About contraceptives......(IUCDs)

Date: 14-08-2011 11:31 am (13 years ago) | Author: Darky
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- at 14-08-2011 11:31 AM (13 years ago)
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A 43 years old woman who has so far given birth 2 six children decided 2 start abstaining from sex because she has tried 2 make her husband use contraceptive (condoms) but he refused.
The main problems is that they are just middle class citizens who are finding it difficult to met ends meet and now she just found out she is pregnant with their 7th child.
She then decided 2 go 4 family planning were she was adviced 2 try the IUCDs (Intrauterine contraceptie devices) but that her husband must also agree to it. She tried 2 speak with the husband but he totally refused saying it is not natural. So she is now stuck with either the decision of implanting the IUD and avoid pregnancy or listening 2 her husband and risk getting pregnant again with their 8th child. The doctors at the clinic have decided it would be best 2 save her life by helping her avoid getting pregnant again, that means inserting the IUCD without her husbands approval because her last pregnancy almost killed her and the current 7th pregnancy she is carrying is not developing well so might have 2 be aborted.

People what would be ur take on this issue?



Posted: at 14-08-2011 11:31 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
- xena15 at 14-08-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago)
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From d story,it seems d hubby is nt just a lunatic,bt also a 1st class illiterate!!!
Him wan kill d woman???

Posted: at 14-08-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- FlyMamacita at 14-08-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago)
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And how come they didn discuss this b4??
When u get married, isnt this one of the first things u talk about? Family planning?

Well if he dusn want it, and refuse to hear doctor/wife advice, make she just do it
behind his back. No reason to bring ursef in danger for anybody!
Posted: at 14-08-2011 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- calvin2b1000 at 14-08-2011 01:57 PM (13 years ago)
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like play like play they will complete it 12 thats one dozen.

Posted: at 14-08-2011 01:57 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- giftmurphy at 14-08-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago)
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life is a risk,u come alone,u die alone the lady should save her life cos if she die,the man will find another,so take it..........
Posted: at 14-08-2011 01:58 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- drnoel at 14-08-2011 10:24 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 14-08-2011 01:58 PM
life is a risk,u come alone,u die alone the lady should save her life cos if she die,the man will find another,so take it..........

Sister na true talk u talk

Posted: at 14-08-2011 10:24 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- jossy4reall at 14-08-2011 10:35 PM (13 years ago)
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Family matter

Posted: at 14-08-2011 10:35 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- HOPEA23 at 14-08-2011 10:53 PM (13 years ago)
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if she didn't go ahead and do what the MD has adviced him to do..is her life...she will be the one to suffer the pains and her children are going to be the ones growing up with their mother...if she value her life plus their children own..let her do what the MD has adviced her too...or they should stay away from sex if they can.

Posted: at 14-08-2011 10:53 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- drnoel at 15-08-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 14-08-2011 10:53 PM
if she didn't go ahead and do what the MD has adviced him to do..is her life...she will be the one to suffer the pains and her children are going to be the ones growing up with their mother...if she value her life plus their children own..let her do what the MD has adviced her too...or they should stay away from sex if they can.

i agree

Posted: at 15-08-2011 04:23 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- divineproject at 15-08-2011 04:47 PM (13 years ago)
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If I find myself in such situation, I would follow my doctor's advice, the man is selfish.......if the woman die now he will rush to marry another wife......

Posted: at 15-08-2011 04:47 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 15-08-2011 07:18 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: drnoel on 14-08-2011 10:24 PM
Quote from: giftmurphy on 14-08-2011 01:58 PM
life is a risk,u come alone,u die alone the lady should save her life cos if she die,the man will find another,so take it..........

Sister na true talk u talk
Smiley Cheesy
Posted: at 15-08-2011 07:18 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- drnoel at 21-08-2011 01:22 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: divineproject on 15-08-2011 04:47 PM
If I find myself in such situation, I would follow my doctor's advice, the man is selfish.......if the woman die now he will rush to marry another wife......

u see that kind thing..

Posted: at 21-08-2011 01:22 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
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- dirtykid at 21-08-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago)
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Contra.......what ?

Posted: at 21-08-2011 02:08 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- xena15 at 21-08-2011 02:27 PM (13 years ago)
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Ceptives....

Posted: at 21-08-2011 02:27 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- giftmurphy at 21-08-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago)
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lol
Posted: at 21-08-2011 04:41 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 123Sonia at 22-08-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 22-08-2011 01:17 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 22-08-2011 01:30 PM (13 years ago)
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arrant nonses Angry Angry

Posted: at 22-08-2011 01:30 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 22-08-2011 05:15 PM (13 years ago)
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ok
Posted: at 22-08-2011 05:15 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- kebella at 22-08-2011 08:17 PM (13 years ago)
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 Huh?

Posted: at 22-08-2011 08:17 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 22-08-2011 08:21 PM (13 years ago)
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>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Posted: at 22-08-2011 08:21 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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