ask any old generation Africans and a few new ones and they will tell u that A caring African man is one who takes care of his family (and in laws ) and doesnt beat u up. They might tell u that the concept of momgamy, trust and caring about ur feeling is an oyinbo concept.

Ask most young African women, they might tell you that concept of caring man is universal n might go on to quote their fave love story.

loans and family (and some friends) dont mix. You dont lend family members money, u loan it to them. Even if it was given to them as a loans, write it off in your mind n assume u will never get this back.

Having, said that I am a lil worried about this poster is posting his family business online.

aproko, na she b celebrity? what does it matter who her child is? the gal is entitled to her own privacy unless she doesnt want to

Am good thx. Take it easy my dear. No let these people frustrate u. 

as my best friend, u must marry the guy lolz

Jokes out though it sounds dodgy; in my limited experience, the only kind of guys that throw money around like that (rich or not), are obnoxious fools that think they can buy everyone, they avent worked hard for that money (mommy's boy or criminals) or they are insecure or perhaps he is testing you. not my cup of garri either way

lie- whilst ultimate commitment is marriage, living together or whatever floats people's both. There are other means of showing commitment. This guy smells like trouble and he is so insecure. Dude prbly need time away from any kind of man/woman relationship to figure out what he want. Or perhaps this is what he wants, enuf vulnerability to keep her around n av his wicked ways

na so!help me tell am

gbam

she hasnt met u

"We are both in love"- pls dear do urself a favour and speak for yourself. Many women found out the wrong way that their spouse is not in love or perhaps he is with anoda.
I am surprised you are 35; at that age, I would expect one to know what they want. Your bf knows what he what or in this case what he doesnt want. If that doesnt work, then find something(one) that does. I wouldnt hold my breath hoping for him to change because tbh, he already has a family and he is in no rush. For some reason, he has decided that he doesnt want to commit to a relationship with you. At his age, life is too short for BS; if he was younger, I would say give him time but he is a grown arse man.

I know this might come across as being a lil too blunt and I apologise for the deliver but it is the truth. So you either gotta stay with him on his terms or get out there and find something that will make you happy.

Lolz. And you should know, the rock on ur dp...ilike :p

better than the first version...ilike

#please please please, THAT is what makes him a perfect husband. If those are the only criteria ppl look for, it is no wonder that marriages keep breaking down

Na wa oh, truth tey say is bitter. See how ppl dey follow run their mouth. The poster was very clear that MOST (not ALL) men will cheat. Ppl av the tendency to cheat full stop men or women. Just that women av the ability to practise more restraint than women. It is even worse nowadays wen ppl dont av to go looking for tempttion, it comes searching for them actively.

Whats my point self, oh yes. Whilst, I dont condone cheating becuz I expect my husband to TRY really hard to resist tempttion, I doubt that I av the time or energy to try n catch him out or play spy. And if he does cheat, I will definitely b devastated, might even leave but I wont b so shocked that I will end up in a mental institution or develop cardiac prbms.

So for all u single men n women who thing marriage is a bliss that u can easily breeze through them good luck to u. Although, I'ld recommend talking to ur aunties, parents, etc. anyone in a commited marriage for over 15yrs n adjust expectations accordingly

that bride doesnt look 27, she lied

I agree with her only cuz I think that being poor is a state of mind. No matter how much money a guy has if he has a poor mentality i.e. worship money over enjoying the lil things in life, doing it with the fear of God in his heart then fallin in love with such a  poor soul is defintely a very bad idea

the guys useless self. him get mouth (and I am sure no action). Kudos to Nse for being so professional. If to say na me I for punch am on stage.

Timaya no b bad boy na mummy's boy. If to say na bad boy Jim Iyke, Dbanj, Clifford Orji, then I go gree say na big story

see how them spread apart wen announcing their engagement. they better start getting used to it cuz on their wedding day.....

who is the boob displaying woman in yellow with dark spots around her knee area and leg...so not sexy