After a long relationship my boyfriend hasnt proposed (Page 2)

 
ja nobody is gettin younger u just reminded me on somethin i ll hurry to get one too

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Posted: at 22-01-2009 11:13 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming

Am sorry to hear that.
Maybe hes not interested in marrying you.

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Posted: at 23-01-2009 02:12 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

yes u should ask him
so the both of u could come to a conclusion on where u're headed

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Posted: at 23-01-2009 03:15 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero

heck yeah
ask him

Posted: at 23-01-2009 04:24 AM (15 years ago) | Hero

exactly, let she propose to him to him too, not only guys will propose

Posted: at 23-01-2009 07:37 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

         why are you laughing,as a  matter of fact i cant see wats funny here. i have not seen anybody who dropped comments on this issue laugh the way u are doing!! lol pls is not funny she just needs your advice and thats all.

Posted: at 23-01-2009 09:00 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

hahaha, na wao

Posted: at 23-01-2009 09:33 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

nice one sammy
u is the man

Posted: at 23-01-2009 09:40 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac

HEY DEAR YOU ARE JUST TOO PRECIOUS TO BE TAKEN FOR GRANTED.I ADVICE YOU TO ASK HIM WAT HE REALLY WANTS SO YOU CAN MOVE ON WITH UR LIFE.U CAN THREATEN HIM WIT D FACT THAT OTHER SUITORS ARE COMING OK? WISH U D BEST.

Posted: at 23-01-2009 09:54 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie

That's a serious consideration coming from you after four years wearing blinders. Better late than never I agree.

Most people enter into a relationship based on just 'catching' their fun. If this was  or is the initial reason you entered into this relationship, after four years it should'nt come as strange no marriage proposal has popped up.

There are obvious signs at the start of any engagement which defines the direction it will assume if given free rein. Unfortunately many persons ignore these signs and presume the originally desired situation would manufacture itself along the way. Usually it leads to straw clucthing when time becomes a factor to be very seriously considered.

As someone has already posted: it really does'nt have to do with ladies been eager for marriage - they should be married as a matter of form - rather it does have to do with an innability to define what one wants and plan ones movement along those lines. But I'm beginning to repeat myself.


AOYN

Posted: at 23-01-2009 10:00 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie