yep..i see wats on ur mind!! But, there are couples that just seperated not really divorced....maybe as the result of the high and indefinite change! Children begging their parents to divorce are children that will also divorce their wives or husbands at every slight mistake they make, its not what children are suppose to learn.....!! Some parents have been married and had children for years and the husbands behave in a very annoying and disgusting way...but still, most parents tend to live in endurance and in most situations like that there are very positive changes and very good changes too that brings motivation and even more love after some time of pain, PRAYER is something we take very unseriously in these things!!! This thing called ''MARRIAGE'' IS VERY DELICATE, apparently most people don take it serious and decide to poke nose, at the end of the day...they are having a divorce or they get maltreated and abused, or they get killed instead, people just like testing marraige and somhow they cant survive it, thats y they get divorces but if these were usually taken seriously, i think everyone would meet som1 and live with without divorce plans!!!
ANYWAY ...MOST of them white people i have met dont believe in God so somhow i think thats why!!
Guy, you really talked my mind and you've just spoken the truth about everything... Anybody in his/her right senses will understand and agree with every single word of yours!!! You have said it all... Bravo! Posted: at 27-11-2011 07:46 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Marriage is not always a bed of roses... It's ups/down thing! For a married man or woman to be having an affair is quite bad but that shouldn't lead to eternal damage called "DIVORCE". As much as i dislike cheating...; I so much hate this word "divorce" bcos its middle name is "destruction/hatred/suffering". There're better ways of settling some family issues than a suite for divorce. As for the white people, They don't really care about anything especially the moral upright of their future children...**Its kinda selfish & careless attitude they got** It's their believe to marry today and get divorce tomorrow. They don't care about the psychological trauma that is gonna cause their children. They never sacrifice anything for their children. They Just focused on their emotions, forgetting about their children well being. Back to my continent Africa, they're just emulating those sh*t from the West thinking it's the way. As at 90s, i can only hear husband and wife quarrel and later settle but now, some Africans who think they're wise and has gotten the western life has brought damage, destruction, suffering and ungodly things into the land... like immediate Divorce, Skimpy clothes, Legalization of Prostitution, Pornographic movie Industries....all in the name of Western life. NOTE IMPORTANTLY: The European eyes are on us Africans because we've a lot of things they don't have,... So why should we emulate some ungodly things coming from there. . Let's be very careful and never to "DIVORCE" no matter the problem in marriage. Only God that has a key to every problem. Talk to him!!! Posted: at 27-11-2011 07:51 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ILOVEIT at 27-11-2011 07:55 PM (12 years ago) (m)
The difference between GENIUS and STUPIDITY is that, genius has it limits.. Posted: at 27-11-2011 07:55 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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1daful at 27-11-2011 08:03 PM (12 years ago) (f)
1daful Is a Blessed Child.. Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:03 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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dirtykid at 27-11-2011 08:19 PM (12 years ago) (m) Reply |
trolling at 27-11-2011 08:30 PM (12 years ago) (m) People all over the world ( especially Americans and Europeans) have forgotten about God's word and laws that is why cheating and divorce are normal things there... Songs and videos of temtations, X-Files, legal (allowed/approved by government ) geys' and lesbians' marriages are coming from there... DEVIL@WORK... :'(
love u for that comment Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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charlym at 27-11-2011 08:34 PM (12 years ago) (m) That is their way of life and culture too. Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:34 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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interpo77 at 27-11-2011 08:42 PM (12 years ago) (m) i came to conclusions that divorce these days is infatuated to the fact that ppe of nowadays do not really know what its all about, unfortunately they realise that the best thing to do is to divorce and get their seperate ways, sometimes u can hear women been more interested in the issue, though it happen to be the best solution towards a diffected relationship call it marriage of friendship, in some western world,many divorce has its trampas (money)which was believed to be paid by men,again in nigeria in recient days we heard abt many divorcies cuased by lack of interest,culture ,though i advocate for such when a relationship has no more remedy, Africans has our way of understanding marriage and that blend has been toured into pieces and the reverse is the answer.respect and submission to husbands these days re inact .above all, i really pity our african guys living abroad with their wives married from home, really THINGS HAS FALLEN APART Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:42 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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proly at 27-11-2011 08:52 PM (12 years ago) (f) am cumn Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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CHUKAGLY at 27-11-2011 10:11 PM (12 years ago) (m) It's bc divorce is a way of gettin into d single society once more........
I DEPEND SOLELY IN GOD Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:11 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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serababy at 27-11-2011 10:18 PM (12 years ago) (f) HMM GO ASK OYIBO PEOPLE OOOOOO Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:18 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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osesunday at 27-11-2011 10:40 PM (12 years ago) (m) passing Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:40 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Obitexa at 27-11-2011 10:47 PM (12 years ago) (m) ur too young to understand..........marriage is not a bed of roses
It is actually u who is too young to understand...what do you mean by that statement? Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:47 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Eghe101 at 27-11-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago) (f) because most of them dont feel anything when they get married they just get married for the ufn or it and as we all know that dont last forever that way. :'( Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:55 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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bellocity at 27-11-2011 11:05 PM (12 years ago) (m) they taught from their donnish. Posted: at 27-11-2011 11:05 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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Joe4christ at 27-11-2011 11:06 PM (12 years ago) (m) Well i guess it's cos they aint gat no time for sh*t mehn! Posted: at 27-11-2011 11:06 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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toibeli at 27-11-2011 11:41 PM (12 years ago) (m) White people divorce more than Africans because POLYGAMY is illegal. Posted: at 27-11-2011 11:41 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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MissTimea at 28-11-2011 12:54 AM (12 years ago) (f) hm.. very good question! am white but i dunno the answer.. for example in here hungary ppl get married when they are too young.. maybe thats the problem. but am lucky, i have a nigerian fiance.. if we got married i dont want to divorce! Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:54 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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Kenwisdom at 28-11-2011 01:07 AM (12 years ago) (m) P O S T E R .............., Well............, this topic right here is older than you, you guys are here talking about marriage & divorce, I'm not saying that divorce is goog or you dont know what you're saying, I dislike it also as well, & i do believe that no body likes it okay; Here in europe their is no-much divorce, why because their no much marriage, their is what called................ Livingtogether and I Makefinish, that's what here in europe mostly,an that one happens all the time more than divorce Poster do you what is called I makefinish ?, That's european language . Posted: at 28-11-2011 01:07 AM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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ur too young to understand..........marriage is not a bed of roses
although many blacks hv adaptd that lyf but i askd my self that question sometyms ago not knw i wll stll experience it myself,just bcus of some few pounds a gal i took as my wife instantaniously change and planned 4 divorce that we r nt even upto one year married sayn that i charmed her wth juju/vudu/blackmagic . Posted: at 28-11-2011 02:19 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie | |
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