You have been married to your husband for like say 5 years. On your 5th wedding anniversary, you have returned home earlier than usual, dropped your hand bag in the living room and happily rushed to the kitchen to prepare something delicious for the celebration. After cooking in the kitchen, you picked up your bag and made to the bedroom with the intention of taking your bath, putting on something beautiful to wait for your husband only for you to open the door and behold your husband 'drilling' your sister/house help.
Guys picture this:
Like in the case above, it is your wedding anniversary and you decided to return home earlier so that you could take your wife out on a surprise dinner only to open the door and find your wife being 'drilled' by your brother/gate man.
Hmmmm..........how would you react?.........A lady is currently in this mess now and she needs advice...what should she do?
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Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:21 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
SAmyrocko at 20-08-2010 10:28 AM (13 years ago) (m)
It could happen to anybody. But the truth still remains that none of the above spouse enjoys sex from the other spouse. Thats the truth. However, it's messy situation, the both spouse should forgive the concerned person and move on, though it's going to be hard to let go of such thing.
Life is one big road with lots of signs, so when you are riding through th
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:28 AM (13 years ago) | Addicted Hero
bittersweet at 20-08-2010 10:32 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Ha! I would throw both of them out of the house immediately, and after that, packing his things and put them in front of the house, and calling my lawyer!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:32 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
tantabanana at 20-08-2010 10:42 AM (13 years ago) (m)
This is an act that is capable of rubbishing five years old relationship...it is also capable of putting a question mark on the paternity of the children if any...my advice is, both husband and wife should sit and talk of taking a recess on the relationship, during which time, they should engage in sober reflection. This will enable them know where they wondered away from real love. At this time they will know if they still need each other. As for the gate-man or my brother, that is an automatic end to our relationship or whatever link we might have had.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:42 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
divineproject at 20-08-2010 10:43 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 20-08-2010 10:32 AM
Ha! I would throw both of them out of the house immediately, and after that, packing his things and put them in front of the house, and calling my lawyer!
cheiiiiiiiiiiiiii, DIVORCE?
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:43 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 20-08-2010 10:44 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bhl72 on 20-08-2010 10:40 AM
lawyer kini? na her papa house live... dem no dey tell man. meanwhile, DP, your new pix na die
No!Considering we are living in my house! And it's how is gonna happen, because I would feel more secure so! You asked why I would call the lawyer? For making the divorce papers, of course!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 20-08-2010 10:44 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 20-08-2010 10:43 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on 20-08-2010 10:32 AM
Ha! I would throw both of them out of the house immediately, and after that, packing his things and put them in front of the house, and calling my lawyer!
cheiiiiiiiiiiiiii, DIVORCE?
Oh,yeah! I could stand any crap, but not that kind of crap!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:44 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
Micheall at 20-08-2010 10:58 AM (13 years ago) (m)
had to write many times en deleat again en again cause this is such a hard question which i will always ask God to never let it happen to me, This is why we all need to look well b4 we marry cause to me its till death do us apart and if u really watch well b4 marry a guy or gurl, u will surely see some atom of such life in ur partner and dodge b4 u say i do...
back to the question..i dont think i can live with such lady again...ive seen a guy it happen to b4 in nig, he nearly went mad cause after the incidence, he was always in deep thougt which resulted to him murmuring most times when he hangs out with friends.....This dude caught his wife screaming all over the house as she was being banged so badly by his house boy one afternoon. He divourced the lady en almost got mental cause he had 3 kids (he even let the lady leave with the kids..so painfull!!!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 10:58 AM (13 years ago) | Upcoming
solojaro at 20-08-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) (m)
It means I am not satisfying her in bed, it may not be the first time it is happenning, she is pretending just for the marriage to go on. so in that case the marriage will end that day.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 11:36 AM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
PreetyInstinct at 20-08-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago) (f)
Hhm!
