I Lied On My Online Profile and Now My Boo Wants To Cut Things Off

Date: 28-12-2011 2:19 pm (13 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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- at 28-12-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago)
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My situation is a bit complicated in that it involves a 1 & half year online long distance relationship where I had lied about my online profile. I told him the truth in September and suffice to say it didn’t go down well. He said about a week after I told him the truth that he doesn’t mind being friends but that there is no chance for us to be more in the future. I am not sure if he said it out of anger/hurt at that time or if he really meant it because even looking at our relationship objectively, he truly was in love with me to the point where he was going on interviews to move to the country that I said I lived in.

We are finally back on talking terms since November but it is very casual and indifferent and that is why I think trying to rebuild trust by way of doing the friends route is not working.

So I was planning on apologizing again but this time focusing on him and making sure that he understands that I have taken these 3 months to really try and understand what he feels. I would like to tell him that I still have feelings for him and hope for a future together but that I understand that trust takes time to be rebuilt and that the decision is his. But I’m not sure if dredging up the past is a good idea either. It’s just that I feel that the situation is urgent because he is slipping away.
-Alice


Posted: at 28-12-2011 02:19 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- giftmurphy at 28-12-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago)
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goodluck alice nd poster
Posted: at 28-12-2011 03:25 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 28-12-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 28-12-2011 03:36 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- youngrashy at 28-12-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago)
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hmmmm interesting
Posted: at 28-12-2011 03:59 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ityspecial at 28-12-2011 04:44 PM (13 years ago)
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Try ur best.
Posted: at 28-12-2011 04:44 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- bittersweet at 28-12-2011 05:09 PM (13 years ago)
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What did she lie about?  Huh?

Posted: at 28-12-2011 05:09 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- giftmurphy at 28-12-2011 09:36 PM (13 years ago)
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not stated
Posted: at 28-12-2011 09:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- dirtykid at 28-12-2011 10:13 PM (13 years ago)
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incomplete post  Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 28-12-2011 10:13 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 29-12-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 28-12-2011 05:09 PM
What did she lie about?  Huh?


her profile of course  Sad

Posted: at 29-12-2011 10:36 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- bittersweet at 29-12-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 29-12-2011 10:36 AM

her profile of course  Sad

Be more precise!

Posted: at 29-12-2011 01:29 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 29-12-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 29-12-2011 01:29 PM
Be more precise!

Iron lady, she no narrate the whole story for me
she said i lied on my profile ooooo  Sad Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 29-12-2011 03:55 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 30-12-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago)
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lolz
Posted: at 30-12-2011 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- sexweezy at 30-12-2011 10:45 AM (13 years ago)
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apologise and set things straight
Posted: at 30-12-2011 10:45 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bittersweet at 30-12-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: 50scent on 29-12-2011 03:55 PM
Iron lady, she no narrate the whole story for me
she said i lied on my profile ooooo  Sad Sad Sad Sad

Hm!Anyway, she screwed it up anyway, so now she's reaping what she sow!
Sorry, if I may sound a little harsh, but I abhor liars!

Posted: at 30-12-2011 11:53 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- gagewonda at 30-12-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago)
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what exactly did you lie about, we need to know so we can advice properly.....goodluck
Posted: at 30-12-2011 01:26 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
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- 50scent at 30-12-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 30-12-2011 11:53 AM
Hm!Anyway, she screwed it up anyway, so now she's reaping what she sow!
Sorry, if I may sound a little harsh, but I abhor liars!


 Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 30-12-2011 01:31 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 31-12-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 31-12-2011 04:24 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 3-01-2012 09:40 AM (13 years ago)
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 Kiss

Posted: at 3-01-2012 09:40 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 3-01-2012 11:18 AM (13 years ago)
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Quote from: giftmurphy on 28-12-2011 03:25 PM
goodluck alice nd poster

 Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 3-01-2012 11:18 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 3-01-2012 11:25 AM (13 years ago)
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 Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 3-01-2012 11:25 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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