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81  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Goodluck Jonathan Goes On A Well Deserved One Week Leave on: 3-04-2012 04:07 PM
abeg make una leave am alone. Dont u want his family to enjoy him small...una b careful before madame sorry Dame Jonathan come fire una
82  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Top 5 things women does that drive men cr*zy on: 2-04-2012 02:51 PM
Quote from: kebella on  1-04-2012 01:32 PM
Angry Angry Angry Angry Angry
KB u don add weight oh...wetin u dey chop?
83  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Living Together Before Marriage Doesn’t Affect Odds of Divorce on: 27-03-2012 04:28 PM
Personally, I am not a big fan of living with a guy before marriage. But 50, your argument doesnt seem logical? I would have thought that if after living together, they still go ahead and tie the knot, they are more likely to last as husband and wife. Couples who live together after marriage have some adjustments to make and not all of them will like what they see.

Having said that, those living together run a risk of never tieing the knot or take their time in doing so. There is no rush for them.
84  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Romantic Date? ........ Ur Idea on: 24-03-2012 02:41 PM
Romance is a kind, caring, loving gesture tht is received as such. It is usual special to those involved n individual to them. For example, a gal might see a guy as mungun, if he gave her wot she wants but might see another guy as caring n romantic for doing the same thing.

She might call a guy romantic for doing one thing n anoda a perverse for the the same thing. The right answer is knowing ur spouse (man or woman) n act in a way that makes THEM feel special.
85  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Worker Pays Spiritualist N11m To Kill Chivita Boss on: 15-03-2012 02:47 PM
the accuser should be charged with attempt murder by the state of Nigeria cuz even though his bosses were not aware that a crime has been committed, his intention was to kill him/ em. A crime he has confessed to
86  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Nigerian Police Force To Get New Uniforms [Photos] on: 14-03-2012 12:56 PM
lwkm
87  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: New Genevieve Nnaji Picture on: 13-03-2012 10:19 PM
She looks more matured thanher usual teen self
88  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Single Mother, Genevieve Nnaji Advises Women In USA On Marriage And Family on: 13-03-2012 10:17 PM
Marriage advice from a single woman? Na psychology she read?
PS- I avnt listend to the vid and am not tempted to either...
89  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: Rude Gal! Agbani Darego Tells Silverbird Reporter Off On Red Carpet on: 13-03-2012 10:15 PM
Boob job! I remember when she was Miss World, her boobs were not so big
90  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to tell ur man he's DIRTY? on: 13-03-2012 08:19 AM
Quote from: FlyMamacita on 11-03-2012 11:09 AM
wow thx a lot,, very gud advice  Kiss Kiss
U r v.welcom
91  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to tell ur man he's DIRTY? on: 12-03-2012 10:38 PM
Quote from: xter on 12-03-2012 01:15 PM
Dirty man.

She shld make a law na! No bath, no sex
Thot guys hate it wen gals bargain with sex? Cheesy
92  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to tell ur man he's DIRTY? on: 11-03-2012 10:17 AM
Quote from: bittersweet on  9-03-2012 12:27 PM
She should ask him to help with housework, to clean up after himself!  She shouldn't rant and rave, just point it out and see if that approach gets more things done.
If he can’t be bothered to put his dirty clothing in the hamper, then she should not wash what isn’t in the hamper and when he’s run out of underwear he’ll notice and she can point out that they weren’t in the hamper so she didn’t know to wash them.
Even though it's annoying, she have to teach him as if he were a child. With love, patience, and repetition. Learning to laugh at little messes while she reminds him to go clean them. Never accepting "later." If she has to remind him to clean his mess, he should at least hop up and do it right away.
Tell her to laugh and love while she corrects him. Otherwise, he will not be receptive and they will both end up angry or resentful.



