In Relationship, Give What You Expect To Receive

Date: 15-11-2012 3:44 pm (11 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
- at 15-11-2012 03:44 PM (11 years ago)
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There seems to be an epidemic of people who are just plain selfish. Me, me, me is all they care about. They believe the world revolves around them, and everybody else is just a side note. They could care less about what is best for you unless it fits into what they “think” is best for them. Their perception on what the relationship should be is all messed up yet they blame “love”, “relationships”, and “marriage” for their pains and disappointments. They are not willing to look at themselves because it is always everything else and everybody else’s fault as to why they didn’t get what they wanted and hoped for.

How can you as a man complain that your woman isn’t segxwally satisfying you when you have not taken the time to make sure you are truly segxwally satisfying her? How can you as a woman complain about a man’s lack of honesty and openness with you when you have spoken lies and held back in the name of “protecting yourself”? How can we as a people expect anyone to fulfill our needs and desires if we are incapable or unwilling to fulfill theirs?

Once in a relationship your focus should not be on you, it should be on '"US". If both parties took that approach then both would get what they need and desire. Being selfish has no place in a relationship that you wish to be successful. We all have to go in with the mentality that if we give then we will receive. Before any of you say, “well I gave plenty and received nothing in return” let me make something clear. Giving was not your issue; it was “who” you chose to give to that was the problem. Always focus on doing your job and if your partner refuses to step up then you need to just walk away. Staying in a relationship that you are not prepared to do what is right is simply pointless. You only ensure that things will continue to move in the wrong direction and that you and your partner will not be as happy as you both deserve to be.

Relationships are not 50/50 they are 100/100. You have to give it your all if you expect for your partner to do the same.  So if your relationship or past relationships haven’t been reaching its full potential then take a moment to ask yourself:

Am I Currently Giving What I Want to Receive?


Posted: at 15-11-2012 03:44 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 03:51 PM (11 years ago)
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yes, even though we call it a relationship, it is more about how much YOU are willing to give.  How much we are  willing to give WITHOUT GUARANTEE OF ANY RETURN

Posted: at 15-11-2012 03:51 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 15-11-2012 04:01 PM (11 years ago)
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How come i no go wan return  Sad

Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:01 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- sophiebaby at 15-11-2012 04:07 PM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes

Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:07 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- 50scent at 15-11-2012 04:14 PM (11 years ago)
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 Sad Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:14 PM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- Idbabe at 15-11-2012 04:28 PM (11 years ago)
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At times a partner gives all and receives nothing in return.  So what do u advice in dat case, women affairs minister
Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:28 PM (11 years ago) | Hero
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- dallasp at 15-11-2012 04:29 PM (11 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:29 PM (11 years ago) | Upcoming
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- temi07 at 15-11-2012 04:53 PM (11 years ago)
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In my relationships i give about 70% and expect about 30% returns on my investment, so i should be getting 100 % back.
Posted: at 15-11-2012 04:53 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- ela214 at 15-11-2012 05:57 PM (11 years ago)
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we don´t always give in oda to recieve,(thogh it hurts when u don´t recive),but always give what if it´s to be returned to u,u´ll be be happy
Posted: at 15-11-2012 05:57 PM (11 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 21-11-2012 10:13 AM (11 years ago)
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GREAT

Posted: at 21-11-2012 10:13 AM (11 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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