![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 2-07-2011 05:35 PM (12 years ago)  (m) Hey pals please i need ur advice. I have been in relationship with this girl 4 d past 2 years and i love her so much but 1 problem i keep on having with her is that she is been rude to me, she talk to me anyhow when we are alone but later she'll come back n apologize but that does not stop her from doing that same thing 2morow. But 1 good thing i like about her is that she respect me in the midst of my friends and she respect all my friends. But now she want us to get married but am afraid that if we get married things will change. My pals please i need ur positive response please am very serious. 
what u know u can't take in marriage don't take in courtship becos it might be worst after wedding. | Posted: at 2-07-2011 05:35 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 2-07-2011 05:35 PM (12 years ago) (m) there is the extent to which a mans heart can bear,talk to her about it and she cant change that part of her be ready to bear with it for the rest of your life or break up.
good one! hope u taking note poster | Posted: at 2-07-2011 05:35 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 2-07-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) (m) Hey pals please i need ur advice. I have been in relationship with this girl 4 d past 2 years and i love her so much but 1 problem i keep on having with her is that she is been rude to me, she talk to me anyhow when we are alone but later she'll come back n apologize but that does not stop her from doing that same thing 2morow. But 1 good thing i like about her is that she respect me in the midst of my friends and she respect all my friends. But now she want us to get married but am afraid that if we get married things will change. My pals please i need ur positive response please am very serious.
I WANT YOU TO KNOW THAT IF YOU MARRY THAT GIRL YOU WILL BLAME YOURSELF SHORTLY AFTERWARD. COUNT YOURSELF LUCKY TO HAVE SEEN THE HANDWRITING ON THE WALL AHEAD OF TIME. DO NOT DISCUSS ANYTHING WITH HER BCOS IF YOU DO, SHE WILL CHANGE TO GET YOU HOOKED FIRST THEN GO BACK TO HER UGLY WAY. AM WARNING YOU, IF YOU IGNORE YOUR HEART, YOU WILL REGRET IT BCOS SHE IS NOT YOUR WIFE PERIOD. WHEN YOUR WIFE COMES YOU WILL KNOW. AT LEAST SHE WILL SHOW RESPECT FIRST. CHARITY BEGINS AT HOME.u making a whole of sense in there! she will likely deceive him into marrying her then switch gears afterwards! | Posted: at 2-07-2011 05:48 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "beckononme") beckononme at 2-07-2011 05:54 PM (12 years ago) (m) i think u two should sit down and talk besides u know what u want is not being going out for yrs the main thing is understanding.som e times in relationship love is not enough...................
not 'sometimes', love has never been enough in serious issues involving marriage except u wanna do it ur way and not God's way | Posted: at 2-07-2011 05:54 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "monday3") monday3 at 2-07-2011 06:15 PM (12 years ago) (m) ALWAYS TALK TO HER AROUND 5 AM TO 6 AM IN THE MORNING,TELL HER HOW U FELL.IF SHE DID NOT CHANGE THEN U KNOW THE NEXT THING TO DO. | Posted: at 2-07-2011 06:15 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "mchinwendu") mchinwendu at 2-07-2011 06:21 PM (12 years ago) (f) MY GUY THIS SITUATION NEEDS WISDON BC IF YOU ASK ME I WILL SAID SHE WAS JUST BEEN NICE IN ORDER TO WIN UIR HEART
WHEN U MARRY HER SHE WILL COME BACK TO HER BEHAVIOUR......NOW IF I MAY TELL U U LOVE HER YES PLAY THIS GAME
TELL HER THAT U DONT LOVE HER ANY MORE THAT U CANT MARRY HER ......AND KNOWS WHAT SHE IS GOING TO DO
AND THEN IF SHE CONVINCE U MORE ABOUT BEEN GOOD LECTURE HER ON WHAT U WANT FRON HER AND STILL DONT FORGET
THAT THERE IS NOT PARFECT MARRIAGE ..... EVEN IF SHE CHANGE AFTER MARRIAGE THAT MAYBE BE UR CROSS ,,,,
GO ON WITH UR HEART AS LONG AS U LOVE HER AND U AR SURE SHE LOVE U ASWELL
Good advice...a test is definitely in order. | Posted: at 2-07-2011 06:21 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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u av it all start working on it .... | Posted: at 2-07-2011 06:28 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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i think u two should sit down and talk besides u know what u want is not being going out for yrs the main thing is understanding.som e times in relationship love is not enough...................
