About Dating an Older Lady? (Page 4)

Date: 30-10-2011 4:18 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Obi Nnaemeka
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- vinovick at 31-10-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago)
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Sit down there, make u dey look lyk luke. Go for it, if u love her and she loves you
Posted: at 31-10-2011 05:46 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- GullahGeeche at 31-10-2011 06:37 PM (12 years ago)
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This is actually a conversation. I am very surprised. 1 Year? She should rather be afraid to marry someone who is actually thinking about a one year age difference.

What will you do if she gets a gray hair before you? Will you divorce her?  Huh?

OMGoodness this is so sad that someone would even worry about 1 year? She should be afraid to marry you if this is how you feel.

Wowwwww!!!  This is really sad.  :'(  I think it's best you don't marry her. When you are angry, you will call her an old lady.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 06:37 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Bahceerat at 31-10-2011 07:14 PM (12 years ago)
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make up ur mynd, age is just a number. But, wat u shud consider most is ur happiness; since u re already worried abt it now; its likely that u aint gonna be happy with the marriage, cos sometime the love might temporarily fade away, wat will kip u going is d apiness u derive from the relationship nd how much u regard it (as in how u take value am). For me, if na just age; im no matter. But do u realy wana go for it, nd will it make u feel complete, satisfied and like a MAN.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:14 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- bellocity at 31-10-2011 07:18 PM (12 years ago)
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Mhm Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry DON'T BE STUPID SHE LOVES YOU RIGHT,?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- otagermo at 31-10-2011 07:19 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: senator76 on 31-10-2011 02:37 AM
and all this while u know she is older than u and u still dey hammer her..after u finish enjoy what carry u go to her u will tell u are sorry u cant marry her....look at u...
hahahahahahahah Grin..na you talkam ooooo
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- otagermo at 31-10-2011 07:32 PM (12 years ago)
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no no no mr poster.........you must marry her oooooooo......after wey you don dey hammer her for all this while.....na now you come know sey she senior you..........you must marry her ok............afterall ajanni is 73 while his wife is 93.......i dont see any big deal marrying person wey you don dey enjoy for a very long time...............
Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:32 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kebella at 31-10-2011 07:57 PM (12 years ago)
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yes inlaw Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 31-10-2011 07:57 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- otagermo at 31-10-2011 08:15 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kebella on 31-10-2011 07:57 PM
yes inlaw Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
queen of NP.......nothing mega Grin
Posted: at 31-10-2011 08:15 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- maeva at 31-10-2011 08:29 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: senator76 on 31-10-2011 02:37 AM
and all this while u know she is older than u and u still dey hammer her..after u finish enjoy what carry u go to her u will tell u are sorry u cant marry her....look at u...
gbammmmmmmmmmm
real talk.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 08:29 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Beauti4 at 31-10-2011 08:38 PM (12 years ago)
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So what if she is your wife to be?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 08:38 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- otagermo at 31-10-2011 08:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: obi_jay on 31-10-2011 08:25 PM
0_0...waoooo!!! really shocked at the huge response i got from this. I'll like to first of all thank all those that made sensible comments to this post. God bless y'all. Seems 99% of the comments i read were giving me the go ahead. Well, as to the question of whether i really love her, yeah...i do love her, you can take that to the bank. But there are some issues one has to seek counsel before taking any decision. You can't see fire and jump into it. What of the case of a guy and lady who are in love but are both AS. Should they marry all in the name of love?? It pays not just to look at the present, but the aftermath of the decisions we take. I asked this question because personally i've not seen cases of guyz dating or getting married to older ladies. That alone (the fact that its rarely common) should be a marker to someone who is really curious that something might not be right about that. That was the reason i asked the question...to hear other people's opinion. One year might not be that much; but calling a spade a spade, she's still older.

Once again thanks for all your responses. Love y'all.
love you too mr poster.....so are you going to marry her or not?Huh?
Posted: at 31-10-2011 08:47 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- proly at 31-10-2011 09:27 PM (12 years ago)
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well check deep inside u if ur in luv go on if ur nt well u can quit,my uncle married a woman five yrs older dan him but oday they ve wonderful children and great grand children very hapy home,bc wat maters in marriage is hapiness
Posted: at 31-10-2011 09:27 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- Claremont at 31-10-2011 09:42 PM (12 years ago)
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Age is mind over matter. If you don't mind, it really doesn't matter!
Posted: at 31-10-2011 09:42 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- ajanni at 31-10-2011 09:48 PM (12 years ago)
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na wa ooooooooooo
Posted: at 31-10-2011 09:48 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- kebella at 31-10-2011 10:32 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: otagermo on 31-10-2011 08:15 PM
Quote from: kebella on 31-10-2011 07:57 PM
yes inlaw Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
queen of NP.......nothing mega Grin
onwero  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:32 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- lopez2424 at 31-10-2011 10:37 PM (12 years ago)
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I don't think you should necessarily be worried about the age difference, unless there are other warning signs.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:37 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- crazy_luv at 31-10-2011 10:51 PM (12 years ago)
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love , by reason of it's passion, destorys the inbetween which relates us to and separates us from the other. no doubt there are souls who, for their own protection, must eschew all human affection if they are to cleave to God in purity of heart. i am not one of them. for me, detachment is only real if it involves loving.....recognising at the same time that such love is set in context of a supernatural love of God. my dear friend , of the truth i tell u. age have nothing to do with dating, marriage or relationship.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:51 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- ajanni at 31-10-2011 10:56 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: otagermo on 31-10-2011 08:15 PM
Quote from: kebella on 31-10-2011 07:57 PM
yes inlaw Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
queen of NP.......nothing mega Grin

who crown her?
basket mouth
Posted: at 31-10-2011 10:56 PM (12 years ago) | Grande Master
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- obegeorge at 31-10-2011 11:13 PM (12 years ago)
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u'v not even asked her out and u are already talking of marriage? man age is just a number.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 11:13 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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- Marietai at 31-10-2011 11:45 PM (12 years ago)
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If u are worried about it, do something about it.
Posted: at 31-10-2011 11:45 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie
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