what should i do

Date: 17-04-2009 7:53 pm (15 years ago) | Author: ZAINAB OKE
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- at 17-04-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago)
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well i met this boy in december and we dated until the end of january. at the end of january i tried to contact him all to no avail (he wz alwayz going out and neva home) afta a week i got really mad and things happend so i stopped tlkin 2 him. then in march i saw him at a party of a frend (she was the one who hooked us up) and he sed hi to me. i wz really furous and i tried not to let my anger show when i sed hi back but u cud still tell that i wz mad at him. the next day i sent him a message saying askin him why he sed hi to me and aslo told him that what he did to me wasn't right. after talkin to my frend i realized that i overeacted so i sent him another message apologizing about what i did and i asked him for forgiveness however its been two weeks and he han't replied yet. i relly want him to forgive me and i aslo want him to know why i acted the way that i did and what i felt. but i dont know how to go about it since he doesn't seem to wannna tlk 2 me but i dont want it to seem like im obssessed with him or cant get over him. how sould i go about it?

Posted: at 17-04-2009 07:53 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
- PreetyInstinct at 17-04-2009 08:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 07:53 PM
well i met this boy in december and we dated until the end of january. at the end of january i tried to contact him all to no avail (he wz alwayz going out and neva home) afta a week i got really mad and things happend so i stopped tlkin 2 him. then in march i saw him at a party of a frend (she was the one who hooked us up) and he sed hi to me. i wz really furous and i tried not to let my anger show when i sed hi back but u cud still tell that i wz mad at him. the next day i sent him a message saying askin him why he sed hi to me and aslo told him that what he did to me wasn't right. after talkin to my frend i realized that i overeacted so i sent him another message apologizing about what i did and i asked him for forgiveness however its been two weeks and he han't replied yet. i relly want him to forgive me and i aslo want him to know why i acted the way that i did and what i felt. but i dont know how to go about it since he doesn't seem to wannna tlk 2 me but i dont want it to seem like im obssessed with him or cant get over him. how sould i go about it?
Sorry.... but it does seem like ur a lil obsessed with him if not why can't u just 4get about him when he is not even giving u d tyme of d day he is not worth it trust me just move on watz d point maybe he is a player or something who knows?gurl u need 2 4get him and move on dats my advise 4 u c ya

Posted: at 17-04-2009 08:00 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 17-04-2009 08:07 PM (15 years ago)
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My Dear sorry, but the truth is he's no longer into the relationship

Yu didn't do wrong for being Mad at him. He left without telling yu why, dat was wrong

Face reality, yu'll be Bugging him if yu continue Contacting him... The writing's clearly on the Wall

Posted: at 17-04-2009 08:07 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- welli at 17-04-2009 08:57 PM (15 years ago)
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Rule Number 4:In a r/ship, Do not spurn a Guy for too long then return to say 'Sorry'..It makes You a looser.
Having said that....I think You gave him the opportunity he's always needed to say Goodbye.
If he refuses to listen to Your apology....Let him be. Desperateness can provoke hatred.

Posted: at 17-04-2009 08:57 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DAMIZ at 17-04-2009 08:59 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 08:57 PM
Rule Number 4:In a r/ship, Do not spurn a Guy for too long then return to say 'Sorry'..It makes You a looser.
Having said that....I think You gave him the opportunity he's always needed to say Goodbye.
If he refuses to listen to Your apology....Let him be. Desperateness can provoke hatred.

since u gave me rule #4 can u give me the rest of the rules
Posted: at 17-04-2009 08:59 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- ibobobelvis at 17-04-2009 09:00 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 08:57 PM
Rule Number 4:In a r/ship, Do not spurn a Guy for too long then return to say 'Sorry'..It makes You a looser.
Having said that....I think You gave him the opportunity he's always needed to say Goodbye.
If he refuses to listen to Your apology....Let him be. Desperateness can provoke hatred.
Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:00 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DAMIZ at 17-04-2009 09:02 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: ibobobelvis on 17-04-2009 09:00 PM
Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 08:57 PM
Rule Number 4:In a r/ship, Do not spurn a Guy for too long then return to say 'Sorry'..It makes You a looser.
Having said that....I think You gave him the opportunity he's always needed to say Goodbye.
If he refuses to listen to Your apology....Let him be. Desperateness can provoke hatred.
Cool Cool Cool Cool
whats the Cool Cool Cool  Cool for
Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:02 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- welli at 17-04-2009 09:03 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 08:59 PM
since u gave me rule #4 can u give me the rest of the rules
They are so much and for my personal use!!  Cheesy
I don't mind giving You one at a time when You're in dire need of it tho....Like in this case.

Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:03 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DAMIZ at 17-04-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 09:03 PM
Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 08:59 PM
since u gave me rule #4 can u give me the rest of the rules
They are so much and for my personal use!!  Cheesy
I don't mind giving You one at a time when You're in dire need of it tho....Like in this case.

how about 2 at a time
Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:05 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- Kennee at 17-04-2009 09:07 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 09:03 PM
Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 08:59 PM
since u gave me rule #4 can u give me the rest of the rules
They are so much and for my personal use!!  Cheesy
I don't mind giving You one at a time when You're in dire need of it tho....Like in this case.

Haa!!! How much does it Cost to Sign a Relationship Contract wiv ya?  Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:07 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- DAMIZ at 17-04-2009 09:10 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 17-04-2009 09:07 PM
Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 09:03 PM
Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 08:59 PM
since u gave me rule #4 can u give me the rest of the rules
They are so much and for my personal use!!  Cheesy
I don't mind giving You one at a time when You're in dire need of it tho....Like in this case.

Haa!!! How much does it Cost to Sign a Relationship Contract wiv ya?  Tongue Tongue

might be millions and billions cuz hiz advice iz priceless (so it seems)
Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:10 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- welli at 17-04-2009 09:14 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Kennee on 17-04-2009 09:07 PM
Haa!!! How much does it Cost to Sign a Relationship Contract wiv ya?  Tongue Tongue
Nuffin much but You in Person!! Cheesy

Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 09:10 PM
might be millions and billions cuz hiz advice iz priceless (so it seems)
Her...Thank You!! Smiley

Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:14 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- Kennee at 17-04-2009 09:23 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 09:14 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 17-04-2009 09:07 PM
Haa!!! How much does it Cost to Sign a Relationship Contract wiv ya?  Tongue Tongue
Nuffin much but You in Person!! Cheesy


DANG Yu Rock!!  Cool Cool

Posted: at 17-04-2009 09:23 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- folajogun at 17-04-2009 10:16 PM (15 years ago)
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Thought this is a job website. what rubbish is being  facilitated here?
Posted: at 17-04-2009 10:16 PM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- welli at 17-04-2009 10:30 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: folajogun on 17-04-2009 10:16 PM
Thought this is a job website. what rubbish is being  facilitated here?
You thought wrong!! Cheesy

Posted: at 17-04-2009 10:30 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- vivian07 at 17-04-2009 10:33 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: folajogun on 17-04-2009 10:16 PM
Thought this is a job website. what rubbish is being  facilitated here?
another garbage.
osi, come carry ur dustbin oo  Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy Cheesy
Posted: at 17-04-2009 10:33 PM (15 years ago) | Hero
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- Kennee at 17-04-2009 10:36 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 10:30 PM
Quote from: folajogun on 17-04-2009 10:16 PM
Thought this is a job website. what rubbish is being  facilitated here?
You thought wrong!! Cheesy

 Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin He Did

Posted: at 17-04-2009 10:36 PM (15 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Pires07 at 17-04-2009 10:40 PM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 07:53 PM
well i met this boy in december and we dated until the end of january. at the end of january i tried to contact him all to no avail (he wz alwayz going out and neva home) afta a week i got really mad and things happend so i stopped tlkin 2 him. then in march i saw him at a party of a frend (she was the one who hooked us up) and he sed hi to me. i wz really furous and i tried not to let my anger show when i sed hi back but u cud still tell that i wz mad at him. the next day i sent him a message saying askin him why he sed hi to me and aslo told him that what he did to me wasn't right. after talkin to my frend i realized that i overeacted so i sent him another message apologizing about what i did and i asked him for forgiveness however its been two weeks and he han't replied yet. i relly want him to forgive me and i aslo want him to know why i acted the way that i did and what i felt. but i dont know how to go about it since he doesn't seem to wannna tlk 2 me but i dont want it to seem like im obssessed with him or cant get over him. how sould i go about it?
u re really in love wit dis dude. send me ur numba s0 i can giv u a vital solution to his madness Grin

Posted: at 17-04-2009 10:40 PM (15 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- DAMIZ at 18-04-2009 03:49 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: Pires07 on 17-04-2009 10:40 PM
Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 07:53 PM
well i met this boy in december and we dated until the end of january. at the end of january i tried to contact him all to no avail (he wz alwayz going out and neva home) afta a week i got really mad and things happend so i stopped tlkin 2 him. then in march i saw him at a party of a frend (she was the one who hooked us up) and he sed hi to me. i wz really furous and i tried not to let my anger show when i sed hi back but u cud still tell that i wz mad at him. the next day i sent him a message saying askin him why he sed hi to me and aslo told him that what he did to me wasn't right. after talkin to my frend i realized that i overeacted so i sent him another message apologizing about what i did and i asked him for forgiveness however its been two weeks and he han't replied yet. i relly want him to forgive me and i aslo want him to know why i acted the way that i did and what i felt. but i dont know how to go about it since he doesn't seem to wannna tlk 2 me but i dont want it to seem like im obssessed with him or cant get over him. how sould i go about it?
u re really in love wit dis dude. send me ur numba s0 i can giv u a vital solution to his madness Grin
i neva even thought of it lyk dat u're ryt it is madness...y else wud a guy not want a beautiful funny scholar lyk meh
Posted: at 18-04-2009 03:49 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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- DAMIZ at 18-04-2009 03:50 AM (15 years ago)
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Quote from: welli on 17-04-2009 09:14 PM
Quote from: Kennee on 17-04-2009 09:07 PM
Haa!!! How much does it Cost to Sign a Relationship Contract wiv ya?  Tongue Tongue
Nuffin much but You in Person!! Cheesy

Quote from: DAMIZ on 17-04-2009 09:10 PM
might be millions and billions cuz hiz advice iz priceless (so it seems)
Her...Thank You!! Smiley
Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 18-04-2009 03:50 AM (15 years ago) | Newbie
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