What the guy asked for was for help.........so every other comment aside what he wants is not considered useful to him...the deed has been done.....criticizing and condemning his actions will not change any thing.......Is only in Africa that it seems they both are not matured enough to handle issues like that..(African mentality) .....out here, tins are different. 18 and and 20 are fully grown adults to handle what ever life brings their way; and to be responsible for their actions................OLUDU you are the man,....plead with ur mum to understand and bear with her....pregnancy some times creates room for aggressiveness ......your mum should treat her like she were her own daughter, then she might be a bit eased and feel comfortable at that..........wish you all the best, and wish her safe delivery .............Age is not maturity........beware!
out there? where? Europe or America?
What is African mentality here? The contributions here from interesting ladies here like Treasure, Kebella, BS, etc. etc. are the right rebuke to a duns who instead of thinking his books and how to build his future he is thinking honeypot and woman nyash and feeling it normal to bring a woman to her Mama.
Igbo people no dey do so. No Mama will even accept u for one day in her home if u sabi phyuk, u must sabi maintain. Ur parents must tell u b4 hand.
My Papa go tell u say, hia his own home, u must go rent ur home, pay for it. What a hell do they or the boy have to disturb the Mama in her own, upon that with another woman and pickin go soon come.
The pregnant girl get stress and need space which she no dey get, and d boy no dey catch the joke.
I wonder why Africans go learn from Oyibo and turn the practice upside down?