Too funny...but it's everywhere.  You will never imagine the things people discuss on their phones out in public oooo

The report discloses 750,000 abortions but as with any survey, report, study, etc. the true numbers are usually much higher.  Accounting for those who are single, married, but what of those raped and the underage girls who were violated?  Are they always trackable or recorded?  No.  Not even all the abortions carried out on single and married ladies are tracable or recorded.  Abortion kills an innocent life before they even set foot on the earth to carry out the purpose/destiny God gave to him or her for the good of humanity.  It's a painful thought that so many girls/women (all over the world) are using abortion as a form of birth control.    

Turdue, for us women who haven't wronged you in anyway, WE are still waiting for an apology.  If someone wants to beat you with a stick, will you allow them just because they want to?   No, I don't think so.  You don't have to let a woman use you, just because she wants to.  Fake girlfriend or not.  If you feel the girl is about money and is only using you...just tell her and show her you're about something else.  End the relationship...better for you now and better for her in the long run. 

My sister na lie ooo!  That is one of the devil's biggest lies...because, what you don't know can kill you dead. Just look at all the people dying from AIDS either from transfusion or segxwally transmited.  Did they know or did the hospital know the blood or the person was infected NO but the person still suffers.  It's soo sad.  What if the cheating husband now spread germs/bacteria from being with slimmy women to his wife?  The wife is blindly trusting her husband when the inappropriate phone calls from other women tells her she should not... but investigate.  The wife's choosing not to know the truth is putting her life in danger?  True or False?

It is not good to pick up your husband's or anyone's call Unless they give you permission to answer the phone when it rings.  The other side of it is, if the husband is not hiding anything (or anyone), then the husband feels free to have his wife answer his calls and will let her know just that.  Many women do and will get upset when one or more of those slimmy women take action to lust after their man, as that type of woman is coveting.  The wife's feelings are normal at this point.  What's worse, the husband allows it, even is chasing such women himself.  Who can live a peaceful, happy, harmonious life with a partner drowning in deceit, lies, abuse (not physical) and unfaithfulness?  Only one whose head is kept buried in the sand (not facing reality).   

Poster, sorry to say, it seems she used you as her rebound guy.  She was just dumped by her ex-guy and all the feelings she had for him, she tried to transfer onto you.  When you became more than friends with her, she realised within herself that she really didn't love or like you.  Though, it maybe painful, the best may be to just let her go and see what happens.  It would have been better if she took some time to heal from her old relationship before jumping into a new one with you. 

Poster, women are not the biggest fools ever.  And, us women who do not do the things that some women have done to you to fuel  your anger and frustration, would like an apology?  It is not good for a woman to be asking a man she just met or is getting to know to buy her things...NO!  Abeg, I know it happens but it's not suppose to be like that (nor men asking women).  If a girl comes at you like that, see the big red flag and know she is only out to use a brother.  That one will take take and take, so don't get mad just find your way...the best.   

I agree sixtyhoney.  What was shared means that he doesn't love either girl because if it was truly love, he would not have cheated on both of them with each other. This is an example of the worldly fake love (lust) which is ultimately selfishness.  The best thing is probably to let them both go so they can find the man that will love them alone.   

I can not marry someone I do not love because it would be a wrong decision for me and for them.  Taking a chance that one will grow to love another the way they want and need to be loved is giving a false hope.  As well, if you know you don't love the person and keep them in the relationship with false hope, you are also keeping them from being available for the person who Will love them the way they want and need to be loved.  To marry someone you don't love, to me, is 100% pure selfishness.  It should always be remembered that what you do to another, you also do to yourself.   

ANYONE FROM ANYWHERE who does not tell their partner before marriage what they should know before marriage is creating trouble for themself!    The same, if two want to marry and are from different tribes, cultures, countries, etc. both must make sure to educate the other on things they NEED to know about the culture, norms, etc. before marriage, NOT AFTER.  It's the hidden things not shared that are bound to burst out after marriage that can and do cause serious damage and/or death to a relationship.   If both are fair and trust each other, disclosing the truth {necessary information to make the best decision for oneself} before marriage shows they truly love and have the other person's best interest at heart as well.     

The guy is ultimately wrong because he knew he had a wife to be and still allowed himself to chase after some other girl.  Even now the girl is pregnant and an innocent baby is now involved.  The guy's bad actions will hurt his fiancee the most.  (Now or later, he will eat the pains from this deceitful decision)  The girl doesn't know the wife to be (maybe) but knew the guy has a fiancee and still went ahead to sleep with him...she to is too wrong.  Even she wronged herself because she lowered herself to be with someone elses man. (Now and later because she's pregnant she will eat the most pain from this selfish decision)  She also wronged an innocent person, the guy's fiancee (God is against those who hurt innocent people).  The girl is an intruder that the guy allowed into his and his fiancee's relationship.  In plain truth, this guy gave that girl the power to negatively interfere and affect his life and his fiancee's life.  Too much ooo...not even worth it!!!   [/color]

This is good advice.  Come clean on everything, draw close to God and don't let go of him.  Get real warriors of God, those God calls his people to join you in this battle.  (Beware of those who say they are God's people, when God does not even know them at all...they are fake)   

To all the single people who are doing it God's way...may you receive everything and more, in Jesus name.   What we wish from our partner, we should also offer to our partner.  Please don't believe the lies of those controlled by the spirit of lust!!!   [/size] [/size] [/color] [/b] [/color]

Most importantly, married people are off limits.  Those who NEED (lustfilled negative attention) inappropriate admiring stares and attention from any and everybody, especially the married, exhibits very low self-esteem.  Interferring in a marriage just to momentarily satify a controlable urge in a negative way is starting a war with God.  The person will never win that war ooo. 

****** There is nothing wrong with admiring an attractive person, God made them so but admiring, lusting and coveting are different all together.  If one notices an attractive persons and moves eyes, thoughts and actions away from the person...no harm.  God is great ooo!!!!  If one notices an attractive person and the eyes now become glued to their body or face.  As the eyes look so, inappropriate thoughts about the person is flowing, thus nappropriate actions will be the result sooner or later.  Can a person whose mind is constantly on another or others give ONE the proper time and attention?  A husband or wife who visually and constantly lusts after the opposite sex is mentally preoccupied and opens the door to temptation.  Even more disgraceful when it now gets to the point where they can not even control it...the spirit of lust now controls them.   

Thoughts will come ooo but if one is not married or if one is married but away from their partner....squash the thoughts as soon as they come to mind.  Continue to do so each time, everytime and the thoughts to do what one shouldn't do will go away.