My wife denies me sex since I married her, man tells court on DECEMBER 9, 2011 · in NEWS
Lagos – A respondent in a divorce suit on Thursday told a customary court in Lagos that he always had to force himself on his wife for sex throughout their eight-year marriage.
“Ever since I started living with my wife, she denies me sex; I had to force myself on her before we had our four children,’’ Mr Chukwudi Obi submitted before a Grade “B” Customary Court in Oshodi.
Chukwudi was responding to a petition by his wife, Nkechinyere, seeking a court order to stop his alleged planned marriage to his girlfriend.
He told the court that Nkechinyere threatened to stab him with a knife in 2010 when he attempted to have sex with her.
“Since she started living with me in 2003, my wife would always find it difficult to have sex with me; I do not know what her problem is.
“Don`t you think it is strange to hear that we had our four children through the use of force? ”.
“When I saw that things were getting out of hand, I took her and the children to the village so that her parents could talk sense into her,’’Chukwudi submitted.
He said that he was ready for divorce because he was fed up with the segxwal starvation.
The respondent submitted that he would still be providing for the four children after divorce.
He denied an allegation by his wife that he abandoned his family because of his girlfriend.
“I did not abandon them as she said because I was sending her N10,000 on monthly basis to take care of the children; I have the tellers here,” he said.
The respondent tendered some bank deposit slips as evidence before the court.
Nkechinyere had alleged that Chukwudi abandoned her and the children because he was planning to marry his girlfriend on December 10.
The Court President, Alhaja A.I. Olorunimbe, ordered the respondent to continue to pay his wife N10,000 monthly for the children’s upkeep, pending the determination of the suit.
She ordered that the status quo be maintained, and enjoined the parents of both parties to explore means of resolving their conflicts.
The court president adjourned the case till Jan. 27, next year for report of settlement. (NAN)
Posted: at 9-12-2011 05:30 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
In a civilised world this guy could go to jail to have been molesting the wife over the years. The marriage should have ended long ago after he must have tried everything to help the woman overcome her problems. I just feel sorry for both of them. Hope they work things out.
Posted: at 9-12-2011 05:39 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
A meeting was held in michika yesterday between women and ladies on the topic women dignity and the conclude within themselves,that a women or a lady can only lost her honor only when she have segxwal intercourse with the man she not married too, is that's true ...................what are your views
Posted: at 27-01-2012 05:56 PM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
MY BROTHER PLEASE LEAVE HER ASAP, WITHOUT HOLDING BACK..... IN THE FIRST PLACE SHE MARRIED YOU BECAUSE SHE NEEDED TO GET MARRIED POSSIBLY YOU WERE THE ONLY SANE PERSON THAT PROPOSED TO HER. SHE IS ONLY TOLERATING YOU SHE DOESNT LOVE YOU, PLS RUN AWAY FAST
Posted: at 28-01-2012 12:21 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie