Why is that white people are more fond of Divorce? (Page 2)

Marriage is not always a bed of roses... It's ups/down thing! For a married man or woman to be having an affair is quite bad but that shouldn't lead to eternal damage called "DIVORCE". As much as i dislike cheating...; I so much hate this word "divorce" bcos its middle name is "destruction/hatred/suffering". There're better ways of settling some family issues than a suite for divorce. As for the white people, They don't really care about anything especially the moral upright of their future children...**Its kinda selfish & careless attitude they got** It's their believe to marry today and get divorce tomorrow. They don't care about the psychological trauma that is gonna cause their children. They never sacrifice anything for their children. They Just focused on their emotions, forgetting about their children well being. Back to my continent Africa, they're just emulating those sh*t from the West thinking it's the way. As at 90s, i can only hear husband and wife quarrel and later settle but now, some Africans who think they're wise and has gotten the western life has brought damage, destruction, suffering and ungodly things into the land... like immediate Divorce, Skimpy clothes, Legalization of Prostitution, Pornographic movie Industries....all in the name of Western life. NOTE IMPORTANTLY: The European eyes are on us Africans because we've a lot of things they don't have,... So why should we emulate some ungodly things coming from there. . Let's be very careful and never to "DIVORCE" no matter the problem in marriage. Only God that has a key to every problem. Talk to him!!!

Posted: at 27-11-2011 07:51 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

 

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Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:03 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

love u for that comment

Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:30 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

i came to conclusions that divorce these days is infatuated to the fact that ppe of  nowadays do not really know what its all about, unfortunately they realise that the best thing to do is to divorce and get their seperate ways, sometimes u can hear women been more interested in the  issue, though it happen  to be the best solution towards a diffected relationship call it marriage of friendship,
   in some western world,many divorce has its trampas (money)which was believed to be paid by men,again  in nigeria in recient days we heard abt many divorcies cuased by  lack of interest,culture ,though i advocate for such when a relationship has no more remedy,
 Africans has our way of understanding  marriage and that blend has been toured into pieces and the reverse is the answer.respect and submission to husbands these days re inact .above all, i really pity our african guys living abroad with their wives married from home, really THINGS HAS FALLEN  APART

Posted: at 27-11-2011 08:42 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac

It's bc divorce is a way of gettin into d single society once more........

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Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:11 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

passing

Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:40 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming

because most of them dont feel anything when they get married they just get married for the ufn or it and as we all know that dont last forever that way. :'(

Posted: at 27-11-2011 10:55 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

Well i guess it's cos they aint gat no time for sh*t mehn!

Posted: at 27-11-2011 11:06 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie

hm.. very good question! am white but i dunno the answer.. for example in here hungary ppl get married when they are too young.. maybe thats the problem. but am lucky, i have a nigerian fiance.. if we got married i dont want to divorce!

Posted: at 28-11-2011 12:54 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie

although many blacks hv adaptd that lyf but i askd my self that question sometyms ago not knw i wll stll experience it myself,just bcus of some few pounds a gal i took as my wife instantaniously change and planned 4 divorce that we r nt even upto one year married sayn that i charmed her wth juju/vudu/blackmagic .

Posted: at 28-11-2011 02:19 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie