How can you as a man complain that your woman isn’t segxwally satisfying you when you have not taken the time to make sure you are truly segxwally satisfying her? How can you as a woman complain about a man’s lack of honesty and openness with you when you have spoken lies and held back in the name of “protecting yourself”? How can we as a people expect anyone to fulfill our needs and desires if we are incapable or unwilling to fulfill theirs?
Once in a relationship your focus should not be on you, it should be on '"US". If both parties took that approach then both would get what they need and desire. Being selfish has no place in a relationship that you wish to be successful. We all have to go in with the mentality that if we give then we will receive. Before any of you say, “well I gave plenty and received nothing in return” let me make something clear. Giving was not your issue; it was “who” you chose to give to that was the problem. Always focus on doing your job and if your partner refuses to step up then you need to just walk away. Staying in a relationship that you are not prepared to do what is right is simply pointless. You only ensure that things will continue to move in the wrong direction and that you and your partner will not be as happy as you both deserve to be.
Relationships are not 50/50 they are 100/100. You have to give it your all if you expect for your partner to do the same. So if your relationship or past relationships haven’t been reaching its full potential then take a moment to ask yourself:
Am I Currently Giving What I Want to Receive?
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