My Mother, Enemy Of Progres!Man Reveals How His Mother Ended His Plans To Travel Out Of Nigeria

Date: 25-04-2024 10:33 pm (1 week ago) | Author: Olusanya Akinrinola
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Nigerian man painfully shares how his mother burnt his travel documents after he got an opportunity to leave Nigeria to play football internationally.

The young man took to his Twitter account, @naetochukwu01, to narrate the unfortunate events that occurred.

This came after Tunde Onakoya’s dad revealed he used to stop Tunde from playing chess when he was younger.
This prompted the young man to also share his own near success story that was halted because of his mother’s anger.

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“I no been wan talk but e no spoil. When I was 15 I got scouted to play for a team in Melbourne, Australia. Two weeks to leave for Melbourne. One faithful Sunday my mom came home from church and was yelling at me,so I hissed at her, she became furious (typical African mother)

Then she started yelling “is it cos you want to go abroad now that you are hissing at me?, come and go now let me see you” I have to tame you, before you become untamable” she stormed my room and took my travel documents, my Jerseys and boots I had bought in Nigeria and my boxes

She took kerosene and matches , went to the backyard and set everything ablaze. Immediately she lit the fire and threw it in her eyes cleared. I was only able to recover my International passport. Idk if she regrets it but my life could have changed for good if not for her anger.

I’m not saying this to pile on my Ma or anything but it changed the trajectory of my life, she has apologized and still apologizing and I don’t think I love her any less. I just hope I win big with something else cos the suffering that act has put me through can’t be explained”


Many Netizens are left aghast by this information and shared their sympathy for the young man.

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Posted: at 25-04-2024 10:33 PM (1 week ago) | Hero
- nikiniki at 25-04-2024 10:41 PM (1 week ago)
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We mothers had to reign in our anger!!!
Posted: at 25-04-2024 10:41 PM (1 week ago) | Gistmaniac
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- gogoman at 25-04-2024 10:52 PM (1 week ago)
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But if na ur papa do am now u no go forgive am Roll Eyes Roll Eyes Roll Eyes
Posted: at 25-04-2024 10:52 PM (1 week ago) | Grande Master
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- Holopid at 26-04-2024 12:42 AM (1 week ago)
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Only a foolish mum would leave a minor to travel abroad,u were 15! u were minor bro!  u have a good mum biko!
Do u even know what is in Western world? Coming over here at that Tender age Pose a Lot of risk for underage!do U know how many underage african Kids in Western world that are street thugs,gangbangers,hard drugs addict ,lesbian,gay etc bcus of Western culture!Western world Kids that Lack Home Training,Imagine If u beat ur Kids they would call Police on ur ass!,& social would Take d child away from you.God bless ur mother biko,she is wise Smiley
Posted: at 26-04-2024 12:42 AM (1 week ago) | Gistmaniac
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- kp45 at 26-04-2024 07:02 AM (1 week ago)
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Ok
Posted: at 26-04-2024 07:02 AM (1 week ago) | Addicted Hero
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- fineboy77 at 26-04-2024 09:04 AM (1 week ago)
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Quote from: Holopid on 26-04-2024 12:42 AM
Only a foolish mum would leave a minor to travel abroad,u were 15! u were minor bro!  u have a good mum biko!
Do u even know what is in Western world? Coming over here at that Tender age Pose a Lot of risk for underage!do U know how many underage african Kids in Western world that are street thugs,gangbangers,hard drugs addict ,lesbian,gay etc bcus of Western culture!Western world Kids that Lack Home Training,Imagine If u beat ur Kids they would call Police on ur ass!,& social would Take d child away from you.God bless ur mother biko,she is wise Smiley

Nne, you high today o. That woman changed an entire destiny !!!!  He could have been another Kanu Nwankwo or JayJay !!

Posted: at 26-04-2024 09:04 AM (1 week ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Holopid at 26-04-2024 09:59 AM (1 week ago)
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Quote from: fineboy77 on 26-04-2024 09:04 AM
Nne, you high today o. That woman changed an entire destiny !!!!  He could have been another Kanu Nwankwo or JayJay !!
am Not high Bro,i disagree as adult for underage african  Kid to come to Western world! I'm speaking with experience,u mentioned of being Like Jay Jay,Kanu etc ,what of If he didn't suceed as footballer and end up in the street as drug dealer or addict etc Like some of the african Kids i see everyday roaming streets of  Western world.from 18 yrs is a lil bit ok to go abroad but Not as underage . In Western world  for example some Kids start sniffing cocaine at   age of 12! Fineboy r u kidding me?i ve lived in Western world for many years b4 moving back to nigeria so i know  & understand d game bro Grin
Posted: at 26-04-2024 09:59 AM (1 week ago) | Gistmaniac
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- fineboy77 at 26-04-2024 10:38 AM (1 week ago)
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Quote from: Holopid on 26-04-2024 09:59 AM
am Not high Bro,i disagree as adult for underage african  Kid to come to Western world! I'm speaking with experience,u mentioned of being Like Jay Jay,Kanu etc ,what of If he didn't suceed as footballer and end up in the street as drug dealer or addict etc Like some of the african Kids i see everyday roaming streets of  Western world.from 18 yrs is a lil bit ok to go abroad but Not as underage . In Western world  for example some Kids start sniffing cocaine at   age of 12! Fineboy r u kidding me?i ve lived in Western world for many years b4 moving back to nigeria so i know  & understand d game bro Grin
I understand you my sister, but we must acknowledge the fact that life is a risk. Making it in life requires certain levels of risk, but ultimately, who will fail will fail and who will succeed will succeed. I know that you are speaking from the mind of a compassionate woman who wouldn't want to see any kid turn left, but if we protect these kids more than God allows us to, we might end up ruining life changing opportunities for them. John Obi Mikel left home for Norway, to Lyn Oslo at almost same age, but look at him today, he is all shades of success. We have lived in this Western World long enough to see peer pressure and societal pressure redefine children, but we still see some, that stayed true to their roots.  You are pure mother quality, I see it in you, but surely, what will be will be.

Posted: at 26-04-2024 10:38 AM (1 week ago) | Addicted Hero
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