Nigeria Isn't bad, she is just a baby in the hands of masters who directs her daily course. I do agree and disagree with some of the views presented, tho im not an ambassador to or for the great nation, I will see myself more as an achiever who believes each new dawn presents brighter purpose than the other night when we laid our body to sleep. Come to think of it, what is Ugly or Bad about this nation, how many can you personally point at. We are the insectful racists labelling the poor nation the way we wants it. Yes, a lot are willing, planning and getting prepared to travel abroad, but do not forget that most are willing to embark on such trips as a problem-solving mission.

Let me share this experience with you all. I was forced to studying sciences when i should have been a Literature student, I managed through my high school senior classes and also became an undergraduate of a prestigious university here in the field of Microbiology...what is the result, i started trailling even those i strongly believe might not have been sound as myself academically. This is an effect of the environment and the very little availability of choices to make..that is if you want a good one. I want you to imagine how hard you have to try to get admitted into a college here, even with the right grades, so be it because the most people at the helm of affairs here and so corrupt minded and biased towards justice and equality. It took me close to 4 years before i could get an admission into a federal university...i finally got in because i am stubborn and never relent until i achieve what i believe is rightfully mine. All the while, i am doing this to please someone, now tell me what happenes when you try to change your course, which automatically in my own case means changing my university, i hope the system becomes better son i wont have to spend another additional 4 years to achieve this.

The leaders are not making a good platform towards sound educational and social goals, instead you have to be as insistent as myself to get to some places and make some achievements. I believe it is all going for better now, but why blame someone who wants to go where there is a better environment and a sound platform towards great achievements other than remain where efforts are neutralized and the wise is made to look like a fool...Little words there for the wise.

The country is good, no doubt. Millions of dollars(though not the official currency here) keeps rolling into the pockets of those that are allegedly elected into public and social representative positions at all level..will you associate such to the voters fault even when he dosent know how far his votes help to put them there. Instead, they are indebted to those they believe installed them into such positions through massive rigging of elections. No worries, you will understand better realizing public leadership positions are held by those appointed by their God-fathers. God have mercy.

I am not saying much, but if you ask me on my opinion, i wish, intend and definately by God's grace hope to travel to a more education-friendly environment to complete a degree in Literature or English. Knowledge gathered in the process will in no little amount help solidify an aspired great future in the desired fields.

Literature Nobel Award winner, 1986 in person of Prof. Wole Soyinka did not only studied in greener pastures, but also made an impact in the entire world with divine literature skills, empowered by Almighty God but also ammassed through stages of learning in different countries of the world. So tell me, where's he now, Home. Ile labo si oko. not much to say again but I will tell you this a million times, Nigeria is as good as any other great nation as herself if in the right steering hands.

Thank you for reading through, loads of fun places can be found almost everywhere, if in doubt, make a trip someday but remember to holla at me, it will be my pleasure to show you around. Have a great day.

Esiarp

For goodness sake, i'm not sure anybody will want to fabricate such, i mean it seem weird. All in all, I wish the young man a quick, speedy and safe recovery. Nonetheless, Obama is a great man, it is no crime to advertise one's fancy for him, anywhere. Could I have been shot wearing a shirt with OBJ's pic on it...hmmm maybe on the streets of Abeokuta. Safe all.

LOL LOL LOL...sorry folks, i think i need to playwright a movie with some of yours

Mine was way back in secondary school. My first fight i titled it. there was this guy who was more of a bully, i thought i could resist for myself and others and challenged him to a duel. some who knew i never fought before were surprised while some thought i might have been learning boxing...LOL. Well, we left the school premises for deep in the bush (its a fully boarding school located somewhere isolated on an expressway btw Ibadan and Ife) Little did I realize im in for a total punishment, i buoyed him very well on our way beaming with chants from my supporters and fellow oppressors. but the result was me running for my dear life after a ruthless beating. I ran from the bush into the school compound straight to the masters quarters...LOL. you would laugh at me, judging from the way i ran. Well, i think he is just more muscled than me, i suppose don maintain my cool boy attitude. cnt remember if i'd had another after then but the attempt made me one of the boys to beat sha....not a good experience tho cos na only me sabi wetin touch ma body.. ha ha ha ha ha  foolish boy, he wan spoil my face, na small e remain.

Mine's CANCER-MEN. Sounds OK bt also conflicting in some bossy areas...MUAHHH

Being a confidant to her is good, friends is better. But don't expose her weakness for your pleasure..you know what i mean. Let her give the main man to the fullest. Its no more yours.

