My Fiance Wants His Son To Come Live With Us But I’m Not Ready For That

why wont u love his son if u truly love him

Posted: at 13-05-2013 01:12 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

U can also bring ur daughter... Tit-4-tat!

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Posted: at 13-05-2013 01:23 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac

if u really love ur fiance, i believe u shud b able 2 accept everyting abt him including his son,don't b surprise this might strengthen ur relationship, all u need 2 do is change wat is nt right in d boy, see how u can help him adjust and also pray God 2 c u tru.

Posted: at 13-05-2013 01:27 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

And so? don't be a greedy woman...if u want too make ur man happy
u have to take  and accept him like ur son, so their will be peace in the home.

Posted: at 13-05-2013 01:44 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

True talk my dear

Posted: at 13-05-2013 01:45 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

if u cant take care of his son, how r we sure u can also take care of ur man, there is something u r not telling us here';;;;;;;;;;;;

Posted: at 13-05-2013 01:56 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie

The Poster nowhere referred to herself as engaged to the man.
Possibly why she feels overwhelmed by the plan.

Hearing you exist in one future isn't enough. Women need a more concrete proof.
Of course she loves the man, and will transfer the love unto the son.

But proper training will be easily done when she becomes a "WIFE" not a woman cohabiting with a man.
If she becomes a wife, then she can discuss with the Man on ways to ensure the child gets proper training.

The child probably has bad manner due to the absence of a mother figure in his life.
Men tend to think providing toy, buckets of ice-cream and 5 meals in a day is enough.....but women know what their children need.

Until you become the "Wife", talk to your man, find out his reason for planning his son into the house.
Truth is.....till you become his Wife, the son has more importance in his life.......He's his blood....you're just dating.

I'd suggest you have a heart to heart talk with your man, mention the issues with the boy, suggest ways to help the boy, do not show you're scared of having the son around,
Avoid any form of confrontation, assure him you want the best for both of you.....and that includes making sure the son stays healthy now....grow with better manners.

Most importantly, Pray....God directs.

Posted: at 13-05-2013 02:01 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

You seeking for advice, keep asking

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Posted: at 13-05-2013 02:14 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero

WHATEVER,,,,,,,,

Posted: at 13-05-2013 02:30 PM (10 years ago) | Hero

U can help d boy if u want if dats d only issue.those u mention are not a problem cus if u have a child like dat, wat will u do to help him.

Posted: at 13-05-2013 03:12 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero