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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Singer Iyanya fires back at rude fan on twitter (Page 3) |
on: 19-11-2013 12:38 PM
| U sef Inyanya, u no dey ever get better tin to post?? Na only ur body u dey like to post. everytym, ure shirtless. is dat all wat u have in ur head?? is dat all ure made of?? it makes u look like ure desperately seeking for attention from ladies. Post oda things jare. its getting boring. we all know u have six packs. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigerian Men Are Not romantic. They are too full of ego.”- Ronke Oshodi (Page 6) |
on: 14-11-2013 08:23 PM
| naija hate truth,,the truth be say this woman open up..una dey vex..for the men..HOW MANY TIME U DON TELL YOUR WIFE THAT U LOVE HER..OR TAKE HER OUT FOR GOOD TIME OR TAKE HER ON HOLIDAYS FOR WEEKS,,HAVING SEX WITH YOUR WIFE EVERY DAY NO MAKE U ROMANTIC OOOH..SHOW HER LOVE,,HAVE TIME FOR HER,,,SPEND TIME WITH HER MAKE HER HAPPY,,SOME MEN THINK BY MAKING SEX TO A WOMAN WILL MAKE U ROMANTIC..NA LIE..BUT SOME WOMAN DEY FEAR TO TALK TO THEIR MAN..OR OPEN UP..THIS WHY I LKIE WHITE WOMEN..THEM WILL TELL U WHAT THEM WANT..
Correct. Exactly what i said. why shud u date or marry somebody dat u are afraid of telling him or her wat u want and how u want him or her to handle u? Some pple are funny. dey will hear d word 'Romantic', dey will quickly tink its just Sex. after marriage, all dose things dey used to do to spice up relatnship, dey will stop doing dem.dis is why pple shud be enlightened n stop having dis low , backward mentality. Being romantic isnt just about sex. its about how u treat ur partner in many ways. Are u loving, tender, compassionate, caring? Do u treat ur partner d same u treat ur body as d bible said u shud do?? do u go out with ur wife regularly for shows or dinners? if ur wife aint sexy enough after childbirth, do u step out to buy her sexy clothes, make up, good hairstyle, take her to d gym?? A hardened man with stone like heart dat has no fellow feeling cnt be romantic. Some african men feel dat bcos dey are d head, dat means dey must behave like abacha at home. dey take dis Headship thing too far and abuse it. dats why u see men killing deir wives bcos food is not ready. Haba! how do u expect sucha man to be romantic? he cnt be. theres no way u will treat ur wife lyk a queen dat she wont treat u like a king also except ure just unfortunate to marry d wrong woman. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon |
on: 14-11-2013 07:39 PM
| Akon may be right, because from the time of Abraham it has always been that way. if you want to quote 'one man one wife' of Paul, remember it was a criteria for men that 'aspire for the office of a bishop' not for everybody. we always get sentimental about this kind of issues. having multiple partners is not necessarily a sign of cheating or unfaithfulness if all the parties concerned are aware. How many wives did our fathers Abraham and Jacob marry? does it mean they were unfaithful?
Go back and read ur bible properly. after d tym of abraham and co, God made it so dat a man must have only ONE wife. Jesus christ had to repeat it again and again to d pharisees. If men are allowed to have more than one wife, why did God say dat dose who commit adultery shall not inherit His kingdom? Why? Go n read ur bible veeeeeeeeery well. | | |
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Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigerian Men Are Not romantic. They are too full of ego.”- Ronke Oshodi |
on: 13-11-2013 07:19 PM
| Correction. It is not just Yoruba men. African men appear to show little if any affection to their wives in public. They are afraid of being looked on as being weak. Our men have a lot of esteem issues that need to be addressed. Everything is done with a heavy hand to show who is in "charge!" Hence the death of the 3 year old for wetting the bed!
To make themselves feel good they go for ladies who are fair skinned in the hope that their family and friends will envy them and give them some "street credibility."
But its good to see some strong women coming up in Nigeria (I am not talking about those in govt) who despite everything are standing tall and letting the husband know that it tskes two to make a marriage work and not dictatororship!
However there are still women who quote tradition and culture for living subservient lives in their marriages!
In the long run, we all chose what makes things work for us. And this is why certain parts of the world are afraid of female education!
Ure ryt to an extent. But frm what ive learnt abt men, especialy if ure dealing wit men dat truly luv u, not lust, dere are nigerian men who are willing to be romantic. Dnt expect a proud man to be romantic. No way. A proud man wil handle u anyhw he lyks. Dnt expect a man who is too traditionalistic to be romantic too. D issue of romance is new to our traditnal beliefs. Also men who r well travelled, broad minded can also be romantic bcos dey tend not to see tins in plain black n white. U have to watch out 4 d calibre of men dat come arnd u n choose d one who's ready to learn frm u in case he's nt romantic. Only humble and 21st century men can be romantic bcos dey are more sensitive 2 d needs of a woman. It al depends on d way u handle dat man. We stil have men dat are willing to bend 4 u. All u have to do is Express urself, tell him exactly wat u want n exactly how u wud like him to treat u frm d begining. Some men are flexible. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon |
on: 13-11-2013 05:06 PM
| My guy it is very possible for a woman to get pregnant to two men in one month. Haven't you heard of twins with different fathers?. What Akon is saying his total rubbish although there is an element of truth in it. He is just trying to defend his selfish interest negatively with a positive prove. Just a man is meant for a woman and vice versa. Most men can made love with different women without emotionally attached to them unlike women. This is why women prefer to stay with one man and don't engage in casual sex without love. The result of the research is not to prove that men can made love with diferent women but to prove that most men are in lust and not in love. It is to prove that men should love their women A man who truly loves his woman will find it difficult to imagine himself cheating on her
Thank u for d clarification. Dere are many ways to look at wat Akon is saying. But still Akon is wrong. bcos ladies can have sex with men dey dnt love simply bcos of money or can he explain why dere are many sluts around him? he has forgotten dat now different pple have for different reasons for having sex and things have changed. for men, having sex is just fun n nothing else. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon (Page 2) |
on: 13-11-2013 11:07 AM
| So for your mind you are happy that women also cheat, when a man is dating too many girls it is not called cheat but when a woman is dating too many guys she is a prostitute and for your information they guys she is dating all know and they just want to freestyle her and dump her because no man can marry a woman that date too many guys.
Mr Man, Go and read ur dictionary n check d meaning of Cheating. Jeez! Cheating na Cheating. U dnt have better thing to say. A man dating many girls at a time maybe feeling like james bond not knowing dat d many girls he is dating are dating oda men too. Can't u see dat wat ure saying doesnt make any sense? whoever cheats will get cheated on. Na so life be. deal with it. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon |
on: 13-11-2013 10:56 AM
| I EXPECTED MORE FROM YOU THAN CHEAP VULGARITIES. THIS SOCIAL MEDIUM IS FOR EXCHANGE OF IDEAS AND THOUGHTS, AND NOT FOR THE INSULTS LIKE THE ONES YOU IGNORANTLY UTTERED. I SUGGEST YOU READ MY INITIAL COMMENT AGAIN AND GET MY POINT CLEARLY. I WILL NOT INSULT YOU OR YOUR WIFE OR YOUR SISTER BECAUSE I WAS NOT BROUGHT-UP IN SUCH A DIRTY MANNER LIKE YOURS.
Nice one. Dnt mind some useless Bullies here. simply bcos ur view is difrent frm deir ignorant view, dey want to start bullying pple in dis forum. Rubbish! Have no fear! Speak ur mind make dem kiss wet transformer. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon (Page 2) |
on: 13-11-2013 10:53 AM
| So for your mind you are happy that women also cheat, when a man is dating too many girls it is not called cheat but when a woman is dating too many guys she is a prostitute and for your information they guys she is dating all know and they just want to freestyle her and dump her because no man can marry a woman that date too many guys.
How many ladies have u dated dat have only dated n slept with ONLY ONE MAN?? How many?? cant u see dat akon is saying is totally unrealistic?? | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon |
on: 13-11-2013 10:41 AM
| One man, one woman. That's God's purpose for marriage. Anything short of this is evil.
Exactly! If men are built to have many women, why didnt God create many eves for adam?? God only allowed abraham n co to have more than one wife bcos he wanted them to populate d earth with offsprings. he allowing it doesnt mmean he is in support of it if not he wudnt have said dat adultery is a sin.but u see dat wen dose men had more than one wife, dere was problem. abraham n sarah ended up sending Hagar d concubine away bcos of d trouble dat was coming, king solomon had many wives n concubines yet dose women didnt allow him serve God bcos dey made him worship idols. Same as today, if u have more dan one wife, na problem u put for ur head n serious high b.p. dese stories in d bible are dere for us to learn d good n stay away frm bad. later in d new testament, jesus made it clear dat God made it 1 man 1 wife. shikena. anytin more dan dat is adultery. So its left for pple to take it or leave it. saying dat men are naturally polygamous is wrong. justifying cheating with the bible when bible even condemns adultery makes no sense. i guess dis only concerns christians who worship God. for dose who dnt give a damn abt God, dats deir cup of tea. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon |
on: 13-11-2013 09:48 AM
| Sorry. Make una dey argue for dere dey hope for dis and dat. when u pple are ready to come to d real world u can come. we no dey d time of abraham and co. Morality has gone down n u all contributed to it.say watever u want to say but still women cheat everyday. hehehe. stop dreaming. women dnt give a damn about ur opinion. nothing wey u fit do. how many virgins do u find around u?? hw many men can date a lady without sex?? and u pple are here dreaming of dis and dat. is dere any sense in wat ure saying at all?? men can sleep with many women but women cnt sleep with many men?? d many women ure sleeping with are sleeping with ghost ba?? and who told u dey are nt sleeping with oda men?? U be james bond wey u come dey very special sotey na only u dem con dey sleep with?? Upon d many wives u get, U love patroning sluuts and u kip sleeping around with sluts yet u dnt knw dat sluts sleep with different men?? u get sense at all? wake up frm ur dream akon! Na una spoil tins like dis. | | |
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Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Women Aren't Built To Mate With More Than One Person, Men Are- Akon (Page 2) |
on: 13-11-2013 12:45 AM
| Hahaha. Akon, stop dreaming. Have u bn on dis planet earth at all dat women are mating wit many men as dey can? If dats wat u tink den hw come u haven't locked any lady inside cell 4 sleeping wit difrent guys dey date? Who's deceiving u wit dis talk? Cnt u see dat women r cheating too? Wake up! Ure dreaming boy! Cheating is evrywhere weda male or female! Even d girls u sleep wit also sleep wit oda men. Swallow d hard truth n live long. Women are stil cheating. | | | |