Balanced family

Date: 07-12-2008 12:55 pm (15 years ago) | Author: King Samuel O Dguy
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- at 7-12-2008 12:55 PM (15 years ago)
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Is it possible for a man to effectively carrry out his duty as the head of a family, when is wife earns higher income and has a higher status?

Is there a difference? - sort of intimidation or fears "forced respect"...... lets say husband of oprah for e.g - does he even have a solid say in the family?


Posted: at 7-12-2008 12:55 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
- osituga at 7-12-2008 01:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Ummm. it think it depends on the part of the wife....how respectful,loving and caring she is
Posted: at 7-12-2008 01:03 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Sillyjokker at 7-12-2008 01:08 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  7-12-2008 12:55 PM
Is it possible for a man to effectively carrry out his duty as the head of a family, when is wife earns higher income and has a higher status?

Is there a difference? - sort of intimidation or fears "forced respect"...... lets say husband of oprah for e.g - does he even have a solid say in the family?

Its possible, but(emphasis) it depends on the man's ego.
Some men would rather take it out on their wife, and snap at every opportunity.

Posted: at 7-12-2008 01:08 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mazi at 7-12-2008 01:09 PM (15 years ago)
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under normal circumstances yes!
he is still suppose to command respect irresspective of the wife's status.
nd if the woman respects the man as d husband.
but d man had to really hold his ground nd put his head up.
as long as he has something doing nd was in it even b4 d union.
Posted: at 7-12-2008 01:09 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Toks-E at 7-12-2008 02:20 PM (15 years ago)
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it all depends on whether the wife is a big "burns to the brain" or if she truly has respect and love for her husband

Posted: at 7-12-2008 02:20 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- akins8500 at 7-12-2008 02:23 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: mazi on  7-12-2008 01:09 PM
under normal circumstances yes!
he is still suppose to command respect irresspective of the wife's status.
nd if the woman respects the man as d husband.
but d man had to really hold his ground nd put his head up.
as long as he has something doing nd was in it even b4 d union.



word!
Posted: at 7-12-2008 02:23 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- prencess at 7-12-2008 02:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  7-12-2008 12:55 PM
Is it possible for a man to effectively carrry out his duty as the head of a family, when is wife earns higher income and has a higher status?

Is there a difference? - sort of intimidation or fears "forced respect"...... lets say husband of oprah for e.g - does he even have a solid say in the family?

there are some families that will not count wherether
the wife is having much income or not
the man will still have his due respect
while there some other families
that the man may not have that due respect
as the head of family.... cus is more likely
that the wife has taken his responsibility
 even the childern may see him as
an irresponssible father  Undecided
Posted: at 7-12-2008 02:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Baey at 7-12-2008 03:47 PM (15 years ago)
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It depens on the country.
Posted: at 7-12-2008 03:47 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- herdeysohjy at 7-12-2008 03:52 PM (15 years ago)
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It depends on the level of the relationship
Posted: at 7-12-2008 03:52 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dguy at 7-12-2008 03:54 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: herdeysohjy on  7-12-2008 03:52 PM
It depends on the level of the relationship

Its a WIFE and 'husband' relationship

Posted: at 7-12-2008 03:54 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- MsGorgeous at 7-12-2008 04:51 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  7-12-2008 12:55 PM
Is it possible for a man to effectively carrry out his duty as the head of a family, when is wife earns higher income and has a higher status?

Is there a difference? - sort of intimidation or fears "forced respect"...... lets say husband of oprah for e.g - does he even have a solid say in the family?

well 2 me I dnt think it should b a problem his d man anyway!! But u can't b so sure it depends on d wife's character there's no definate say abt it cause ppl r different u know!
Posted: at 7-12-2008 04:51 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 7-12-2008 05:15 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  7-12-2008 12:55 PM
Is it possible for a man to effectively carrry out his duty as the head of a family, when is wife earns higher income and has a higher status?

Is there a difference? - sort of intimidation or fears "forced respect"...... lets say husband of oprah for e.g - does he even have a solid say in the family?

There's no way dat man can be in Control.

By d way, why do men Love Control dis much?

Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:15 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- damygurl at 7-12-2008 05:22 PM (15 years ago)
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Yea it's very possible but it all depends on the kind of people they are. If she's the kind of woman dat nags all d time and points out the fact that she makes more money or if he's the kind of guy with a big ego and thinks it makes him less of a man then it can't work.
but if they can both see past the fact that it doesn't define their marriage and the wife still respects her husband, submit to him and still see him as the head of the family and the husband in turn looks past it and still does his husbandly duties and loves her then yes.
Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:22 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Kennee at 7-12-2008 05:24 PM (15 years ago)
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But will d woman do dat? l mean, submit?

Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:24 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Dguy at 7-12-2008 05:29 PM (15 years ago)
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Dosnt it get worst if they both work in same organization and the woman is his boss?

Can this be reasoned?

Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:29 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- prencess at 7-12-2008 05:31 PM (15 years ago)
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dguy allow us to finish with the first
one b4 u will post another  Shocked Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:31 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Dguy at 7-12-2008 05:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Am i holding your hand? Say what you want to say

Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:33 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 7-12-2008 05:36 PM (15 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin

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- prencess at 7-12-2008 05:36 PM (15 years ago)
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hummmmm  Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided Undecided
Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:36 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- presdom2000 at 7-12-2008 05:42 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: dguy on  7-12-2008 05:29 PM
Dosnt it get worst if they both work in same organization and the woman is his boss?

Can this be reasoned?
then dats f****ed up,most organisations dont allow it - people of the same family to work at the same place but i wont like to work with my husband,as a my boss or a patner neither the vice versa.
Posted: at 7-12-2008 05:42 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
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