11.Hacking into email or phones looking for suspicious messages and then yelling at the guy 12.Putting too much energy into the idea of a fairy-tale romance that they're disappointed with anything less 13.Dropping their friends when they're falling in love 14.Denying that there's a problem in our marriage/ relationship, instead of facing it and asking ourselves what needs to be done.
Obedience is a corresponding action to oders and commands. Real women do not take oders from their partners and real men do not oder/command their women. A modern family is one built on a platform of equality, respect, deliberation and concensus.
A real woman does not remain who she is rather she adjusts just as her partner also adjusts to fit into the carved picture of their partnership reality, wishes and expectations.
A real woman is very difficult to be identified by her appearances and actions [fruits]. Actions are as deceitful as appearance. Actions can be taken up as roles just to fulfill intentions and these roles could be played for a very long time sometimes even for a life time. Appearance is nothing more than a movie role. It does not reflect intentions and reality.
A woman's diligence for many Nigerian men means going beyound scientifically assatained and aproved human limits to take care of [stereo type women ascribed] domestic duties while their men live carefree and give no damn or care less about the family upkeep. That is not diligence! Again, diligence has little or nothing to do with family. In its place you find responsibility, comitment and care.
Lastly, the ideal woman is not the real woman and vice versa
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