Ladies and Gentlemen, I am bored and so devastated because a young lady that I truly love so much turn down my propose because of family issue which she believed will hinder our future union. The family issue is not coming from my side but hers and I am not willing to discuss that on public domain but what can I do now because I still love her and can't let go please? Your advices would be appreciated. Thanks Jioke
Posted: at 10-04-2011 05:51 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
diplomatik at 11-04-2011 10:57 PM (13 years ago) (f)
i'm not sure thats the emotion u should be feeling right now..what happened to unhappy , sad, dissapointed etc ...or is it that u're bored thats why u're making up this story
u've seen me right? i look kool right? ???but don't send me mails asking for my add or phone no. and don't give it to me either , i'll ask u if i want it ..ok...kool
Posted: at 11-04-2011 10:57 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Well, she is young, and I'm sure u r young too...is goin to hurt yes, and u must moved on. Too many because this, because that, because here and there and cost so many delay in our societies today. but u gotta put yourself together. Pray over it maybe God will turn the table around. And u need to b strong....
Posted: at 11-04-2011 11:03 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
adetunjisho at 12-04-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) (m)
True love never dies... Just try and belive in your instinct that lead you to her u may still can work something together, since she is no married.....
Posted: at 12-04-2011 03:14 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
bittersweet at 12-04-2011 03:18 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: Jioke12 on 10-04-2011 05:51 PM
Ladies and Gentlemen, I am bored and so devastated because a young lady that I truly love so much turn down my propose because of family issue which she believed will hinder our future union. The family issue is not coming from my side but hers and I am not willing to discuss that on public domain but what can I do now because I still love her and can't let go please? Your advices would be appreciated. Thanks Jioke
Try to think logically, I mean to reason with her,and if it comes that she's right, stop wasting your time with crying over the spilled milk!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 12-04-2011 03:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
You should be happy that you know ahead of time that you guys have no future together. Would it have been better for you to be in the relationship and many years down the road you see heart break hit you like a ton of brick. Just move on, bcos you don't force love. After all, soldier go soldier come, wetin sef.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 04:33 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
My dear it’s not a make up story at all, it happen last week Thursday the 7th of this month meanwhile I gave her till 9th to think about my propose but before the 9th a lot of assurances has been given to me. We chatted for five weeks on phone and on face book before we met, believe me the day we met I said to her that I like her and I will be the happiest man on earth if she would accept me as her future husband and she said that she likes me too. I can’t lie to myself or to anyone here believe it or not, I love her and I truly love her with all my heart, the first day I set my eyes on her all my words are I wish she could be mine. It hurts and it really really hurts but I still thank God because he alone knows the reason why it happened.
Thanks for your comment I do appreciate.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 08:36 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
Well, she is young, and I'm sure u r young too...is goin to hurt yes, and u must moved on. Too many because this, because that, because here and there and cost so many delay in our societies today. but u gotta put yourself together. Pray over it maybe God will turn the table around. And u need to b strong....
I do appreciate your comment, thanks.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 08:45 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
i'm not sure thats the emotion u should be feeling right now..what happened to unhappy , sad, dissapointed etc ...or is it that u're bored thats why u're making up this story
My dear it’s not a make up story at all, it happen last week Thursday the 7th of this month meanwhile I gave her till 9th to think about my propose but before the 9th a lot of assurances has been given to me. We chatted for five weeks on phone and on face book before we met, believe me the day we met I said to her that I like her and I will be the happiest man on earth if she would accept me as her future husband and she said that she likes me too. I can’t lie to myself or to anyone here believe it or not, I love her and I truly love her with all my heart, the first day I set my eyes on her all my words are I wish she could be mine. It hurts and it really really hurts but I still thank God because he alone knows the reason why it happened.
I do appreciate your comment, thanks.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 08:49 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
True love never dies... Just try and belive in your instinct that lead you to her u may still can work something together, since she is no married.....
I do appreciate your comment, thanks.
Posted: at 12-04-2011 08:59 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie