my fiance left me after telling him i have a daughter!!! (Page 5)

Date: 17-11-2011 2:59 pm (12 years ago) | Author: lynn
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- Aknankanan at 18-11-2011 01:04 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: cutelizzy on 18-11-2011 12:57 PM
:'(
y u dey cry na? Smiley
Posted: at 18-11-2011 01:04 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- Aknankanan at 18-11-2011 01:11 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: FinlandGuy on 18-11-2011 12:50 PM
Poster u don tell us the things wey u do for the guy but u never tell us the ones wey the guy do for you when cash dey with am.Men in ur life no let woman do anything for u like financial help,because one day,she go tell u what u are made up of.

If woman do small thing for man hmmmmmm BBC and CNN go carry am.U no tell me say before u start spending for this guy,he never do any thing for u.Why will keep this kind secret from him all these 3yr.Ur tempted to kill ohhh.

abi o!! see aw she dey polongo lyk say the guy forced her,one must be very careful of taking anything 4rm a gf,nt even a pin i guess!
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- laydeelaracraft at 18-11-2011 01:14 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 17-11-2011 03:10 PM
Some girls...my gosh!As long as you are not married with the dude, you SHOULD NOT support him financially,for
God' sake!
Even if she wants that car back, do you think he'll give it to her?I doubt it!
I think that she should have learnt some serious lessons from this(bcz this is all she'll remain with! ),
and also I hope that next time she'll not hide again things which shouldn't be hidden!

I agree! most women r enabling their men. He is obviously enjoying it cuz it had been three years n he still doesnt have a job. I understand that things can b difficult for sum ppl. And if they r you can support him with basic facilities not a nice cussy car. What exactly is that for? thanks boo for hanging on tight despite being jobless?

But she shud neva have kept him in the dark about her child... If I was the guy, I will av some serious doubts about her, I mean what else was she keeping away from me...
Posted: at 18-11-2011 01:14 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- grace200 at 18-11-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago)
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Hello Girl! You hav made a very big mistake frm d start of d relationship, you should hav told him abt ur child nd you also went too fast to get a car..I will advice you to leave d car for him nd move on wit ur life. God will sent a loving caring man to you. Goodluck!
Posted: at 18-11-2011 01:16 PM (12 years ago) | Upcoming
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- interpo77 at 18-11-2011 01:31 PM (12 years ago)
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thats the problem with some guls, u dicided to hide ur fore-gone child born from him,
 u can see both us u where the best friends ever even envy to many guls out there, but suddenly he broke out cos of ur hiden agenda,
no matter what, tell ur pretender in the first instant that u ve a kid then if he really loves u he can continue
 such issues re sencitive to relatioships, cars, money ,jobs etc re not sencitive ok,
well wishing u a guud luck and believing that u make it again with him, just bcos ur re ma sister from orlu
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- onyiis at 18-11-2011 01:39 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: sophiebaby on 17-11-2011 03:07 PM
yu did wrong in not telling him for the three yrs yuv bin wit him...
if he truly loves yu..he wudnt look at ur mistakes but forgiv u and take ur child as his..as for the car..i comment my reserve cos i see no reason why u shud get a car and someonelse is driving while u r paying the bills..all in da name of love..meanwhile u not yet maried to him..if he truly loves u..he wud come back..maybe he needs tym to get over the shock

 Cool Cool Cool Cool

Posted: at 18-11-2011 01:39 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- onyiis at 18-11-2011 01:40 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: grace200 on 18-11-2011 01:16 PM
Hello Girl! You hav made a very big mistake frm d start of d relationship, you should hav told him abt ur child nd you also went too fast to get a car..I will advice you to leave d car for him nd move on wit ur life. God will sent a loving caring man to you. Goodluck!

........and i hope when the man comes ........she dont hide her past from him  Tongue Tongue Tongue

Posted: at 18-11-2011 01:40 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- ebinyi at 18-11-2011 01:46 PM (12 years ago)
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u better ur man back not the car! just give him time the gal will scrap his brain then he will luck u.
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- giftmurphy at 18-11-2011 01:52 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: MYKELGUY on 18-11-2011 11:06 AM
Are we even here to prove we are prof. of english?
ask d first guy
Posted: at 18-11-2011 01:52 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- bittersweet at 18-11-2011 02:22 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: laydeelaracraft on 18-11-2011 01:14 PM
I agree! most women r enabling their men. He is obviously enjoying it cuz it had been three years n he still doesnt have a job. I understand that things can b difficult for sum ppl. And if they r you can support him with basic facilities not a nice cussy car. What exactly is that for? thanks boo for hanging on tight despite being jobless?

But she shud neva have kept him in the dark about her child... If I was the guy, I will av some serious doubts about her, I mean what else was she keeping away from me...

Some ppl are doing bad to themselves with their own hands!

Posted: at 18-11-2011 02:22 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- naturalqueen at 18-11-2011 02:49 PM (12 years ago)
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Women should not spend on their man to that extent.........
If he loves, he won't even accept such a gift coz he will want to live up to his responsibilities as ur man
i think he has never really intended marrying u from the first place.
He is a gold digger and has been looking for an opportunity to leave, and u presented him a good opportunity.
Posted: at 18-11-2011 02:49 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- asala at 18-11-2011 02:55 PM (12 years ago)
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You made mistake why can't you tell him before your love strong whether he like it or not...Just 4 get about the car that one is shaara....you have already  loose  
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- kinkyebony at 18-11-2011 03:16 PM (12 years ago)
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If yüä seekin 4 marriage or longtym relationship, u must build it on  TRUTH,  TRUST,  &  LUV;  And nt on  FANTASY, FALLACY,  or  LOBBY, which is making söm  RELATIONSHIPS  baseless lyk a  TREE  witout root, which cn easly b blown off by storms of angry wind. U must b transparent wit motion-mind which attracts no evil, witout any hidden agenda, 2 get yö true-luv.

U dnt've 2 regret 4 yö mistakes, but rather u learn 4rm dem. Nxt tym u've 2 initiate yö relationship wit d normal procedure of its engagement wit sincerity & truth. 4get abt dät lost; Diä're many fishes in d ocean; Many were called but few are chosen. Move on wit yö lyf, go in deligent search of yö soul-mate, u'll get him by correctin yö mistakes, & build yö nxt & last relationship of matrmony on a  SOLID  FOUNDATION. I wish u gudluck:o Shocked Shocked Huh? Huh? Huh? Shocked Shocked Shocked
Posted: at 18-11-2011 03:16 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- onyiis at 18-11-2011 03:17 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: kinkyebony on 18-11-2011 03:16 PM
If yüä seekin 4 marriage or longtym relationship, u must build it on  TRUTH,  TRUST,  &  LUV;  And nt on  FANTASY, FALLACY,  or  LOBBY, which is making söm  RELATIONSHIPS  baseless lyk a  TREE  witout root, which cn easly b blown off by storms of angry wind. U must b transparent wit motion-mind which attracts no evil, witout any hidden agenda, 2 get yö true-luv.

U dnt've 2 regret 4 yö mistakes, but rather u learn 4rm dem. Nxt tym u've 2 initiate yö relationship wit d normal procedure of its engagement wit sincerity & truth. 4get abt dät lost; Diä're many fishes in d ocean; Many were called but few are chosen. Move on wit yö lyf, go in deligent search of yö soul-mate, u'll get him by correctin yö mistakes, & build yö nxt & last relationship of matrmony on a  SOLID  FOUNDATION. I wish u gudluck:o Shocked Shocked Huh? Huh? Huh? Shocked Shocked Shocked

the truth of the matter !

Posted: at 18-11-2011 03:17 PM (12 years ago) | Hero
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- priceless87 at 18-11-2011 03:30 PM (12 years ago)
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Should have told him you have a child from the onset of the relationship.

but you sef dey try o, paying 2.5 million for a car to a guy you are not yet married to?

you nor get family? na wa for some girls o
Posted: at 18-11-2011 03:30 PM (12 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- mariamajane at 18-11-2011 03:37 PM (12 years ago)
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Why did you keep such secret from a guy you intended marrying? Of course you should get your car back, if necessary through legal enforcement.
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- onyiis at 18-11-2011 03:41 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: mariamajane on 18-11-2011 03:37 PM
Why did you keep such secret from a guy you intended marrying? Of course you should get your car back, if necessary through legal enforcement.

legal ? do u thing she has any leagal ground in this matter ?

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- kebella at 18-11-2011 03:46 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Sandyikechi on 18-11-2011 12:57 PM
OMG!! God pls help me nt 2 b mugu lyk dis 1 ooooo..spendin on a guy am nt yet married 2,nd @d process of it bought a car of 2.2M jessss..nd am sure ur parents nd ur bby gal are dying of hunga, Grin Grin nd nw d dude can't refund d car bck 2 u.even if u tk d case 2 court u are guilty 1,*HE"S NAMES RE WRTIN ON IT*and he may  deny u coz he's nt married 2 u. Wink Wink Wink oh gal u really fall hand ooo honestly even if men re scarce dat doesn't mean u shold carter 4 dat peson..u no u luv him y didn't u tell him u hv a bby gal b4,4 ova 3 yrs nw i guss d bby is nt dat importnt 2 u.. instead  u wnt ahead in affording a *CAR* 4 a guy...pls get ur car "if he cn gv it 2 u coz his names re boldly wrtin on d documents".. Sad Sad Sad Sad.
too much vex Shocked

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- kebella at 18-11-2011 03:47 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: bittersweet on 18-11-2011 10:19 AM
Low self esteem...
sure

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- kebella at 18-11-2011 03:51 PM (12 years ago)
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Quote from: Aknankanan on 17-11-2011 10:53 PM
Quote from: kebella on 17-11-2011 09:06 PM
even if his my husb i cant spend such amount on him afterall is his duty to take care of all my responsibilities not the other way round.....gurl yu fcuk UP big tym .....mtchew Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad Sad

u cruel o!!!  Undecided
Huh? Embarrassed

Posted: at 18-11-2011 03:51 PM (12 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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