In 9ja stereotyping is a common phenomenon, its difficult u find people of different culture, languages or ethnicity marrying each other...its happens but rare, in an instance of father/mother inlaw disapproving a marriage bcos the man or woman is not from same ethnicity or tribe, what is the best solution to this - elope or abandon him/or her and make it clear to each other u both cant be happy without the consent of the family.. TO ME I WILL RATHER LET GO AND MAKE PEACE REIGN THAN ELOPING TO NEVERLAND WHERE NO ONE WILL FIND US
Posted: at 24-01-2008 03:35 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
I think, if it is real love, be together, and maybe the parents will come around, and if not real love just break it up. I think eloping can be very stressful to u, the relationship, and also to your family, because they will always love you no matter what.
Posted: at 24-01-2008 03:44 PM (17 years ago) | Newbie
I would say elope..but then again, it'll be good to have the family blessing...but i don't think that i will let go my love if the family disapproves as long as he's willing to still stay together no matter what they say, then its all good...and hopefully they will get to see how happy he is and being treated good by me and that might change their mind cause his happiness should be what really matters and not the tribe
Posted: at 24-01-2008 05:13 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Its very difficult to CUT the family relationship.......Eloping is a bit of fantasy and I'd rather say you have to let it go....ofcourse except you plan to elope somewhere outside planet earth.....
I say eloping is a is daylight stealing...
please do not distract and keep discussions along line of topic - make proper use of capit
Posted: at 24-01-2008 07:33 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
myragonza at 25-01-2008 02:52 AM (17 years ago) (f)
i would rather stay with my family....coz i have seen most eloped couples who don't make it....when they reach a certain period of time,they gave up their partners and still go back to their families.........
Well from personal experience i must confess that i did elope with my baby daddy even after my sis disapproved and all because he's a yankee...lol..but anyways, she got to accept him when she saw how happy i was and how good he was to me..so that's kinda like 50/50 thang, it might or it might not..but i think it depends on how you too feel about each other though...
Posted: at 26-01-2008 02:42 AM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dejifortune at 2-02-2008 05:41 PM (17 years ago) (m)
Nothing can let me for go the love of my life, whelter with family blessing or not, if someone forgot that i have the right to be happy then i wont forget myself, i will make them understand and if they dont, they are on there own and i will even on with my Angel as long as u both agree to.......
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 2-02-2008 05:41 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Nothing can let me for go the love of my life, whelter with family blessing or not, if someone forgot that i have the right to be happy then i wont forget myself, i will make them understand and if they dont, they are on there own and i will even on with my Angel as long as u both agree to.......
Marry me deji and i aint playing either
Posted: at 4-02-2008 04:44 PM (17 years ago) | Addicted Hero
dejifortune at 4-02-2008 06:16 PM (17 years ago) (m)
Quote from: nigerianvixen26 on 4-02-2008 04:44 PM
Quote from: dejifortune on 2-02-2008 05:41 PM
Nothing can let me for go the love of my life, whelter with family blessing or not, if someone forgot that i have the right to be happy then i wont forget myself, i will make them understand and if they dont, they are on there own and i will even on with my Angel as long as u both agree to.......
Marry me deji and i aint playing either
Baby u know marrying you wil be a dream come thru.........so when do u want us to fix our wedding.........?
dejifortunecares
Posted: at 4-02-2008 06:16 PM (17 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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