What is/was your strategy to finding true love??

My good pple of naijapals, happy new year to you all. Just wanna share this:

Truth be told, for you to find love or be found by love, you have to strategise! Even after you have found love, or after love has found you, you also need to strategise to keep it! Women need to realise that men nearly always have a strategy when it come to things like marriage: a strategy to get married or a strategy not to get married… at a particular time or to a particular person! So it irks me whenever I hear things like “I’m a woman, the man is supposed to find me not the other way round!” Girlfriend you will so jonze! Statistically, we have been told that there are now more men than women inNigeria. So in other words the competition should be a lot less than it used to be, so how come some many women aren’t getting married? We could throw up a number of reasons for this, but the question I always ask is “Then how come all the event centres are always hosting wedding receptions every Saturday?” Call me names but I believe that the difference between the women saying “I do” and those lining up to catch the bouquet is strategy or the lack of it! Just ask the brides!

 In my little social study, I have found that although the phenomenon of single women is common to women from all Nigerian tribes, I find that women from one tribe in particular seem to have no trouble getting hitched. They get married to men from theirs and other tribes as well! From the interactions I have had with them I find that most of them had executed one strategy or the other! Now I know that some of you are thinking that I’m advocating that women chase men. Maybe, maybe not; but if you think about it there are so many strategies and tactics that do not involve running after a man or setting him up either. Be available, be a coquette, be smart, be dependable, offer some sort of value; take risks, believe in yourself and have lots of faith. Make a plan, strategise, execute the plan, and if it doesn’t work, have a backup plan! And oh yeah, not having a strategy is also a strategy…. a strategy for failure.

Strategise based on your strengths, work on your weaknesses. For instance, my friends used to say that I lacked approach – for some reason I could be shy around women I didn’t know; however, they all marvelled at my follow-up tactics, because once I had found common ground for the basis for an introduction, I would follow the babe up like my life depended on it.
So don’t just limit your strategic thinking to your career or finances, almost everything in life requires some form of strategy. You can’t afford to just plod along hoping that somehow things will just fall into place. You must strategise! And no, not all strategy is “evil” or “manipulation” as some people have argued.

So what is/was you strategy to win him or her?

clued form bellanaija

be respectful but dont b a fool,  thank him for everything, always praise him for everything he does, give him compliments at every given opportunity, try to almost always let him b d one dat is right, like telling him u r right, tell him u r d best , or thats the best advice, ask him for his opinion in almost everything, ask him for his help in fixing thing n thank him n praise him like a king

na the koko u dey yarn , der dey underestimate  am, but nah d koko b dat, sexy n sex is the fastest way to a mans brain which is his heart , take it or leave it 8)have got u , 1 million girls can trample thierself over

most of ma friends dey always very surprised , when i tell them latest guy wey i dey hangout with , because it is just so unbelievable, but those guys know wetin der see , n boy if i have got u , 1 million girls can trample thierself over  the closest dey will get is sex , but nah me own the guy , so i no dey shake atall when i c girls wey want my guy , cos i sure say der no know wetin der want use am do  ,  :Dme we stars go dey beg , i go dey do shakara,  , first of all i look sexy n beautiful   classy too then i round am up with bedmatics, whyt more does a guy want

and wen d gift isn't a pleasant one wat happens?