find out the kind of people that they r. yur frns attends last minute parties? Well let me tell yu sumting about most galz, we hardly ever do last minute parties cuz they hair, nail, dress, shoes and bags r on-point.
I noe Iloveit n most ppl in the house r window dressing the issue esp since yu seem a lil blind in it....yu gotta set thingz straight cuz even if yur gal is as loyal as yu seem to think her frns mite have a bigger influence on her. One last thing, naija parties r about showing off, the women r showing off their looks (pretend or real) whilst the men r showing off wealth (again pretend or real)....enuf sed
i thnk u just hit d point nw...i av being having dat feelings too dat her friends are wide.also,we dnt stay in d same country we only spend tym on fone n video chat. she talks marriage 2me all d tym even thou she knows am not rich 4 settling dwn nw.am just confused but stll investigating 2 knw more about her friends.
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:27 AM (14 years ago) | Newbie
d thng is she's not a paid perfomer but just likes being in d party with her friends.sometimes,she avoids discussing her outing wth me b4 she goes out... not until die minute,she wll tell me in a rush...bla..bla..bla..and i just free her but i never suspected any infidelity,just that i dont want 2b hash on her.
really? the story is getting clearer.hmmmm they said the truth hurt but i have to say it...guy the hand writing is already on the wall,just need to be expose officially.
Posted: at 5-03-2011 12:28 AM (14 years ago) | Hero
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