I will never fade and I will never blend....not here to be ur friend or enemy, i say what i ave to say & i'll be out as soon as i'm done, not hard to find & not here to keep i'm the beauty that you can never sight asleep!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 11:45 AM (13 years ago) | Hero
gabrisky at 20-08-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago) (m)
you see the hole thing is that there is no point of throw or divorce, all you needed is to over look every thing as if nought happen. if walk out of the marriage how do you sure that the man/ woman you are going to marry to he/she are not the same. Prayer is the answer becos the world have change, a man sleeping with his dauther, and so and so no.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 11:57 AM (13 years ago) | Newbie
divineproject at 20-08-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: gabrisky on 20-08-2010 11:57 AM
you see the hole thing is that there is no point of throw or divorce, all you needed is to over look every thing as if nought happen. if walk out of the marriage how do you sure that the man/ woman you are going to marry to he/she are not the same. Prayer is the answer becos the world have change, a man sleeping with his dauther, and so and so no.
Hard to overlook such things my dear
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 12:06 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 20-08-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: gabrisky on 20-08-2010 11:57 AM
you see the hole thing is that there is no point of throw or divorce, all you needed is to over look every thing as if nought happen. if walk out of the marriage how do you sure that the man/ woman you are going to marry to he/she are not the same. Prayer is the answer becos the world have change, a man sleeping with his dauther, and so and so no.
It's exactly what you guys are expecting, huh?Your women to overlook your betrayals! I really hope that those women who are still doing that, will wake up and kick those jerks' a**** as sooner as possible, because they are intoxicating their lives!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 12:12 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
plainheart at 20-08-2010 12:25 PM (13 years ago) (f)
I dont think I will be able to continue if it is with my sister, but with the house help I can still manage I will just send the house help on parking and start cutting shows too. I pray this will never happen to me.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 12:25 PM (13 years ago) | Gistmaniac
Treasure2 at 20-08-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Is this really a movie playing in the house or where? With my sister that marriage will end there but with house house, hmmmmmmmm, hmmmmmmmm, hmmmmmmmm, will consider the kids but that man will better end the marriage himself than to continue staying together with me.
Posted: at 20-08-2010 12:36 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
divineproject at 20-08-2010 12:40 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: bittersweet on 20-08-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: gabrisky on 20-08-2010 11:57 AM
you see the hole thing is that there is no point of throw or divorce, all you needed is to over look every thing as if nought happen. if walk out of the marriage how do you sure that the man/ woman you are going to marry to he/she are not the same. Prayer is the answer becos the world have change, a man sleeping with his dauther, and so and so no.
It's exactly what you guys are expecting, huh?Your women to overlook your betrayals! I really hope that those women who are still doing that, will wake up and kick those jerks' a**** as sooner as possible, because they are intoxicating their lives!
My dear, our women here are not quick to resort to divorce..............I dont advise divorce myself.......
A LITTLE HELP HERE; A LITTLE HELP THERE, MAKES THE WORLD GO ROUND!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 12:40 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
bittersweet at 20-08-2010 12:43 PM (13 years ago) (f)
Quote from: divineproject on 20-08-2010 12:40 PM
Quote from: bittersweet on 20-08-2010 12:12 PM
Quote from: gabrisky on 20-08-2010 11:57 AM
you see the hole thing is that there is no point of throw or divorce, all you needed is to over look every thing as if nought happen. if walk out of the marriage how do you sure that the man/ woman you are going to marry to he/she are not the same. Prayer is the answer becos the world have change, a man sleeping with his dauther, and so and so no.
It's exactly what you guys are expecting, huh?Your women to overlook your betrayals! I really hope that those women who are still doing that, will wake up and kick those jerks' a**** as sooner as possible, because they are intoxicating their lives!
My dear, our women here are not quick to resort to divorce..............I dont advise divorce myself.......
Well,I know, but you could overlook such a thing? It my not had been the first time when happened that, and definitely will not be the last time!
Live and let live!
Posted: at 20-08-2010 12:43 PM (13 years ago) | Hero
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