My father is useless, teenage girl tells court (Page 2)

Date: 11-03-2011 6:58 am (13 years ago) | Author: WhoBdat
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- mibenne at 11-03-2011 04:57 PM (13 years ago)
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spoilt little BRAT.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 04:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Ajento at 11-03-2011 05:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 11-03-2011 02:06 PM
The man spared the rod, thereby spoiling the child............the blame shouldnt be the woman's only becos it is the responsibility of both parents to train their kids...........I remember when I was a teenager, I wanted to attend a bachelor's nite taking place opposite our house but my parents said NO but allowed my brothers to go, I felt bad about it but they stood their ground...........Dad said you arent going and mum supported him......parents should work in one accord to train their kids............


Well said sis, and also, if you refer to the court's directives - I quote

"The court had in 2010 dissolved the 16-year old marriage between Ojo Ogidan and his former wife, Moji, who has remarried, and directed the man to take custody of three children from the union".

If he is man enough, given the court's directives he should have done all he could to better children instead of abandoning them. Blaming the woman is just lame. He must have abandoned the children out of hurt bcos the xwife remarried - he is just not letting go. You don't abandon children for any reason at all. If you show them love and care no matter how bad they had become they will not call you useless in the public. In as much as the bible said honour your father and mother, the bible also warned parents not to upset the children. As far as am concerned the man dropped the ball that was in his court.

Posted: at 11-03-2011 05:05 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- cremey at 11-03-2011 05:31 PM (13 years ago)
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hw did d story end nw? well i blame d mother for not training her children and one day she will regret it but that does nt still stop d father from taking care of his children, dats his responsibilities no matter wat.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 05:31 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- lanudja at 11-03-2011 05:34 PM (13 years ago)
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At her age... na wa. Spare d rod n spoil d child... nw she is spoilt what else? na this type dey constitute nuisance for d society so, since she don start 2 go party, she go end up for club b4 u know ashawo don be plus 1. I pass jor...
Posted: at 11-03-2011 05:34 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chigozie1010 at 11-03-2011 05:38 PM (13 years ago)
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so  Lips Sealed
Posted: at 11-03-2011 05:38 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jackson4real at 11-03-2011 05:50 PM (13 years ago)
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baba blame pikin, pikin blame baba. i think both of them are at fault !
Posted: at 11-03-2011 05:50 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Hollermeelaycon at 11-03-2011 06:06 PM (13 years ago)
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My hand no dey ooo.

Posted: at 11-03-2011 06:06 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- D4rk-Cuti3 at 11-03-2011 06:21 PM (13 years ago)
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Grrrhhhhh dis girl is so stupid nd useless..she is a spoilt girl nd obviously have no respect for her father..like no matter wht ur popsie have done to u..u shudnt say such thin..mcheeww..
Posted: at 11-03-2011 06:21 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- tambeiort at 11-03-2011 06:42 PM (13 years ago)
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oh poor man.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 06:42 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blings_is_back at 11-03-2011 06:49 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: williams100 on 11-03-2011 04:41 PM
what insolence and insurburdination.

u still dey speak english
Posted: at 11-03-2011 06:49 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- Propellaswaggs at 11-03-2011 07:03 PM (13 years ago)
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Seriously i can't blame the gurl and i can't blame the father nor the mother, it is the environ she has grown up in. Poor girl.
Posted: at 11-03-2011 07:03 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- blings_is_back at 11-03-2011 07:04 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 11-03-2011 07:04 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- estilizo at 11-03-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: blings_is_back on 11-03-2011 06:49 PM
Quote from: williams100 on 11-03-2011 04:41 PM
what insolence and insurburdination.

u still dey speak english
lolzzz

Posted: at 11-03-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- brendivas at 11-03-2011 08:05 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Ajento on 11-03-2011 05:05 PM
Quote from: divineproject on 11-03-2011 02:06 PM
The man spared the rod, thereby spoiling the child............the blame shouldnt be the woman's only becos it is the responsibility of both parents to train their kids...........I remember when I was a teenager, I wanted to attend a bachelor's nite taking place opposite our house but my parents said NO but allowed my brothers to go, I felt bad about it but they stood their ground...........Dad said you arent going and mum supported him......parents should work in one accord to train their kids............


Well said sis, and also, if you refer to the court's directives - I quote

"The court had in 2010 dissolved the 16-year old marriage between Ojo Ogidan and his former wife, Moji, who has remarried, and directed the man to take custody of three children from the union".

If he is man enough, given the court's directives he should have done all he could to better children instead of abandoning them. Blaming the woman is just lame. He must have abandoned the children out of hurt bcos the xwife remarried - he is just not letting go. You don't abandon children for any reason at all. If you show them love and care no matter how bad they had become they will not call you useless in the public. In as much as the bible said honour your father and mother, the bible also warned parents not to upset the children. As far as am concerned the man dropped the ball that was in his court.



I think this girl was brainwashed by the mother against her father. Can you imagine a 15 year-old attending night parties with adults with the support of her mother? The public insult was just a tip of the iceberg. I think this girl is wayward
Posted: at 11-03-2011 08:05 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 11-03-2011 08:18 PM (13 years ago)
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i am perplexed and i don,t even know what to say
Posted: at 11-03-2011 08:18 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- aisha89 at 11-03-2011 08:20 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: teebaz990 on 11-03-2011 06:58 PM
That girl will soon find her way to Italy. its a matter of time she is training for it now.
U MST B STUPID TO SAID THAT WORD! NONSCENCE LIKE U, WAT DID U THINK PPLE DO CUM TO ITALY TO DO ILLITRATE! LIKE U!!!!!!!!

Posted: at 11-03-2011 08:20 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- harold634 at 11-03-2011 08:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 11-03-2011 02:06 PM
The man spared the rod, thereby spoiling the child............the blame shouldnt be the woman's only becos it is the responsibility of both parents to train their kids...........I remember when I was a teenager, I wanted to attend a bachelor's nite taking place opposite our house but my parents said NO but allowed my brothers to go, I felt bad about it but they stood their ground...........Dad said you arent going and mum supported him......parents should work in one accord to train their kids............

TRUE TALK
Posted: at 11-03-2011 08:31 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- laydeelaracraft at 11-03-2011 08:38 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 11-03-2011 02:06 PM
The man spared the rod, thereby spoiling the child............the blame shouldnt be the woman's only becos it is the responsibility of both parents to train their kids...........I remember when I was a teenager, I wanted to attend a bachelor's nite taking place opposite our house but my parents said NO but allowed my brothers to go, I felt bad about it but they stood their ground...........Dad said you arent going and mum supported him......parents should work in one accord to train their kids............

exactly! if they r spoilt thats cuz he stood back n did nothing so now he is bearing the consequences...as for the mother, she shud wait her own is still coming...perhaps her daughter will try n seduce her husband...shebi she is 15 yo n going clubbing already...am waiting for part 2
Posted: at 11-03-2011 08:38 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- interpo77 at 11-03-2011 09:52 PM (13 years ago)
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man take kia of  the children that almighty has giving to use, there is nothing to
excuse urself here, if u dont kia for ur blood kids, then, who
Posted: at 11-03-2011 09:52 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mikendem at 11-03-2011 10:03 PM (13 years ago)
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NAWALA OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Posted: at 11-03-2011 10:03 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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