I DON'T KNOW IF THIS IS A PROBLEM OR NORMAL (Page 8)

Date: 18-03-2011 3:21 pm (13 years ago) | Author: Diamond
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- kebella at 21-03-2011 07:06 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: mogbonjubola on 21-03-2011 07:00 PM
Quote from: 1daful on 18-03-2011 03:21 PM
I can be a good friend to a guy but immediatly he talks  about marriage i get suddenly cold and start avoiding him, does this happen to some1 else?
if my boy friend ask me out and i don't love him, i will move more close to him instead of avoiding him.
Huh?

Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:06 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ajanni at 21-03-2011 07:10 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh? Huh?
Posted: at 21-03-2011 07:10 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- SNYPER at 21-03-2011 08:11 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on 18-03-2011 03:21 PM
I can be a good friend to a guy but immediatly he talks  about marriage i get suddenly cold and start avoiding him, does this happen to some1 else?
BB Will you marry me? Kiss Kiss

let me see d cold catch u...at least u go need my help ovr d 9t;D
Posted: at 21-03-2011 08:11 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- jennypriceson at 21-03-2011 11:41 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: nottyene on 18-03-2011 03:36 PM
i tink u ave a problem,why not see ur PASTOR?4 PRAYERS N COUNSELLIN? NOR WORI,GOD DEY.

Not with the story told on Naijapals about Nigerian pastors unless you want some randy pastor to put her in a family way, which she is desperate to avoid
Posted: at 21-03-2011 11:41 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- kebella at 21-03-2011 11:42 PM (13 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 21-03-2011 11:42 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- donuche at 22-03-2011 02:32 AM (13 years ago)
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there is a very serious problem with you hence u already knew it ur self which was why u are asking if it is normal. i read all what u have said carefully and u did not say that it is because u did not like your suitors or that you are yet to be ready for marriage.your comment simply shows that even your self don't know why you are simply afraid of getting married. every thing is wrong and please never you think that it is everybody that is possessed knew that they are possessed, never you also believe that it is every pastor that have the gift of identifying a demon and those who were possessed by it. there are different types of gift of the holy spirit but from the same spirit to different people. it is not every pastors that have at least 80% of the gift of the holy spirit which includes discerning the spirits.you can read 1 corrintians 12v3 to 11 about the different gift of the holy spirit. so you look for a  man of god who is gifted with that let him help you get delivered from the marine spirit which is the one also that operate as a spiritual husband and wife which discourages and stop people from getting married through spiritual manipulations , he is also the spirit in charge of nymphomaniac,Lesbianism,indecency and all kind of segxwal immoralities. want to know more and need help in that aspect inbox me.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:32 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- donuche at 22-03-2011 04:08 AM (13 years ago)
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pls let us stop abusing or insulting people who have one problem or the other and have asked for our advice,it is very wrong to do that because he or she believes that we could help them out which is why they ask us for advice why then abuse or insult somebody who so much believe in you to help him or her out without feeling ashamed to share her pain and even some times her secret. this is complete stupidity and doesn't show that we can be our brother s keeper in this forum. if this nonsense continues i mighty be forced to cancel my membership in this forum even though i don't ask will never ask for any advice from this forum but pls learn to be matured for once.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 04:08 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- sukkytaiwo at 22-03-2011 11:29 AM (13 years ago)
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You a Guidance counselor to help you out on how to solve it Spiritual :'(....?

Posted: at 22-03-2011 11:29 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- adams933 at 22-03-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 1daful on 18-03-2011 03:27 PM
Quote from: truenaija2 on 18-03-2011 03:25 PM
why den der must be a problem somewhere u must have an hidden fear tell us wht dat fear is we can help out
i can't figure it out

Then give it a try.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 12:16 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blessedme at 22-03-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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this one na serious case ooo
mother of the baby accept ma sympathy
Posted: at 22-03-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- chichiis at 22-03-2011 02:37 PM (13 years ago)
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Hope no problem?
Posted: at 22-03-2011 02:37 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- djosh4cesc at 22-03-2011 08:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: harold634 on 18-03-2011 03:33 PM
DON'T WORRY, BY THE TIME U GET TO MENOPAUSE, U WILL NOT AVOID ANYBODY AGAIN.
lol
Posted: at 22-03-2011 08:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- ajanni at 22-03-2011 09:15 PM (13 years ago)
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 Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 22-03-2011 09:15 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- tarakhanali at 22-03-2011 11:36 PM (13 years ago)
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You are simply not in love with those guys. You have mistaken likeness for love but the two are quite different. If and when you fall in love, you won't wait to be married.
Posted: at 22-03-2011 11:36 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kingjafe at 23-03-2011 12:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: jiflexy on 18-03-2011 03:29 PM
huh,guess u need see a prophet,this is  strange 1daful,u need deliverance,cos u might b le le lol



Then, you must be a lesbian
Posted: at 23-03-2011 12:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dozb at 23-03-2011 01:30 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: Kingjafe on 23-03-2011 12:30 PM
Quote from: jiflexy on 18-03-2011 03:29 PM
huh,guess u need see a prophet,this is  strange 1daful,u need deliverance,cos u might b le le lol



Then, you must be a lesbian
.undastand the post first before u criticize.she said wen dey start talking about marriage,dats mean dey could ve even bin dating for 5 years or more.who knws.a lesbian is some one who is into girls and not guys.many pple ve dat fear,fear of will i be what he expects me to be in marriage,can i be able to raise our kids d way dat is right,etc.many tins cld be responsible 4 the phobia.
Posted: at 23-03-2011 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- Dozb at 23-03-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago)
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wel it cld be problematic and it cld also be normal.if its problematic u seek 4 Gods intervention on that,but if its just that u ve fears of what u might face in marriage maybe due to some experiences someone close to u had experienced.then i suggest u seek for counselling to overcome that fear.
Posted: at 23-03-2011 01:37 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- onyiis at 23-03-2011 01:52 PM (13 years ago)
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I'll suggest you try and find out the root of ur fears ...........

*Are u afraid of commitment ?
*Are u afraid of the responsibilities associated with being married ?
*Afraid of raising a family ?

Something must first come to ur mind when such issues are discussed before the fear sets in...................takle that first

Posted: at 23-03-2011 01:52 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- ajanni at 23-03-2011 06:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Posted: at 23-03-2011 06:55 PM (13 years ago) | Grande Master
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- TIKEEYAH at 23-03-2011 09:40 PM (13 years ago)
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I think u have gilted several times.........
Posted: at 23-03-2011 09:40 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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