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3221  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Y DO LADIES TALKS ABOUT THEIR HUSBANDS OR BOY FRIENDS TO THEIR FELLOW FRIENDS on: 23-04-2010 02:01 PM
Quote from: swagsb on 23-04-2010 10:09 AM
@ poster, u know that women are emotional and need to share their problems with their fellow frnds if not it will eat them up. its natural.
so which one do u prefer, telling ur friends & the story will develop many legs or keeping it within urself & it will eat u up...
3222  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Wat women and men want on: 23-04-2010 01:54 PM
is all love both ways gals....
3223  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Y DO WE CHEAT OR HURT THE MOST ONE WE LOVE.. on: 21-04-2010 10:14 PM
Quote from: HOPEA23 on 21-04-2010 10:08 PM
I have 10boyfriends
none of them know about each other
I am playing the game smooth..
What a player?
Anyway,I am doing this because I just feel like doing it..cheating on them.come sweetie I am still young and want to explore cheii.I haven't hurt them yet..because I still need them to be taken care of my expensive.now poster are u happy.

keep u game on, is all good..
3224  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Y DO LADIES TALKS ABOUT THEIR HUSBANDS OR BOY FRIENDS TO THEIR FELLOW FRIENDS on: 21-04-2010 03:56 AM
that one na mental disorder & is uncurable...lifetime illness..
3225  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Y DO LADIES TALKS ABOUT THEIR HUSBANDS OR BOY FRIENDS TO THEIR FELLOW FRIENDS on: 20-04-2010 11:19 PM
more often when their spurse or boy friend had a fight with them or when
they got a new something from the guys, the nxt thing u see them on the phone..
3226  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Whom are you missing right now on: 20-04-2010 08:08 PM
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vPw1S1RNECU" target="_blank" class="aeva_link bbc_link new_win" rel="nofollow">Nigeria - Tilda - Sweet Mother</a>

i miss my sweet mother
3227  Forum / The Buzz Central / Re: WAR!!!.... Stop Talking And Start Cooking For Your Husband – Genevieve Punches I on: 20-04-2010 07:59 PM
Quote from: Bazemaster on 20-04-2010 02:49 PM
hmmm, but ini edo no fine reach omotala if you look at them when they are still in their early 20's
the only problem of omotala is her flat butt & round stomach...thats where she needs to do some
work by exercising not her Bosom  reduction..she should remember what happended to Obj's wife.
she has a cute face..
3228  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Whom are you missing right now on: 19-04-2010 11:50 PM
i miss the people that were crying when i left nigeria
3229  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What will u do if a guy tells u, his parents are first in his heart on: 19-04-2010 07:06 PM
Quote from: fiffy on 19-04-2010 11:56 AM
Quote from: sweetnsassy1 on 16-04-2010 05:33 AM
I'm just going to tell you what I think. If the husband here tells the wife his family -mother, father, etc. come first in his heart even if the mother in law is a nagger, and irritates you give of yourself....accept what he said if you want to make it work. If you are generous of yourself and do the best that you can to keep the mother in law happy, your husband will be happy. Also keep in mind, any small little thing you do for the family is like giving charity and will benefit yourself in the long run. You will be blessed for all you do...Your husband is the head of the house, and his feelings should be respected...but at same time, marriage is also a compromise and a wise husband if he sees how hard you are trying will learn to bend....and no matter how difficult it is do it with a smile and from your heart....

I was thinking tonight on my way home from hospital how best to make my future husband's mother happy as I really do want her to be comfortable and happy because if she is, then I know my husband will be happy which in turn will make me happy as well and our family will reap the benefits of his joy...
Let me tell you what u get in such Marriages.... His mother would have to be consulted b4 any decision is taken in your home, his family would all b4 comfortable b4 he remembers your own needs and that of your children,  you will never be able to build u your children's future because by the time he is thru with his family needs there is nothing left, meaning you will bear the whole responsibilty yourself, by the way what does the Bible  mean  about a man leaving father and mother to cling to his wife and they 2 shall become one... . truth is if a wife or husband is unhappy in a marriage cos of a third party there is every tendency of that marriage collapsing, Love ur wife first she is the bone of your  bones and the flesh of your flesh and she in turn would love your and take your  family as her own.....
i can see the bitterness in ur write up, pls let it go. is a woman's world , u can not change that history, the hand writing is on the wall. there's a bondage especially b/w mothers and her kids, u'll do the same thing when time comes. u're quoting bible, believe me if everybody doing what is written in the bible, this world could've been a better place to live. all u need to do is pray for better understanding in ur marriage.
3230  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: what turns u on... on: 19-04-2010 12:52 AM
Quote from: ebony_cutie on 18-04-2010 02:13 PM
Money
so money & credit card right?
3231  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: Senate to debate ex-gov’s marriage to minor on: 18-04-2010 09:41 PM
they should put efcc on his ass. $100,000.00 is not chicken fee. there is a lot of poor in nigeria that kind of money will
survive them for lifetime.
3232  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR BEST FRIEND IMPREGNANT YOUR DAUGHTER? on: 18-04-2010 09:31 PM
he deserve to die or marry this girl cos he had already killed this girl, since this girl can never have any
kids for damaging her womb. and i don't think this man is a true friend cos he imposed himself as a
friend just to get this man's daugther. and he doesn't love this girl cos he shouldn't have gone for
abortion but instead he should've presented himself for marriage since the damage has been done.
3233  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What will u do if a guy tells u, his parents are first in his heart on: 18-04-2010 08:34 PM
pls ladies, don't push too much of ur luck on this, cos if u do made him to choose u over his parents, u will
become a lifetime enemy with his parents. cos they will think u poisioned their son against them. they
might even go any lenght to get u. pls peace on u all & lets keeps hope alive thanks. Cool Cool Cool Smiley Smiley Smiley
3234  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What will u do if a guy tells u, his parents are first in his heart on: 18-04-2010 02:13 PM
anyway girls, is a woman thing. today u're a daugther inlaw crying, tomorrow u'll be a mother inlaw controlling & over protective of
ur son.
3235  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What will u do if a guy tells u, his parents are first in his heart on: 18-04-2010 05:40 AM
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H9EIRBb4BAQ" target="_blank" class="aeva_link bbc_link new_win" rel="nofollow">SWEET MOTHER - PRINCE NICO MBARGA (DULCE MADRE)WITH LYRICS.</a>
3236  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What will u do if a guy tells u, his parents are first in his heart on: 18-04-2010 05:17 AM
never a time u should let ur husband to choose b/w u & his mother. always try to make things work no matter how
bad it is. he already knows that u & his kids are his own family now. there is no way this guy will disown his mother
cos u're pushing him to. remember u're a woman, all goes around comes around. all women are the same, they
always got bad feelings about their daugther inlaws thinking u're not good enough for their sons. believe me u will
do the same thing when ur son gets married. remember the song of sweet mother that says if ur mother dies u can not
replace her but if ur wife dies u can marry another.
3237  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: What will u do if a guy tells u, his parents are first in his heart on: 18-04-2010 04:53 AM
Quote from: ksurrina on 16-04-2010 05:25 PM
Quote from: MEEZAK on 16-04-2010 04:07 PM
Always told my Girlfriend ...whatever gonna make you ask to ask me to choose between you and my mother...then always avoid that because you already know the ANSWER...its my MUM...so dont even ask.

Having a partner is the best thing that can happen to someone in life and if am livig with you and care for you...why will you ask me to choose between you and my parent. they raise me and i am who i am today because of them. So please ladies dont even go there

No good woman will tell their husband/boyfriend to choose between her and his parent. I remember sometime ago a guy I was building friendship was calling me mummy. I told him don't. Number 1 am not his mother and neither do I have a child for him. His answer was but you will be my wife and so mummy is my name for you. You will now be my mother and wife. I said choose another name because I can never replace your mother whether she dead or alive. Daughter in laws should never think that they can be a mother to their spouse.
now u're talking
3238  Forum / Relationships & Romance / Re: @Sugardaddy on: 18-04-2010 02:22 AM
Quote from: sweetnsassy1 on 17-04-2010 08:54 PM
How sad. ... I don't necessarily want a man because of his money ... my issue is if he is a good man who really loves me and isn't going to play around on me.....respects me and treats me as I should be treated and of course I would treat him like precious gold were he to be good to me and my daughter.
i know is sad girl, like i said most people doesn't marry for love. u will see girls with degrees that married the traders or shoe makers cos they got money at the time this girls want to get marry. they will dump their boy friends cos their boy friends are still looking for work after their gradation.  sweetnsassy1 i like ur stand on this, pls visit my profile so that we'll chat more.
3239  Forum / Relationships & Romance / WHAT WOULD YOU DO IF YOUR BEST FRIEND IMPREGNANT YOUR DAUGHTER? on: 18-04-2010 12:55 AM

Chief Emenike thought he had a best friend in Boniface. Their friendship had been a smooth one right from secondary school days. In a nutshell, Emenike, believing Boniface was someone he could trust, committed his family to his care while he takes his usual business trips. His wife and his beautiful daughter Ihuoma were thus at the mercy of Boniface.

Boniface was of great help to his friend’s family when Ihuoma was seeking admission into the university. He took her to school regularly and sometimes brings her back. Gradually he started taking her to the eatery from school and to his guesthouse.

Life became sour and later bitter with the result of uncle Boniface’s goodness: pregnancy. Initially the mother was confused. She said “No, my daughter is a decent girl, a virgin” But it was a big blow to her when the doctor’s report confirmed that Ihuoma was just two months pregnant.

Boniface was not aware of these developments, but on Chief Emenike’s arrival , he rushed down to the hospital to really see for himself if it was true. At this time the doctor confirmed that Ihuoma had taken some dangerous drugs to terminate the pregnancy, and this affected her kidney and womb. She may not be pregnant again.
On hearing this, Emenike sternly told her “tell me, who is the bastard you slept with”?
After a long silence and sobbing she opened the can of worms. Boniface, her father’s best friend did it.
Emenike’s eyes turned into fire and he blew hot and cold.

What would you do if your friend impregnates your daughter?

John Eke
I will design his face and forehead with matchet, I mean serious one.
I believe one day he would be a more responsible man and may have given his life to Christ or become a minister, a governor or a motivational speaker, but each time he picks his mirror to have a look at the wonderful things God has made him, he will quickly see the scars and remember what led to them.
That will teach him a lesson, although he might not be able to narrate to his family what happened to him, but he will always thank God that he is still alive.
jerry ochinyabo

First and foremost he has no business in the pants of my daughter, but on the contrary the damage has been done and I would have to live with the consequences.
If my daughter falls below the age of 18 or 20, he automatically has dissolved our friendship. But I do keep very good friends, so I guess they would behave and conduct themselves in manners that society and I can condone.

solomon
It has happened to some people we know, but let us keep the counsel of the church within the church.
One, you cannot apportion all the blame on the foolish man, rather, he got a green signal from the foolish girl, provided he did not rape her and provided it was not the first time he slept with her. Who knows what has been happening under the high heavens, even behind we her parents?

What do we know that she indulges in far in school? There are many girls who do terrible things outside their homes, sleep around for money, rent out their bodies for money and suffer for it in good time.
I will not disown my daughter . No, it is a matter of negotiation . It is either she gets married and stops education or pray that the baby is born pre-mature and that it dies and she can continue her education. One must happen.

Chris olugbeko
That question is somehow, but I will make sure I send both of them outside my house I mean what would you do to that friend?
I will ask the court to send him to life imprisonment.

Ishola OlajiIre
The first thing I will do is to check the man’s B.P, if he doesn’t have a high blood pressure, by God’s grace he will develop one before his case finally commences.
And by the special grace of God, I will take it up like a calabash of wine, till I accompany him to the prison doors before I turn back.

For the foolish daughter, she is not exempted from punishment because she has violated the ten commandments and the law of media and Persia, which says a girl should not know any man before she finally gets married, not even her mother would intercede for her. I may not send her out of my house, but she will stop her education and within forty-eight hours must come up with what she wants to do with the remnant of her life.
At this juncture, I, Ishola Olajiire, the bonafide son of my father cease to be responsible for an irresponsible girl, who ridiculed my name and my golden prestige I have built over the years. So help me God, Amen.
sunday taiwo

When such happens, the man should arrested, given some beating before interrogation or before the police arrive the scene. If the girl were to be my daughter, I will stop her education, but she would not marry this foolish animal called my betraying friend.
Back to the man, I will discipline him to the extent that no one will advise him to take to his heels each time he sets his eyes on a girl.

Sola Ojuolape
I will really be disappointed in my friend.
For my daughter, she also disappointed me without any reservations, I must say.
But I think the friend should be given a wide gap so he would not do a more terrible thing.
A friend that you cannot vouch for is worse than an enemy, because an enemy revealed is better than a friend who pretends to be friendly.
peter

Well, it all depends on the age bracket of my daughter. That is, if she is eighteen years and above. I will first hold her responsible for her misfortune.
Secondly, if she is below the said age, my friend will be held responsible . At that point, it means he has committed rape, and the law will take its course.

David
It is totally unthinkable and incomprehensible. I don’t know how to start, but should it happen, first, I will find out if he took advantage of her and if she is under age, he will go to jail. Even if she is not, the friendship will definitely end. If he had her consent before doing it, then my daughter will face the consequence, but I would not disown her.






 
 

 

 
 
 
 
 


3240  Forum / Naijapals Base (Metro life) / Re: COURT ALLOW TEEN TO MARRY GRANDMA on: 17-04-2010 09:41 PM
Quote from: ajanni on 17-04-2010 08:55 AM
Quote from: sugaDaddy1forU on 17-04-2010 12:14 AM
only in northern nigeria
is what  Huh?
u see this shit.
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