malvin2525 at 28-11-2011 05:39 AM (12 years ago) (m) :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( Posted: at 28-11-2011 05:39 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ufourme at 28-11-2011 05:47 AM (12 years ago) (m) so the wife can take your money Posted: at 28-11-2011 05:47 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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nickyvil at 28-11-2011 06:25 AM (12 years ago) (m) lovely Question i believe if a man and a woman who get married now thinking of Divorce i think they forget the oath they made at the alter for better for worse...its better not to marry that to break the oath...the reason is most people dont know what the oath means we are not God so we are not perfect there will always be changes you can tell me a child will look the same way he/she looks five years back but what matters is we are inpatient and most of the marriage today are not based on love cos most misunderstood love for likeness at the same times most people love to marry to money and glittering things than Love.Not only in Europe here in Nigeria too Posted: at 28-11-2011 06:25 AM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ngeri1 at 28-11-2011 07:02 AM (12 years ago) (f) LOL this post is a joke right?! Too many people of any race and/or culture marry for the wrong reasons. I can say from my knowledge that Nigerians..well the older generations marry to please their families and end up in loveless/abusive/empty...insert any negative word there essentially..marriages. With the taboo assigned to divorce, too many stay instead of leaving and finding the individual that they were actually meant to be with. This post asks why Caucasians are more FOND (not fund...come on...no one proofreads?!??!!?) of divorce? That's ridiculous. Can someone make an intelligent post one day...come on....pleaseee just once?!! Posted: at 28-11-2011 07:02 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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iykewifey at 28-11-2011 08:14 AM (12 years ago) (f) Yep....its very horrible..yeah..some people divorce their husbands bcos they cheated...i mean, wat a reason!!! Thou, many of them have the right to make divorce plans for such reasons, these are things that can be discussed and settled like husband and wife, (family)...Abi forgiveness no dey brain again??....the more divorce, the more infidelity rate also increases na...na so oohh..I learn from my parents joooooorr
divorce is not the worst but infidelity which are on very high rate in african,,,yes i believe to err is human and forgive is divine,,but what about those offender cheaters who will not care about hurting their spouse instead bring in second wife, and yet the first wife stay in the marriage simply because she believe for better and 4 worst,,well the white dont accept such unfair treatment to humanity,,mis notr matter of individual,but its legaly forbidden to keep two wives in the same house in the name of marriage, in this case the prefer divorce. african women are now begining get fed up of unfair treatmen in some men who continue to cheat their spouse and ask forgiveness. Posted: at 28-11-2011 08:14 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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comrade88 at 28-11-2011 08:24 AM (12 years ago) (m) @ngeri1 Most stable marriages are not loveless but a few may be. Even if you think our parents' are not, you may be wrong cos they know themselves better. Divorce should not be encouraged in anyway. Some claim, their spouse change in marriage so a good reason for divorce. If someone changed once, he can change again. Every problem has a solution and marriage is no exception. An important step to any solution is to identify the problem, which most times involve the individual searching inwards or reasons for the spouse new behaviour. Sometimes the solution may not be an easy one but divorce is so easy and people prefer the easy path. Problems in marriage are like storm, with patience, prayer and great effort the storm will be over soonest. Posted: at 28-11-2011 08:24 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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iykewifey at 28-11-2011 08:29 AM (12 years ago) (f) divorce is not the worst , infidelity is the worst,dat is being married and having sex with different girls,i find it terrible infact horrible EXACTLY. Posted: at 28-11-2011 08:29 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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iykewifey at 28-11-2011 08:59 AM (12 years ago) (f) White people divorce more than Africans because POLYGAMY is illegal.
