hi my naija pple, i have a confession to make. as a guy i'm in relationship with a lady and we love ourself. we are planning to wed. we both are christians, she is a CAC member while i'm a roman catholic. she said she wont want a divided family where husband will be going to a different church and wife will be going to different church and i don't want to give up my church and she too said she will never go to my church. she want it to be resolved b4 the wedding. as for me, i believe tht love doesnt base on conditions. i see it as dictation. so i'm confuse, i dont know wht to do......... someone shld advice me
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:03 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
hi my naija pple, i have a confession to make. as a guy i'm in relationship with a lady and we love ourself. we are planning to wed. we both are christians, she is a CAC member while i'm a roman catholic. she said she wont want a divided family where husband will be going to a different church and wife will be going to different church and i don't want to give up my church and she too said she will never go to my church. she want it to be resolved b4 the wedding. as for me, i believe tht love doesnt base on conditions. i see it as dictation. so i'm confuse, i dont know wht to do......... someone shld advice me
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:07 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
To me i dnt tink one's denomination shud b a barrier to marriage. so far we r woshiping d same God, what matters is salvation. I knw, u ll like to join her in her own denomination but prior to what ur parents might have told u abt u leaving ur own mother church and stuffs, so u r stucked. if dat b the case then talk to her, i tink she will listen 2u.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:14 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
good day. If she really loves you, let her be converted to Roman Catholic. I think you are MAN of the house. And to start going different churches will shatter your family. Try and let her reason with you. Forget her own mother church, it is between you and her! Also put that in prayers!
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:24 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
Does the church one attend matter's? If the love is truly there,both of you shld agree on whose church to attend or you both keep attending your various churches.Serving God is the most important thing not the church one attend.
I Believe... True Friendship continues to grow... even over... the longest distance...( I need my son as much as I need my breath.)
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:28 AM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
good day. If she really loves you, let her be converted to Roman Catholic. I think you are MAN of the house. And to start going different churches will shatter your family. Try and let her reason with you. Forget her own mother church, it is between you and her! Also put that in prayers!
I gues u r a roman catholic. is not dat easy to leave one's mother church for another most especially when u knw thier mode of worship is different. But to me i tink one can always adapt 2 changes. Most of this denominational problem during marriage r often engineered by our prists often common with d CAC and Roman catholics. U hear dem advicing d parents of the bride/groom 2 convert dem to dier church or get banned from church activities.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:39 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
SAmyrocko at 4-02-2009 11:40 AM (15 years ago) (m)
@ Poster, by right the wife you are to marry should follow you to where you worship. she don't have the right of her own to decide that you follow her to her family church. i don't see this as a barrier. If she loves you and wants you to marry her. her family members doesn't have the right to choose the church their daughter attends with her husband, what you own them is to do the necessary things required of you then marry her in their church after which you takes her to your own place of worship.
If she is not ready to give up her church, then you call it a day with her. Except if you want to give Ur own up then you go ahead and marry her.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:40 AM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
@mazi...dat question is difficult 2 ans. oh, cos if u watch 2days church, all wot we hear is prosperity and miracles. bring more, more, more 2d house of God.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 4-02-2009 11:56 AM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
good day. If she really loves you, let her be converted to Roman Catholic. I think you are MAN of the house. And to start going different churches will shatter your family. Try and let her reason with you. Forget her own mother church, it is between you and her! Also put that in prayers!
I gues u r a roman catholic. is not dat easy to leave one's mother church for another most especially when u knw thier mode of worship is different. But to me i tink one can always adapt 2 changes. Most of this denominational problem during marriage r often engineered by our prists often common with d CAC and Roman catholics. U hear dem advicing d parents of the bride/groom 2 convert dem to dier church or get banned from church activities.
Quite true. Then they should check whether their is love btn them, cos one should certainly give up. More likely the bride!
Posted: at 4-02-2009 12:13 PM (15 years ago) | Upcoming
good day. If she really loves you, let her be converted to Roman Catholic. I think you are MAN of the house. And to start going different churches will shatter your family. Try and let her reason with you. Forget her own mother church, it is between you and her! Also put that in prayers!
I gues u r a roman catholic. is not dat easy to leave one's mother church for another most especially when u knw thier mode of worship is different. But to me i tink one can always adapt 2 changes. Most of this denominational problem during marriage r often engineered by our prists often common with d CAC and Roman catholics. U hear dem advicing d parents of the bride/groom 2 convert dem to dier church or get banned from church activities.
Quite true. Then they should check whether their is love btn them, cos one should certainly give up. More likely the bride!
yea, definitely. most cases d bide gives up and case closes.
...everywhere i go they keep saying i'm Unique, well that's because my swag defines me.
Posted: at 4-02-2009 12:16 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
SAmyrocko at 4-02-2009 12:22 PM (15 years ago) (m)
Quote from: Pires07 on 4-02-2009 11:56 AM
@mazi...dat question is difficult 2 ans. oh, cos if u watch 2days church, all wot we hear is prosperity and miracles. bring more, more, more 2d house of God.
every one goes arround from one church to another looking for where to get them.
you are going to get rich by the end of this month.... can some 1 say amen to that
The congregation will shout and stumble.
things is getting out of hand. for crying out loud we are serving on GOD.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 4-02-2009 12:22 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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