A surprise visit to ur date's home on Valentine day! Is it okay?

Date: 09-02-2012 12:33 pm (12 years ago) | Author: Groove Rocker
- at 9-02-2012 12:33 PM (12 years ago)
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My colleagues (male & female) were arguing about this:
  • Girl: I should be able to go to my guys house secretly, cook a special dish and set the apartment mood with candles while I wait till he gets back from office on Valentine's day as my surprise VAL gift for him. After all, we are dating so I have right to surprise him like that by violating his privacy!
  • Guy: Why would you do that? Shouldn't there be a hint? What if he comes home very tired and didn't appreciate all your efforts the way u wanted? Or what if he has other plans?  Shocked Shocked

For me, I would say - HELL NO! Ladies please cut that surprise part cos most guys (me) hardly appreciate surprises. What if am expecting more from her, I won't be able to hide my disappointment? I do rather she tells me or give a hint of wht she's planning which on its own will be good enough as a surprise. In case, I want more, I can stylishly tell her. Grin

Guys & ladies, wht do u think about this argument?

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:33 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 12:43 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Thomax on  9-02-2012 12:33 PM
My colleagues (male & female) were arguing about this:
  • Girl: I should be able to go to my guys house secretly, cook a special dish and set the apartment mood with candles while I wait till he gets back from office on Valentine's day as my surprise VAL gift for him. After all, we are dating so I have right to surprise him like that by violating his privacy!
  • Guy: Why would you do that? Shouldn't there be a hint? What if he comes home very tired and didn't appreciate all your efforts the way u wanted? Or what if he has other plans?  Shocked Shocked

For me, I would say - HELL NO! Ladies please cut that surprise part cos most guys (me) hardly appreciate surprises. What if am expecting more from her, I won't be able to hide my disappointment? I do rather she tells me or give a hint of wht she's planning which on its own will be good enough as a surprise. In case, I want more, I can stylishly tell her. Grin

Guys & ladies, wht do u think about this argument?

it cool  Cool..i remember sometime last yr..wen my both coleagues that were dating...it was his birthday..and she alerted evry1 abt his suprise party..nobody did told him anything..but on geting home that night..he was Amazed..cos he wasnt planing on anything or expecting such..he was very happy...today dey are hapily married..most times Suprises are good..

but make u no go do,come suprise urself ooo... Grin not all guys loves VAL suprises..cos them go don make arrangements finish..
1st gal > na eatery them go celebrate the val..... 12pm
2nd gal > na for his friend houx dem go celebrate am.... 3pm (quickie)
3rd gal . na for beach......4.30pm   
last gal.> na d kokolet be that..na En house dem go stay nak d Akpako  Grin Grin Grin

guys una too much joor

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:43 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago)
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Sometimes the SUPRISER becomes The SUPRISEE

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:45 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 9-02-2012 12:47 PM (12 years ago)
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lookin 4 my surprisee Roll Eyes Roll Eyes

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:47 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 12:52 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin..make en no tink to suprise u,com suprise en self..by seeing another man ontop of bed o  Grin

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:52 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 9-02-2012 12:54 PM (12 years ago)
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that might be d end of the world 4 me Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:54 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 12:55 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin den beter dont suprise...hint him abt ur suprise.. Grin Grin Grin Grin

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:55 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 9-02-2012 12:58 PM (12 years ago)
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re yu kidding ..........his d one 2 surprise me Cool

Posted: at 9-02-2012 12:58 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- hotguy77 at 9-02-2012 01:01 PM (12 years ago)
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Surprise visit? No no no, its better you let me know than the surprise not to be surprised.
Posted: at 9-02-2012 01:01 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 01:06 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: hotguy77 on  9-02-2012 01:01 PM
Surprise visit? No no no, its better you let me know than the surprise not to be surprised.

exactly..the supriser go be the suprisee naaaaaaaaaaaaa

Posted: at 9-02-2012 01:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- kebella at 9-02-2012 01:09 PM (12 years ago)
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 Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy

Posted: at 9-02-2012 01:09 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 01:10 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin

Posted: at 9-02-2012 01:10 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Thomax at 9-02-2012 01:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Some yrs back my chic wey dey off and on wan surprise me by bumpin in without informing me. she was comin frm a family wedding but me na, i don dey runs another chic tey tey. she didnt even knock but just entered Shocked.....

chai!!!! she vex comot but the nxt day, she came wit her sister to fight and pack som of her things she left behind... she n her sister nearly break my head tht day oo Embarrassed Embarrassed
Posted: at 9-02-2012 01:39 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- sophiebaby at 9-02-2012 01:48 PM (12 years ago)
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 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin na en fit u..double dater

Posted: at 9-02-2012 01:48 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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