not 'sometimes', love has never been enough in serious issues involving marriage except u wanna do it ur way and not God's way
Live and let live! | Posted: at 2-07-2011 06:31 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "DonMatt") DonMatt at 2-07-2011 06:34 PM (12 years ago) (m) Guy, you need to talk to her about what you like and what you don't like about her. Remember, marriage is not something you give a try, once you are married you are tied down (there is no trial in marriage). You both have to agree with one another b4 going into any marriage issue (That is why Bible says; "Two cannot walk together except they agree") If she is not ready to respect you at all times, then look elsewhere. Marriage is all about perfect life partners. If both of you don't correct your dislikes b4 going into marriage, then expect worst thereafter.
Best of Luck
good talk brother | Posted: at 2-07-2011 06:34 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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i will advvise that u take her for her character since u have been for two years, u must have understood her.after all every woman is meant for a man no matter how bad. you might be the perfect person to quench that hot character in her..plsssssss my friend dont let her go.............marry her | Posted: at 2-07-2011 06:50 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "erikaakpan") erikaakpan at 2-07-2011 07:06 PM (12 years ago) (f) @ post.....dnt marry her then. u dnt have to rush
Flirtation: Attention without intention. | Posted: at 2-07-2011 07:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "winace") winace at 2-07-2011 07:35 PM (12 years ago) (f) D problem wit us ladies of nowadays is pretense. Why will she be nice to u in public and rude in private. Wat make u think she won't change altomatically immediately u guys wed, dat frds she respect will be insulted. Pls dn't give only luv a try, include ur happiness too. IF U CANNOT STAND D HEAT GET OUT OF D KICTHEN. Q E D.D problem wit us ladies of nowadays is pretense. Why will she be nice to u in public and rude in private. Wat make u think she won't change altomatically immediately u guys wed, dat frds she respect will be insulted. Pls dn't give only luv a try, include ur happiness too. IF U CANNOT STAND D HEAT GET OUT OF D KICTHEN. Q E D. | Posted: at 2-07-2011 07:35 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 2-07-2011 07:39 PM (12 years ago) (f) 
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 2-07-2011 07:39 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "interpo77") interpo77 at 2-07-2011 07:46 PM (12 years ago) (m) hello ma fellow pal, u ve to thank God u seen this character b4 now, its better stichining in time cos it may save u nine,if u really do not accept those defaults u found out now from her,pls dont go into marriage atleast for now, make out time to talk to her n watch her, it is too rare for guls complying to ur demands n likening after wedlock, so u re in the right time to make decissions what am trying to say is,that is her character for u n she might never change from it nomatter how she might pretend now | Posted: at 2-07-2011 07:46 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 2-07-2011 07:51 PM (12 years ago) (f) lol
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 2-07-2011 07:51 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "okemnachi") okemnachi at 2-07-2011 08:03 PM (12 years ago) (f) u 2 needs to sit down and talk cos marriage is not something to play with, tell her what problem u have with her and let her tell u her own problem and wait for a while and see if things will change after the discussion, maybe u dont know u may be the cause of all the problems let her open up with u | Posted: at 2-07-2011 08:03 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "solexjoe") solexjoe at 2-07-2011 08:06 PM (12 years ago) (m) guy, dis is a crious issue o, so be kiaful abt it. because if she luvs u then she nids 2 shw it by respecting u bro, i will say marry some1 dat luvs u not who u luvs | Posted: at 2-07-2011 08:06 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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![-]( "cocoeni") cocoeni at 2-07-2011 08:17 PM (12 years ago) (f) | Posted: at 2-07-2011 08:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 2-07-2011 08:18 PM (12 years ago) (f)
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 2-07-2011 08:18 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "The-s-man") The-s-man at 2-07-2011 08:20 PM (12 years ago) (m) Wow! honestly pals i must sincerely thank u all 4 ur useful advices cos believe me i was confuse, even though am yet to apply some of the advices u gave, believe me i feel somehow free n happy at least knowing that there are people out there who can save my life with advices. Guys believe me it is horrible sleeping with a broken heart. I wish u all, the same happiness u wish me. Thanks n God bless. | Posted: at 2-07-2011 08:20 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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