ALL U PEOPLE PREACHING ABOUT DIVORCE HAVE YOU READ WHAT THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT UNFAITHFULNESS IN MARRIAGE GOD HATE segxwal IMMORALITY,CHEATING ON ONE SPOUSE,,MATTHEW 19 V 9 I TELL YOU THAT ANYONE WHO DIVORCES HIS WIFE,EXCEPT FOR MARITAL UNFAITHFULNESS, AND MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN COMMITS ADULTERY,,AND SO CALLED POLYGAMY WHICH IS COMMON IN AFRICA IS AGAIST GOD COMMAND SO HE WHO HAS NO SIN CAST THE FIRST STONE,,,ITS A PERSONAL DECISION,,BESIDE THEIR LAW THAT ACCEPT TWO WIVES THAT WHY DICORCE RATE IS HIGH,,,IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT THEIR SYSTEM OF MARRIAGE IS WORST THAN AFRICAN WHO TORTURE THEIR WIFE BY GETTING MARRIED TO ANOTHER PARTNER WHILE THEIR STILL MARRIED,,,,AND THING IS OK,,,,WELL MY OPINION IS NONE OF THE TWO PRACTICE IS PERFECT,,,,BUT LET US TRY TO DO THAT WILL PLEASE GOD AND HUMANITY,,,,AS YOU LONG WE HAVE PEACE HAPPINESS WITH ANY DECISION WE MADE REGARDING OUR RELATIONSHIP,,,SO PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: at 28-11-2011 08:59 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Ebiskey at 28-11-2011 09:41 AM (12 years ago) (f) poster I think wat u thought before posting this debate okay. Posted: at 28-11-2011 09:41 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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jiraiya at 28-11-2011 10:19 AM (12 years ago) (m) NA DIA problem b dt Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:19 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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onyiis at 28-11-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) (f) reading comments
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:26 AM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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the reasons are not far fetched..... europe divource , i can tell a little.... GREED N SELFISHNESS are the major factors to divource and usually comes from the women(wives).... in europe the law guarding the women weighs the men down that they have more power, so when i say greed n selfihness involves this is bcos their mind is to see the man aquire alot as in properties and money ... they find a way of making problems with the man so they collect everything from the man sending the man outside... and they are the first to tender divource paper thier lawyer.... 4 the men divourcing the women, it usally happen with celebrities..... too much moni to throw around Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:50 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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fastyy at 28-11-2011 10:52 AM (12 years ago) (m) sometimes vry wise, sometimes foolish Posted: at 28-11-2011 10:52 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Ifogra at 28-11-2011 11:53 AM (12 years ago) (m) A lot of them have lost touch with reality all in the name of freedom of doing whatever they like Posted: at 28-11-2011 11:53 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Ifogra at 28-11-2011 11:57 AM (12 years ago) (m) They are confused b'cos all their theories of superb relationship have collapsed like a pack of cards so they are venting their anger on themselves. Posted: at 28-11-2011 11:57 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Dat na dere own palava
I bet u, when u wan chop cake, na then u go knw say oven dey. Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:17 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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ZION7ZION at 28-11-2011 12:19 PM (12 years ago) (m) future Marriages in Naija if care is not taken, the figure of Divorce is increasing each day 1st Woman: My sister abeg help me thank God, my Marriage is seven months today 2nd Woman: my sister you are Lucky, mine lasted for five months,am just praying for another one 1st woman: dont worry, God weh do am for me,go do am for U. 1st woman: Do you know that Angela celebrated her one year marriage in a big way? this is a big miracle,well shaa she is luck 2nd Woman: am just praying very hard, if mine gets to one year, i will throw a very big party that will shake this town Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:19 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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Shetalent at 28-11-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) (f) dey dont give a damn Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:24 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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trolling at 28-11-2011 12:39 PM (12 years ago) (m) LOL this post is a joke right?! Too many people of any race and/or culture marry for the wrong reasons. I can say from my knowledge that Nigerians..well the older generations marry to please their families and end up in loveless/abusive/empty...insert any negative word there essentially..marriages. With the taboo assigned to divorce, too many stay instead of leaving and finding the individual that they were actually meant to be with. This post asks why Caucasians are more FOND (not fund...come on...no one proofreads?!??!!?) of divorce? That's ridiculous. Can someone make an intelligent post one day...come on....pleaseee just once?!!
post yr own now, grammarcologist Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:39 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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onyiis at 28-11-2011 12:42 PM (12 years ago) (f) heheheeeeeeeeee !!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:42 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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