![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 26-05-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago)  (f) It is very difficult having a relationship without any form of lie.
I've never been there but i will be there right from the day
i make my marital val.
that is what causes problems in most remlationships because if u wait until ur marital vows are said before removing lies from ur relationships , how many of the old ones will u be able to remove and how sure are u that the lies will not repeat themselves even in marriage ?
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Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 26-05-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago) (f) Soph, "Lies are like a betrayal to men. A man may forgive the first lie you tell him, but he will not forget. Lying repeatedly to him will make him feel as though you cannot be trusted."
Since human beings are not perfect and are bound to lie, a guiding principle should be to weigh the consequences of discovery and expectant result of lying. If the consequences outweigh the expectant results, then avoid lies!
Biblically, it is condemned in very strong terms YOUR YES SHOULD BE YES AND YOU NO SHOULD BE NO!
it is not like ............it is a betrayal and most poeple find it difficult to trust again once they discover u've told them a lie
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:16 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 26-05-2011 12:18 PM (12 years ago) (f) yeah! i used to girl..never knew it hurts so badly to be told a lie. untill i was told one :'( very correct and it is the liars that hurt most when they discover someone else knows how to play the same game they are into
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:18 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 26-05-2011 12:19 PM (12 years ago) (f) It is very difficult having a relationship without any form of lie.
I've never been there but i will be there right from the day
i make my marital val.
that is what causes problems in most remlationships because if u wait until ur marital vows are said before removing lies from ur relationships , how many of the old ones will u be able to remove and how sure are u that the lies will not repeat themselves even in marriage ?Question a very important questions that need answeers urgently !!!
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:19 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "soljurn16") soljurn16 at 26-05-2011 12:21 PM (12 years ago) (m) It makes d relationship drag along but shatters at the end,one lie leads to another lie...., it also make both parties a perfect speech giver...,
i dont get u.. How do u mean? | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:21 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 26-05-2011 12:21 PM (12 years ago) (f) Soph, "Lies are like a betrayal to men. A man may forgive the first lie you tell him, but he will not forget. Lying repeatedly to him will make him feel as though you cannot be trusted."
Since human beings are not perfect and are bound to lie, a guiding principle should be to weigh the consequences of discovery and expectant result of lying. If the consequences outweigh the expectant results, then avoid lies!
Biblically, it is condemned in very strong terms YOUR YES SHOULD BE YES AND YOU NO SHOULD BE NO!
it is not like ............it is a betrayal and most poeple find it difficult to trust again once they discover u've told them a lie true
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:21 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "thowbee") thowbee at 26-05-2011 12:22 PM (12 years ago) (f) there are no cons to telling lies... just lie reasonably...........and girls love to be told lies....so lie responsibly.. | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:22 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 26-05-2011 12:27 PM (12 years ago) (m) lying some time set one free from trouble....just refresh your memory back when u were young..how u sumtime lied to your parents not to get in trouble or beaten.well in a relationship..is there nothing but the truth..but the truth out number the lies...there are sumthings to tell your partner and there are sum u don't..maybe thinking that thing will hurt his/her feeling...there are sumthing that should be left untold.
Very Very true .......Or when you lied to your parents after spending a fcuking time with your guy! | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:27 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 26-05-2011 12:32 PM (12 years ago) (f) there are no cons to telling lies... just lie reasonably...........and girls love to be told lies....so lie responsibly..
i c
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:32 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 26-05-2011 12:33 PM (12 years ago) (f) yeah! i used to girl..never knew it hurts so badly to be told a lie. untill i was told one :'( very correct and it is the liars that hurt most when they discover someone else knows how to play the same game they are into true
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:33 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "sophiebaby") sophiebaby at 26-05-2011 12:47 PM (12 years ago) (f) most people like it when their spouses hide unpleasant facts fromthem. As long as they are not aware that their partners are hiding things, to them ignorance can be blissful.
Life is 2short to wake up in the morning with regrets. LOVE KEEPS NO RECORD OF WRONGS*SOPHIEBABY* :* | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:47 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 26-05-2011 12:49 PM (12 years ago) (f) Yep
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:49 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "thowbee") thowbee at 26-05-2011 12:51 PM (12 years ago) (f) there are no cons to telling lies... just lie reasonably...........and girls love to be told lies....so lie responsibly..
i c its jus the truth gurl...y'all jus have to tell urselves the truth.....I love mi some lies sometimes.....as long as it can stick...am gud...u dun wanna tell a girl she's not an attachment material wen u treat her like she is all the tym...it don't make no sense... | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:51 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 26-05-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago) (f) passing
my name is kebella  ........yu already no that  ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:53 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "HOPEA23") HOPEA23 at 26-05-2011 12:54 PM (12 years ago) (f) Me too..kb is lying ooo
LOVE COMES TO THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN IT...LET TALK ABOUT LOVE. | Posted: at 26-05-2011 12:54 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 26-05-2011 01:06 PM (12 years ago) (m) OH, the only girl I ever loved, dowried to spend my life with lied she was pregnant for me!!! | Posted: at 26-05-2011 01:06 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "onyiis") onyiis at 26-05-2011 01:10 PM (12 years ago) (f) lolz
"Those who will say nothing in the face of tyranny must endure the rule of idiots . All that you need for evil to triumph is for the good people to keep quiet and do nothing". | Posted: at 26-05-2011 01:10 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "Emmandazie") Emmandazie at 26-05-2011 01:13 PM (12 years ago) (m) Onyi wenti the lolz? Some girls no get heart when they want to lie! | Posted: at 26-05-2011 01:13 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac | |
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![-]( "blessedme") blessedme at 26-05-2011 01:14 PM (12 years ago) (f) It is very difficult having a relationship without any form of lie.
I've never been there but i will be there right from the day
i make my marital val. I fore see a cheating hubby in future | Posted: at 26-05-2011 01:14 PM (12 years ago) | Hero | |
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![-]( "kebella") kebella at 26-05-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago) (f) Me too..kb is lying ooo
hopea yu re the PRO n' CON  
my name is kebella ........yu already no that ...heheh...if yu wanna smell what kebella is cooking........bring it up!! | Posted: at 26-05-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero | |
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