my fiance left me after telling him i have a daughter!!! (Page 2)

just wake up from ur fools paradise and get on with ur life and dnt mk such mistakes again,any man dat loves u should love ur child 2. remember to tell d new one on time 2 ooh abt ur past,if he truly loves u,he wld stay n if he doesnt,then he isnt meant for u. Abeg no go buy car again for man we neva marry u ooh. Wise up! u cnt buy a man's luv with money. i m outta here jor

Posted: at 17-11-2011 07:42 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

wetin u wan hear again?lol

Posted: at 17-11-2011 07:45 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

She based her love-ship on hidden secret and materials things which never turn out positive for her. Even if she never had baby b4, her relationship with her boyfriend would have still be in jeopardy if she stop or unable to fund the friendship. The error has been committed but she got a choice to make, is either
she retrieve the car through legal right or stop paying 4 the car  to enable the company car owner retrieve it themselves. As for the love issues, she
should 4 get it and move on with her life only on the basis of telling nothing but the truth. 

Posted: at 17-11-2011 08:08 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

nice 

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Posted: at 17-11-2011 08:24 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

even if his my husb i cant spend such amount on him afterall is his duty to take care of all my responsibilities not the other way round.....gurl yu phyuk UP big tym .....mtchew

my advice is for yu to get ur car back buh if he refuse just stop paying for it ........he got no choice than to dance on ur tune

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Posted: at 17-11-2011 09:06 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero

Desparation and stupidity at work. You are still asking what to do?? Thank your star he did not go further than walking away. If you can keep such a secrete for 3 yrs what else can't you hide. You are here sugar coating all you did for him, while infact you were out to play with his mind. Learn your lesson the hard way, everyone makes mistake. Next time you will be wiser.

Posted: at 17-11-2011 09:34 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac

I feel for you. But the point is you made a big mistake in keeping such a big secret from your man. My take is he might never trust you again. It may well be in your interest to go look for another man. And this time correct that error. It will also be a good idea to pray over everything. God can make all things right. I believe you have things to learn from previous comments as well.

Posted: at 17-11-2011 10:03 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

Posted: at 17-11-2011 10:16 PM (12 years ago) | Newbie

Posted: at 17-11-2011 10:53 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming

One mistake girls should never make is to be giving a man money. Let your man be a man, let him go out there and find a way to make money like other men, men are suppose to be in charge financially, so it is never right for a girl to be in charge financially. So you really made a huge mistake on that. Also, men that are comfortable with collecting money from girls are not always in love with the girl, coz if ur man loves u, he will want to provide for u and protect u. So this guy may have  been in that relationship just for the financial gains, now he seems to have gotten enough money from u and wants to leave, so the news about u having a kid out of wedlock was a good excuse to end the relationship. But on ur part, u werent totaally honest with him, u should have told him from day one  about ur child.  I understand that men shy away from marrying girls that have kids out of wedlock, also girls shy away from marrying men  that have kid out of wedlock. But u should have been honest with him from the begining. Colelct ur car back from him, coz the fact that u have a kid shouldnt be enough reason for him to quit the relationship, he  should be angry for a while but not quit. The fact that he quit the relationship showed he was looking for a way to  walk, and this issue presented a good opportunity for him. Get ur car abck and move on. Next time dont spend a dime on any man, and try and be honest about ur past.

Posted: at 18-11-2011 12:00 AM (12 years ago) | Newbie