it depends on him.if u love her and u can sacrifice for her why not.Afterall love is all abt sacrifice.We need love and give love in return.I want u to ans this questions,can u stand the crisis when it comes?can u spend sleepless nyts in d hospital?what abt the drugs?how do u want to handle her when she's carrying ur baby?Marriage is a life time comitment,not a contract.If u can cope with all the stress thats associated with sickcell then go ahead bro.If u cant then talk things oer with herand be realistic.I know u are in love at times we get selfish when it comes to decision taking.7 years is a long time.let me ask u this question,did u just discover dat she has sickle cell anaemia?if not why did it take u so long to address the situation?i'll advice u talk it over with her.Make her understand why you cant marry her.On the other hand if you feel strongly for her go ahead and marry her.

young Kev stop askin question on top of ques. simply ans d poster ok.  
@poster they cheat cos they aint show of wat they want...or they dnt knw wat they hav until they lost it. But not all men does that. They mostly flirt; its also a cheat but not all.

Well, me i don't know his reason for that. To me i'll say he is just trying to no if the land is fertile
I don't really know, but some guys does that....Telling their lady to get down with preg before kicking
off with the marriage rites.

Yes my sister, i really can't do without flowers and teddy bears.i think the one that reject flowers are local girls.

well as 4 me i very well appreciate flowers cnt say 4 others

y sad  .. if the man is not responsible he deserves tat...

the issue is not woman exchanging punches, the issue is men beating there wives, if u ask i, i belive women are very fragile thing and they should be treat as treasure and no matter what they do to us, there are better ways of saying our hanger than raising up our hands beating them, i have said that, there is nothing a woman can do to me that will make me raise my hand and beat her, not my life, even if she hit me first, i will simply work away cos i know women are very emotional and they dont have second thought before taking an action but regret after the action but is not a bad thing though cos it is one of the characteristics of women, so the question can two wrongs make a right...never!......Men are know to be highly expert when it comes to reasoning than women, that was why the bible makes us the head of the family, so what kind of a head you wanna be when all you can do is beat your wife up every day, as for me, on this Topic, the blame is on the men not the women and as for me, i see any man that beat up his wife as nothing but a DOG.

yeah Dguy........if a man hits a woman,is the womn supposed to just stay like  doll and entertain those blows...obviously she have to defend herself....in fact,i was considering karate and taekwando but now that u have mentioned it,i am gonna proceed with the courses.....

i will be,it depends on the reason of the breakup and if you as a lady had your pride till the end of the relationship,at least,you can't feel guity if you see him,you will always know that, that guy has never seen your intimate part,so you have respect before him.

I don't see why we can't remain friends especially if the sex was good. Sure we can be friends and still share lil bit of intimacy if both of us are still single.

The pride of a woman is her Virginity,once u loose it before marriage ur moral will definitely drop.but one thing i want u all to know is that God has a purpose for this.Why is it not in man?for a woman there is a covering and becos it's a convenant(Blood).Many of us we'll say this is a modernized world so we dont value it.but some stil value it.before wen u married and ur husband comes out with a stain cloth,it's not only a pride to u but to ur family as well.parents are happy if a lady can keep herself,have respect,have educational value and is ready to learn and help others.Above all Knowing God is the ultimate becos He will be able to direct u.

obviously it isnt surprising if even my female folks cant categorically tell what the true pride of a woman is, reason been that most have lost it in one way or the other. Above all things already mentioned by other contributors what still stands out is keeping one's virginity till your wedding night. But the male folks, do u still appreciate having virgins as wives? because if u do, u wont be insistent on deflowering your girlfriends during courtship