Advice for the ladies.

Date: 15-01-2009 5:16 pm (16 years ago) | Author: Resi Makinde
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- at 15-01-2009 05:16 PM (16 years ago)
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I have a friend who had being engage to the fiance for 2yrs now and they both live together,trial marriage I mean.Something motivated me to ask her when they are getting married. She said I should ask the guy and not her.I called the guy the next day and ask him that same question. I was amaze when the guy told me...
Resi! while marry your friend when I can get it free of charge...That respond prompted me to ask futher question and he said your friend stays in my house,she cook for me,washes my cloth and warm my bed, so while spend money marrying her .... He finally said let her do with the engagement ring.I was shock becos you need to see the duo,you will envy them... The problem I have now,how do I tell her to call it off.

Posted: at 15-01-2009 05:16 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
- princemech at 15-01-2009 05:20 PM (16 years ago)
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simply tell her d koko....thats will be more better as a friend
Posted: at 15-01-2009 05:20 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- eve991 at 15-01-2009 05:37 PM (16 years ago)
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If dis strategy is workin 4 dem..i guess u shld jus let dem be gal..but am not sayin dey shldn't get married.
Posted: at 15-01-2009 05:37 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- daysolar at 15-01-2009 05:49 PM (16 years ago)
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leave them alone...
when the time is right, they will both go their seperate ways. Or better still, they will marry and have kids.
Posted: at 15-01-2009 05:49 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- eve991 at 15-01-2009 05:54 PM (16 years ago)
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abi oooooooooooooooooooo
Posted: at 15-01-2009 05:54 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- mayorstica at 16-01-2009 04:14 PM (16 years ago)
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Please dont, they are already married. it is a marriage of consesus of the mind
Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:14 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- vivian07 at 16-01-2009 04:26 PM (16 years ago)
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if truly this girl is Ur friend,its Ur responsibility to walk up to her and tell her wats up.
cos its a sin on Ur part for keeping it to yourself.
Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:26 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- zuli at 16-01-2009 04:29 PM (16 years ago)
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Men can be terrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrible!
Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:29 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Toks-E at 16-01-2009 04:35 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Resi on 15-01-2009 05:16 PM
I have a friend who had being engage to the fiance for 2yrs now and they both live together,trial marriage I mean.Something motivated me to ask her when they are getting married. She said I should ask the guy and not her.I called the guy the next day and ask him that same question. I was amaze when the guy told me...
Resi! while marry your friend when I can get it free of charge...That respond prompted me to ask futher question and he said your friend stays in my house,she cook for me,washes my cloth and warm my bed, so while spend money marrying her .... He finally said let her do with the engagement ring.I was shock becos you need to see the duo,you will envy them... The problem I have now,how do I tell her to call it off.

waz d deal??
Posted: at 16-01-2009 04:35 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- diplomatik at 23-01-2009 04:34 AM (16 years ago)
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viewing
go comment later
Posted: at 23-01-2009 04:34 AM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- blackberryPearl at 23-01-2009 04:36 AM (16 years ago)
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that would suck
Posted: at 23-01-2009 04:36 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- princemech at 23-01-2009 04:37 AM (16 years ago)
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huh!
Posted: at 23-01-2009 04:37 AM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- blackberryPearl at 23-01-2009 04:38 AM (16 years ago)
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if she tells
and if she doesn't tell
Posted: at 23-01-2009 04:38 AM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- favour4realf at 24-01-2009 12:52 PM (16 years ago)
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my dear,as a married woman,i know what it means,just call her and talk sense into her,but if she disagree,leave her,one day,something wwill make her retrace her step.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 12:52 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- Beautydiva at 24-01-2009 01:22 PM (16 years ago)
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What u will tell her depends on d closeness of ur friendship.
All d same u can just narrate 2 her d content of d discussion u had with her fiance.
Don't tell her 2 call it off bcos u don't know whether they have any kind of agreement btw themselves.
Just advice her 2 take d best decision dat she feels will be right 4 her.
U can't come in btw 2 love birds.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 01:22 PM (16 years ago) | Upcoming
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- roamyvianpug at 24-01-2009 02:02 PM (16 years ago)
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men are the worst thing God created.they are terribly wicked.pls my dear tell ur friend now to reduce the hurt on her pls dont watch from a distance cos this bastard of a man may be promising her heaven and earth inside.pls call her now
Posted: at 24-01-2009 02:02 PM (16 years ago) | Newbie
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- peacetee at 24-01-2009 02:09 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: Resi on 15-01-2009 05:16 PM
I have a friend who had being engage to the fiance for 2yrs now and they both live together,trial marriage I mean.Something motivated me to ask her when they are getting married. She said I should ask the guy and not her.I called the guy the next day and ask him that same question. I was amaze when the guy told me...
Resi! while marry your friend when I can get it free of charge...That respond prompted me to ask futher question and he said your friend stays in my house,she cook for me,washes my cloth and warm my bed, so while spend money marrying her .... He finally said let her do with the engagement ring.I was shock becos you need to see the duo,you will envy them... The problem I have now,how do I tell her to call it off.

Betta still sponsor the wedding. Undecided

On a serious note, i dont blame the guy, he is getting the whole deal...im sorry 4 d woman though, if i were her, I will do a trial seperation, lets c if the guy dont come to his senses.  But saying that though, it might be what they both want, since ur friend didnt come to meet u and complain. 

Personally I will say let them be.  Until one of them is tired of the current arrangement there aint nothin u can do about it.

Just be good friends as u are.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 02:09 PM (16 years ago) | Gistmaniac
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- SAmyrocko at 24-01-2009 06:26 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: zuli on 16-01-2009 04:29 PM
Men can be terrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrible!

even you girls.. both are bad.
Posted: at 24-01-2009 06:26 PM (16 years ago) | Addicted Hero
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- ceejay58 at 25-01-2009 06:22 PM (16 years ago)
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Quote from: roamyvianpug on 24-01-2009 02:02 PM
men are the worst thing God created.they are terribly wicked.pls my dear tell ur friend now to reduce the hurt on her pls dont watch from a distance cos this bastard of a man may be promising her heaven and earth inside.pls call her now


so na u go come marry uself abi?
Posted: at 25-01-2009 06:22 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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- chrissiebee at 25-01-2009 06:25 PM (16 years ago)
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COHABITATION AND ITS WAHALA! * sighs*
Posted: at 25-01-2009 06:25 PM (16 years ago) | Hero
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