Let me be honest on this - 1st ths is nt a big deal, it happens alot especially whn u gradually get used to som1 on a daily or regular basis which might result to addiction to ths particular person. the only solution to this are just two:
Keep ur friendship with him and try all ur best to keep ur control. even till the end of ur program & don't be afraid wht might happen if the program ends cos i knw time heals a broken heart (u will get over him once u guys won't be seeing again. But, U HAVE TO CONTROL UR EMOTIONS & DO NOT GIVE HIM ANY GREEN LIGHT
To cure ur attraction & emotions, tell ur husband abt this just the same way u'v told us. i blive u have good taste which means u marry an exposed hubby tht reasons maturely nt the village type tht goes ga-ga on somtin like ths. we are all humans/animals & ar capable of falling in luv to 2 dif persons. promiscuity is in our blood but we mostly use our brain to control hw we feel.
these is why i keep a good friendship relationship with my girl so that she can be free to open up any stuff like this to me. if u want tht attraction to stop, tell ur hubby abt it & if he reacts badly, then he's nt worth been faithful to.
wow, men like u are really hard to find. 80% of men will go ga-ga if u tell them this, he will even accuse u straight away of cheating n things may sky-rocket to an unsolvable state...
My advice, pls hold n control dat ur emotions very well, dont not give away any sign that will tell him u ar attracted. what u feel is normal, whoever says it is not is a big Hypocrite!!! There's nothin wrong with u. Prayers too can help, pray to God to take away those feelings from you...Never have a two-aside with Him. Goodluck
som ladies just want to have fun and b happy.,,dey wont mind . some ladies want to hv fun, be happy n have a serious r/s dat will lead to marriage so this wont be acceptable to them.
Sophie i have a new life already and trust me, its the best kind of life!!! Atleast no one calls to monitor me every now and then. I dont have to tell lies i would have ordinarily avoided. I dont now have to give my itinerary for every innocent trip i make!!! Moreover, since most people go into relationships PRIMARILY because of a commodity that one can easily POINT & KILL on Allen Avenue or someoda sex markets, then why its not worth the time.
Atleast women have deregulated the downstream sector of a sacred commodity once revered by men, Men have decided to keep patronising different marketers. U for example, no be where ur fuel finish, u go enter filling station refill ur tank. Will u wait to get to that total filling station on ur street before u buy fuel?
hummmmm, so is this wat u mean by d best kind of life ehn ? i certainly dont tink so *smh*
Quote from: sophiebaby on 25-04-2012 05:45 PM
i knew ur hrt was teribly broken from ur comment...well as men are diff so are women...as for the fuel tin..bfor my fuel enter reserve sef..i go make sure i plan ahead to buy anoda one..or rada have it in mind that my fuel will soon finish..besides..i no fit enter anyhow filling station buy fuel..if not my engine go knock
as in knock serious knock oooooooo sharpest babe sis u never still give me d key na...apart 4rm *sex* how do u make a man crawl on his Knees? i really need to know ooo pls
If u re- read the poster comment ..she said she did so many things..which will includ sex.. But it ain't still working...what other thing or things would suggests apart from sex?
i didnt say sooooooo
Quote from: sophiebaby on 25-04-2012 05:31 PM
i stated above...and she said she has done all..well..she shud check herself well..maybe there are some oda things shes not telling that ensued while in the rltnshp
am not saying that dear... but sex is very very essential in any rltnshp... if u cant do it well..tell ur man..sit him down and talk it with him..if he love's u and is a good type dat listens..definitely he wud teach u, take u on some sex lectures and techniques.. both theory n practicals..with tym..u wud be his best and the woman he wud always wat to cheat with..not any other...do it in the kitchen,bathroom,staircase (if na una house o) in the car..(mehn..sex in the car is sweet) even in an hotel..when u both go out... anywhere e hungry u..just do it with him(ur man) with tym...he'll even be running away from sex.. and wud always wat to do it with u..sometyms he might be at work..remember the styles u gave him..KPAM! he would rush home..just to be with u