My Fiance Wants His Son To Come Live With Us But I’m Not Ready For That (Page 3)

Date: 13-05-2013 12:37 pm (10 years ago) | Author: aadex kebella
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- Noble12 at 14-05-2013 09:12 AM (10 years ago)
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Hmm
Posted: at 14-05-2013 09:12 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- bennydo at 14-05-2013 10:07 AM (10 years ago)
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You have already shown the type of woman you are.I wish your man realizes the kind of woman you are before it is too late for him.

True talk and thank u all that make her see the truth especially you HopeA23.
Posted: at 14-05-2013 10:07 AM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- 50scent at 14-05-2013 10:48 AM (10 years ago)
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 Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

Posted: at 14-05-2013 10:48 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- OwesomeGod at 14-05-2013 11:18 AM (10 years ago)
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Thunder fire you there goal digger.. Idiot.. Do you know the type that you will born? That is if the guy will marry o! Because you are not good by this statement yours.. Ewu ofia..
Posted: at 14-05-2013 11:18 AM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- tanglefree at 14-05-2013 12:29 PM (10 years ago)
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My sister,why you dey talk like this.

You will be a mother some day.
Posted: at 14-05-2013 12:29 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- 50scent at 14-05-2013 12:33 PM (10 years ago)
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Where is Ajanni  Sad

Posted: at 14-05-2013 12:33 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- spekay at 14-05-2013 02:10 PM (10 years ago)
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how old is the boy to start with ?

Posted: at 14-05-2013 02:10 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- deboalabi262 at 14-05-2013 02:57 PM (10 years ago)
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Sefishness and self-centered atitude........ Huh?

Posted: at 14-05-2013 02:57 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- 50scent at 14-05-2013 03:38 PM (10 years ago)
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 Grin

Posted: at 14-05-2013 03:38 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- giftmurphy at 14-05-2013 05:07 PM (10 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 14-05-2013 05:07 PM (10 years ago) | Hero
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- waffibabe at 14-05-2013 06:25 PM (10 years ago)
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ur step son is ur own son. pls , take him as ur own son
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:25 PM (10 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- emnoeasy at 14-05-2013 06:28 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: HOPEA23 on 13-05-2013 01:21 PM
Assuming he is your son.(biological son)... How would u have help solve your son problem? Or how would u have cope with him with all these issue u listed here? Plz my dear u are just making some excuses ... Just tell your Man U don't like his son and will not be happy to live on the same house with him.. .. This is what u called issues hisss very soon u will become a mother ... How about u use him to learn on how to deal with this kind of issues ? If u truly love your man you most also love his son your step son and assist your guy to solve this problem ...
who make this comment? Hope, is that you? wonder shall never end, I am giving you a standing ovation, Very well spoken and very wise one there. Cool Cool Cool
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:28 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- emnoeasy at 14-05-2013 06:31 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: Wysetots on 13-05-2013 02:01 PM
The Poster nowhere referred to herself as engaged to the man.
Possibly why she feels overwhelmed by the plan.

Hearing you exist in one future isn't enough. Women need a more concrete proof.
Of course she loves the man, and will transfer the love unto the son.

But proper training will be easily done when she becomes a "WIFE" not a woman cohabiting with a man.
If she becomes a wife, then she can discuss with the Man on ways to ensure the child gets proper training.

The child probably has bad manner due to the absence of a mother figure in his life.
Men tend to think providing toy, buckets of ice-cream and 5 meals in a day is enough.....but women know what their children need.

Until you become the "Wife", talk to your man, find out his reason for planning his son into the house.
Truth is.....till you become his Wife, the son has more importance in his life.......He's his blood....you're just dating.

I'd suggest you have a heart to heart talk with your man, mention the issues with the boy, suggest ways to help the boy, do not show you're scared of having the son around,
Avoid any form of confrontation, assure him you want the best for both of you.....and that includes making sure the son stays healthy now....grow with better manners.

Most importantly, Pray....God directs.
[/quote standing ovation for you.
Posted: at 14-05-2013 06:31 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- beneno at 14-05-2013 07:21 PM (10 years ago)
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 Roll Eyes
Posted: at 14-05-2013 07:21 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- emnoeasy at 14-05-2013 09:19 PM (10 years ago)
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Quote from: OwesomeGod on 14-05-2013 11:18 AM
Thunder fire you there goal digger.. Idiot.. Do you know the type that you will born? That is if the guy will marry o! Because you are not good by this statement yours.. Ewu ofia..
do we have Ewu ofia? i never hear of that b4, i only hear of ewu Hausa, ewu Gambia and so on Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin Grin
Posted: at 14-05-2013 09:19 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- oluomo96 at 14-05-2013 09:45 PM (10 years ago)
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 Sad
Posted: at 14-05-2013 09:45 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- henry1973 at 14-05-2013 10:24 PM (10 years ago)
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assuming the boy is your son and you are bringing him the boys house ,how will you feel if you notice that he is not confortable with your son.
use your tough to count your teeth.
Posted: at 14-05-2013 10:24 PM (10 years ago) | Upcoming
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- 50scent at 15-05-2013 09:37 AM (10 years ago)
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Im laughing in komedi, kikikikikikikikiki Sad

Posted: at 15-05-2013 09:37 AM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- haryourrynde at 15-05-2013 02:04 PM (10 years ago)
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U claim to love him and u dont want to accept a son who u shud see as ur own son. You didn't not even thank your star he didn't tell you that the mother of the said child will be coming to live with you. There's no white sky without small black spots. It's better u take the child as urs and let any problem that may want to arise frm dat continue sleeping.
Posted: at 15-05-2013 02:04 PM (10 years ago) | Newbie
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- 50scent at 15-05-2013 04:22 PM (10 years ago)
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 Sad

Posted: at 15-05-2013 04:22 PM (10 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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