haahhaaa- nyc one BS. long time.
good advice although u underestimate how dirty guys can b, he might just wear the dirty ones again lol
93  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to tell ur man he's DIRTY? on: 11-03-2012 10:12 AM
instead of saying, bros u r very dirty u need to clean up

she shud say something like, I dont like the state of this houx most of the time....like u said the guy is very lazy. A frn of mine in a similar  situation said the same to her bf and had the following action plans for them to follow. He responded well to it becuz they were fixing a prb in their houx not cuz sumthing wrong with him. What she did was...
-always kept the lid up n left it down when he needed it. after a while, he got so used to it up that if visitors kept it down he lifted it up
-given that cleanliness was THEIR responsibility, she asked that they got a cleaner once every two weeks do his share of the cleaning n she cleaned on the other days. of course HE had to pay for that (nothing gets a man to pay attention like money)
-left flushable toilet wipes, next to the toilet roll on the toilet, so whilst he is peeing, it is staring straight at him
- she bought laundry baskets in the kitchen n bedroom, so he just dumps them in there instead of the floor.
- other stuff, like leaving dishes around, she kept reminding him in a non-nagging way
- mouth odour, esp in the morning, she reminds him dat he has morning breath which sounds better that gosh u stink
- bath n shower- make it more romantic n ask that y'all shower together etc

In less than two years, her bf was transformed n they r better for it. he proposed last year n they r getting married this year. Inspiring change is not that difficult but it can b hellish if handled wrongly. To be honest, there r probly a lot of not so desirable feautures in our spouses but the key is how yu say what needs to b said. it is a key skill that will help influence ur children too when they get older n grow wings (or is it feathers). This issue is particular worth addressing at an early stage cuz there will b times (esp after child  birth) that u might need ur man to step up wen u cant.
94  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: How to tell ur man he's DIRTY? on: 11-03-2012 09:48 AM
Quote from: Treasure2 on  9-03-2012 10:31 AM
Ignore him and leave the place dirty, he will return to his senses.
that neva works
95  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: have u noticed that ladies no longer play hard to get. on: 1-03-2012 02:34 PM
u chop small, u dey play man maga, u no chop at all, u bebcome cheap n easy. na wa for some ppl sha>>>>
96  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: Lagos State Funeral For Late Dim Chukwuemeka Odumegwu-Ojukwu on: 1-03-2012 02:30 PM
May his soul rest in  peace.

but wth r these ppl pretending that we died united? As far as am concerened unity is  the last word I'll use to describe Nigeria right now
97  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Love & Relationship: Real Men Like Real Hair – Why Weaves Don’t Work on: 28-02-2012 04:18 PM
@poster- there is a market for everyone. am sure u will find someone that suits ur requirements
98  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: TAC! Graduate Selling Plantain and Roasted Corn In Suit By The Road Side on: 28-02-2012 02:23 PM
he might av an interview after rush hour or helping his mum who had to rush somewhere. We dont know his situation pls lets not judge
99  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: NOT AGAIN! Sexy Actress, Laide Bakare Escapes Death In Auto Crash on: 27-02-2012 07:27 PM
no one seem to care about Nissan guy.
100  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Losing sleep ... marriages are meant to be forever on: 23-02-2012 11:30 PM
Perhaps this story wasnt well articulated but to a certain degree I feel this guy. Matter of fact, if I was a guy, I will b scared too. Marriage is a big deal. A very big deal. It is a union between two families not just two ppl.
I am not from a very well off family and I currently support them. Myn is temporary as I will have more support from my siblings wen they r through studying. Which is why any plan to get married will have to wait until after my family is sorted. At least then I know that assisting will only cost a small % of my income. I will also feel better knowing I am bringing something to the table, a sort of partnership not one where I am fully dependant on my hubby.

If this girl is struggling to keep £5k a month, she will probably be unable to cope with having her own family. I know men r supposed to be breadwinners but not all guys can afford to be the sole breadwinner of the family. So unless dude is sure he can afford it, he is right to be concerned about marriage with her atm
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