My friend was married for 15 years,she lived with her husband and 4 children in the US,her husband who is a teacher travels home every summertime and had affairs with another woman in Nigeria which produce 2 children.She found out about the other woman thru her family and was comfirmed by the husbands family too.She confronted her husband previously and he denied it.She later travelled to Nigeria but told her husband she was travelling to the UK and found out the other woman lived with her 2 kids in the house built by my friend and her husband.She filed for divorce,her husband was not taking care of his responsibility in the family,but instead send his money home to start a pure water business in Nigeria.Now her husband is begging her to take him back.I told her to think deep before making any decision,as for me i dont think i can tolerate that type of man in my life too but i dont want to say that to my friend.I thank God for my husband.Need ur candid opinion pls.
Posted: at 19-03-2012 09:47 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
FlyMamacita at 19-03-2012 10:08 AM (13 years ago) (f)
15 years of marriage, please she shud not just walk out of it but tink very very well. Is the husband ready to be with her and leave the other woman wit his kids ? Ofcos not....So she will have to decide if she can share him with dat woman
Posted: at 19-03-2012 10:08 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Treasure2 at 19-03-2012 10:18 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Marriage is an institution where we never graduate. Alot of things happen in marriage that one can not explain and that is why is very deep. Let your friend follow her heart.
Posted: at 19-03-2012 10:18 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
sophiebaby at 19-03-2012 10:23 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-03-2012 10:08 AM
15 years of marriage, please she shud not just walk out of it but tink very very well. Is the husband ready to be with her and leave the other woman wit his kids ? Ofcos not....So she will have to decide if she can share him with dat woman
Shikena
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :*
Posted: at 19-03-2012 10:23 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
wisegal007 at 19-03-2012 07:30 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-03-2012 10:08 AM
15 years of marriage, please she shud not just walk out of it but tink very very well. Is the husband ready to be with her and leave the other woman wit his kids ? Ofcos not....So she will have to decide if she can share him with dat woman ???
Thanks for ur opinion, more needed pls,my friend said one thing she can never share is her man,she has a good career making six figures,so money is not her problem,meanwhile remember her husband was not helping financially in the home anyway.He was sending money to the other woman and telling my friend they are starting business in Nigeria.If her husband want to let go of this other woman but what if the woman will not let go of him.My friend said she is not ready to be going thru spiritual warfare with another woman all in sake of a man who is not even taking care of his home financially.He would have continue with the other woman if the wife didnt find out.It looks like he want to have a wife in the US and another in Nigeria.Also my friend dislike her mother inlaw who must have instigated all these with her son.
Posted: at 19-03-2012 07:30 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
suzygirl at 20-03-2012 07:42 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 19-03-2012 10:08 AM
15 years of marriage, please she shud not just walk out of it but tink very very well. Is the husband ready to be with her and leave the other woman wit his kids ? Ofcos not....So she will have to decide if she can share him with dat woman ???
As for me, Hell NO,am a believer of the marriage vows which says the man will leave other women and stick to his wife,in this case its no longer marriage.He will have to meet me in divorce court and i will make sure i take him to the cleaners.Then he can start anew with his new wife while i move on with my life.I cannot share my man with nobody.Am allergic to that o.
Posted: at 20-03-2012 07:42 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
FlyMamacita at 20-03-2012 11:18 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wisegal007 on 19-03-2012 07:30 PM
Thanks for ur opinion, more needed pls,my friend said one thing she can never share is her man,she has a good career making six figures,so money is not her problem,meanwhile remember her husband was not helping financially in the home anyway.He was sending money to the other woman and telling my friend they are starting business in Nigeria.If her husband want to let go of this other woman but what if the woman will not let go of him.My friend said she is not ready to be going thru spiritual warfare with another woman all in sake of a man who is not even taking care of his home financially.He would have continue with the other woman if the wife didnt find out.It looks like he want to have a wife in the US and another in Nigeria.Also my friend dislike her mother inlaw who must have instigated all these with her son.
What are the reasons for him not to take care of his family? It is bcos d woman makes enuf money, laziness or ? How does she knw dat her moda inlaw knew about all dis ? Dis she talk wit her, or they dislike each oda b4? And apart from sharing her husband, is she ready to forgve am ?
Posted: at 20-03-2012 11:18 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
FlyMamacita at 20-03-2012 11:20 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: suzygirl on 20-03-2012 07:42 AM
As for me, Hell NO,am a believer of the marriage vows which says the man will leave other women and stick to his wife,in this case its no longer marriage.He will have to meet me in divorce court and i will make sure i take him to the cleaners.Then he can start anew with his new wife while i move on with my life.I cannot share my man with nobody.Am allergic to that o.
Lol its not for everybody nah But many women do it, nd live their life happy... But it will only make tins more complicated to me, better make his choice
Posted: at 20-03-2012 11:20 PM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
Thanks for ur opinion, more needed pls,my friend said one thing she can never share is her man,she has a good career making six figures,so money is not her problem,meanwhile remember her husband was not helping financially in the home anyway.He was sending money to the other woman and telling my friend they are starting business in Nigeria.If her husband want to let go of this other woman but what if the woman will not let go of him.My friend said she is not ready to be going thru spiritual warfare with another woman all in sake of a man who is not even taking care of his home financially.He would have continue with the other woman if the wife didnt find out.It looks like he want to have a wife in the US and another in Nigeria.Also my friend dislike her mother inlaw who must have instigated all these with her son.
She should make her decision and see if it will suite her. I can only advise that she stick with the man afteral he's back on his knees begging,15years isn't a joke o unless if she wants to start living a single mother lifestyle
i love me
Posted: at 21-03-2012 12:37 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
wisegal007 at 21-03-2012 07:32 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 20-03-2012 11:18 PM
What are the reasons for him not to take care of his family? It is bcos d woman makes enuf money, laziness or ? How does she knw dat her moda inlaw knew about all dis ? Dis she talk wit her, or they dislike each oda b4? And apart from sharing her husband, is she ready to forgve am ?
The mother in law is aware of the other woman because they live in the same house,my friend didnt get along with the mother inlaw b4 the other woman came in.The husband makes one third of what the wife makes.Mother in law talks his son to bring his money home every year in pretence of them starting business at home while my friend pays the bills in the home.She will not share her man with no one, not even with a man who doesnt take care of his responsibility in the home.
Posted: at 21-03-2012 07:32 PM (13 years ago) | Newbie
FlyMamacita at 22-03-2012 11:42 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: wisegal007 on 21-03-2012 07:32 PM
The mother in law is aware of the other woman because they live in the same house,my friend didnt get along with the mother inlaw b4 the other woman came in.The husband makes one third of what the wife makes.Mother in law talks his son to bring his money home every year in pretence of them starting business at home while my friend pays the bills in the home.She will not share her man with no one, not even with a man who doesnt take care of his responsibility in the home.
Then i guess she already made up her mind
Posted: at 22-03-2012 11:42 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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