LOL. jay88, come up. let your face out, if i were you, i would if it would make someone happy. Anyway, i guess you r rastafarian and kip it up if u are.

True but it helps. It can be educative don't forget.

Crush, i hope it happens. Not for now tho....barely an addict. Just signed on and spending my first consecutive 30 mins today

I want to read more. Nice topic JDBOI. I would say my mine...

More ability to independent decisions but could feel missin out at times.

You sound negative about your friend but positive about your girl. Here brother, Blackberry bare it all to you, Deal with your friend and never should you be so sad about something that you wish it never existed. Find the tune to making up with your friend and the girl, permit me if i say you are probably in lust with her. if you love her, you will be more than proud to make up with your friend while knowing she will be happier too. Wake up, this is 2008 bro, its time for you to end the primitive way of life. One luv

Sounds quite an interesting topic. Honestly i dont think you guys are right about that. I posted a comment a while ago in one of these love related topics, i think a reading might bring some light. So as you can be sure if you take your time to know what you begin with, such is the end going to be,. LOVE is different from Infatuations nor LUST. Some relationships are just kicked off the other way, then it becomes unbalanced. Cos one is in love, the other is in LOVE. or probably, one desires the opposite's company while it is misinterpreted for true love by the other

Sounds quite an interesting topic. Honestly i dont think you guys are right about that. I posted a comment a while ago in one of these love related topics, i think a reading might bring some light. So as you can be sure if you take your time to know what you begin with, such is the end going to be,. LOVE is different from Infatuations nor LUST. Some relationships are just kicked off the other way, then it becomes unbalanced. Cos one is in love, the other is in LOVE. or probably, one desires the opposite's company while it is mininterpreted for true love by the other

Love is Beautiful

Sincerely Both.

Love is Life. Both are Beautiful
You should only be careful not to mix these together. LOVE, LUST and INFATUATION. Love really is real. Let me tell you this, the beginning determines the end. If you dont get it, here you go:
When you meet a girl and ask her out, she agrees because you seem a nice guy and comfortable for her to be with. Then, you misinterprete her companionship with you for LOVE whereas she only likes you. Your relationship might go on and on for years and when she feel its time to move on, you say she is a heart breaker. yes, you can think that way because you'd probably thought she's in love while she just appreciates you. Sex might or is usually common but dont think because she sleeps with you, you are the best for her. You are just too good to be left. She is scared to tell you this is not love cos you had already gone very far describing how lovely your future together will be which to her would have been best if you'd remain friends. Love is really beautiful but dont be shy to clarify when you start before going too deep. Most times, we are guilty of our heart breaks.
One luv

Funny note C-boy. Well, i think its a good idea looking at the positivities involved. I mean, you can't say such is not a good idea in the real sense of it. At the other hand, the use might be taken for granted. How many people will say what they really believe i true or geniue. Its is a good idea if kept REAL by users. No doubt Ihuoma, you got a great suggestion and seem to have a great understanding of what we talking about. Do not hesitate to share your indepth view experience, it matters for those willing to listen.

the tender hearted, always forgivable, caring like a moma, semi reliable, big hearted, emotional and passionate, Belle, heart breaker yet happiness bank, i cnt describe it all. If you have any grudge with any woman, you don't have to act insane cos they are worth every inch of forgiveness you have got. remember, they get you laid all in the name of love and yet, even when they are in love they develop affection for you and treat you like a KING. I am very sure every lady understands this, some men might not. Listen to them, they always want to talk, help them to grow and remember someone helped your mom too in her own groovin and trippin days. Or else, you might just be another man's son and not your dads. When she selects you to be her heir, accept it and consider it not as a responsibility but as a challenge cos in every paro you have with a woman, you already are one experience up. How more do you know about life, or what more can you talk about your life so far with a mention of Love, for a girlfriend or for a fiancee or even Wife (regarding adults). I should pause now, im new to Naijapals and hope to see great influx of friends with no making of an enemy. Peace Brethrens and Sisthrens.

First Post here, among many to come. I think the use of racism to describe Femi's victimization might be both fair and unfair. One thing is we are not sure what circumstances led to her sack, then we might want to debacle on why She got another instant appointment in Abuja, seem like there are great legs tho. Well, baring my mind, i dont believe there really exists anything like racism, simply because you cannot devalue somebody thats got more potentials than yourself. That means, you can only attack the physical but not the mind. Unless the attackee endears his or her mind on the physical and material, then the mind becomes vulnerable. the person in question is doing great now, someone Tell her to do something more for the immediate community she is in or I'll start the use of my canes...Talk to y'all soon