it really does depend... on alot of things

awww her daughter looks soooo purrrrrrrtyyyyy!

lmbo..... gurl i feel where u r coming from

i think it depends. when it comes to marriage, the man deserves to kno ur account number. but it will be important for d woman to have a pin code to it. now as far as the pin code, no i dnt think he needs to kno. in this day and age, money breaks homes often and if there are separate accounts and one main one, everyone has their own money AKA everyone is happy. if husband need money, d wife go bless him with small and vice versa. but i still think both should be able to view (not draw money) from all accounts.

it could b worldwide but it isnt as bad in the States than in 9ja... i was shocked when i watched *Blackberry Babes*

its sad, but true sha. however, it is also true for men.

this is crazy. however, i dont know my numbers but 3million out of how many ppl in 9ja get HIV? i think it also has alot to do with mothers not knowing that they have HIV and continue to Bosom feed their children. but in 9ja, its hard to buy formula when one can use that money for something more important and give the baby Bosom  milk. also, 9ja men who cannot keep their pants zipped up.

ok, this post is VERY LONG! i stopped reading after a couple of paragraphs.

ila-asekpo.

it depends. my last name is extremely long! 10 letters! so, if my hussy's last name is short ill keep my last name. if it is long, ill just discard it. lol

lol! thought the exact thing

refusing ur man sex is a horrible thing to do cuz he WILL (not might) find it (sex) elsewhere. now i dnt mean spread ur legs wenever he asks for them to b spread but leave the gateway opened more often than not

i wont be able to stand a man who cannot help around the house off and on. i dnt need him to be a house boy or any thing but if i am busy (giving the children a bath, and watching to make sure the food on the stove doesnt burn, and at the same time on the phone with my mother, for example) and he comes up to me complaining with some BS like "why didnt u sweep the floor" or "why isnt the food ready" or he is just watching tv while all of this is taking place, not giving a care in the world how busy i am and not even desiring to help out, mayb in helping the kids bath or watchin the food on the stove... then, we got a problem... the same way men HATE lazy women is the same way I CANNOT CONDONE a lazy man in anyway. if you have a problem in the house and im running around fixing other stuff, be considerate and fix whatever u are complaining of. WE BOTH own the house. well, idk how things go do down in Nigeria, but, watever.... it will save the couple from arguing unnecessarily...

now this goes only for the working woman. if the woman is a house wife, she should be able to keep the house clean day in and day out.

IT HAPPENS TO ME TOO! i think it is because the topic of marriage scares me. d committment alone is hard enough. its not that i cant commit to a guy or that i hop from one guy to d next but being cool and friends with guys is easier for me than marriage.

ok, honestly, ive never seen a woman with a body like this. however, it is possible for a woman to have a body like this without being on steroids. all she does is work out the muscles that she (and EVERYONE ELSE) has in her abdomen and in her arms alot. thats it. and obviously wen u work muscles, they come out and show themselves without u even flexing. men, chill... ladies, if una no like am, carry dey go. simple

who are we to blame? d kids? no. someone else has to b blamed and it is the man. bcuz most relationships, men skrew it up. and viceversa. d man will blame it on d woman, not d kids. 

even if d baby understands wat is going on (btw, God forbid dat one. if not, d world should end now o) he/she wont remember it. so have fun. or place d baby somewhere else abeg. he/she will be more dan happy to have a sibling

LOL... i said d same tin after reading dis o

i dnt think there is a specific age for this issue to be brought up to kids. every child is different. some pick up faster than othrs in terms of curiosity. whenever one's child brings up the question, the parents should definitely speak to the child about it. not explicitly, if the child is too young. but parents shouldnt brush off questions that children bring up. now if d child for some odd/foolish reason doesnt ask the parents about this issue, i think the parents should target age 11/12 because thats when puberty (on an average) begins. even 5y/o ask questions, it is ok to discuss it with them in a way their mind can understand

I think pride has a big thing to do with it as well. But my own issue is that, if I am making more money than my husband, that doesnt necessarily show that I am proud. it is the men that dnt always like it when it is their wife bringing most of the bread to the table. then the husband starts feeling bad and every small thing like this, he will say that his wife isnt respecting him. anyway, put that one to the side...

i mostly think celebrity marriages crash nowadays bcuz they have no sort of privacy. i mean, the more ppl who are into ur relationship/marriage, the more issues u have and the more trust is lost btween the couple.