Poceda,u are spot on!famliy friends cos the man and woman think it wont be discovered on account of the existing friendship.the innocent parties trust them!Am surprised no one talked about money.the married man can afford to spend on the woman the way her husband cannot or would not.In one word GREED.she wants to live above her means.the man has an easy lay.NO COMMITTMENT.IF SHE IS PREGGY,she knows what to do!Both of them want the best from both worlds.........for the man..the comfort of a wife at home (who is faithful) and for the woman the umbrella of a husband for societal respect. the real bottom line is lack of respect for the cheated wife and husband. the cheats are just too CALLOUS in their selfish "enjoyment" to bother about GOD.and please,cut out the story of the wife at home being at fault.what ever happened to 'for better for worse'?and when did 2 wrongs make a right? why cant the cheat think of a permanent solution to the marital problem instead of putting him/her self in danger.in my place,we say,person wey de sleep with another man wife de owe death.
i agree with people who blame the cheating wife cos she consented.why cant she keep her legs TIGHTLY CLOSED.everything vests on the woman as long as its note RAPE but CONSENTUAL.A MARRIED WOMAN WHO SLEEPS WITH ANY MAN OTHER THAN HER HUSBAND CAN KILL.